Quantity vs. Quality?

[jadefirefly]

Would you rather have unsatisfying sex, or no sex at all?

IF you choose quantity...
While having that unsatisfying sex, which is more important: the size of the boat, or the motion in the ocean?

 

[BeachGurl2]

Would you rather have unsatisfying sex, or no sex at all?

IF you choose quantity...
While having that unsatisfying sex, which is more important: the size of the boat, or the motion in the ocean?

If it's going to be unsatisfying, I'd rather take care of business myself.

 

[jadefirefly]

Yeah. That's what I'm starting to think.

 

[caela]

Most of the time I'd rather have less frequent but satisfying sex but now and then I just need the feel of a man moving inside of me more than I actually need to orgasm. I can do that on my own and generally better than 99% of the men I've met anyway lol.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

You can have unsatifying sex by yourself, so why bring in a helper. A woman comedian said in her act, woman aren't guaranteed good sex so when they have good dick they can live off the memory of it.

 

[Shankara20]

If it's going to be unsatisfying, I'd rather take care of business myself.

I never thought the day would arrive that I would say the same thing, but "the same thing"

I will not take the risk to open up to someone for "a little".

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Call me lazy

Unsatisfying sex is too much like hard work.

I can lie back alone and disappear anywhere, do anything...

And not have to sleep in the wet patch afterwards

 

[jadefirefly]

So so far, the overall gist of the message I'm seeing is this:

Don't waste time on the barely-there, barely-skilled boys anymore.

I think I can handle that.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

So so far, the overall gist of the message I'm seeing is this:

Don't waste time on the barely-there, barely-skilled boys anymore.

I think I can handle that.

Unless you want to spend the time and train them to please you.

 

[shy slave]

The problem with 'barely there, barely skilled' is age is not a measure.

So you have to have sex with them to find out if its going to be satisfying or not.

*sigh*

What a job

I still have the naive belief that regardless of many things, a man may have an interesting cock and therefore it may be worth exploring.

That said, if its dull sex I won't go there again, not even to check if the first time was a mistake

Even though Andante and I are in an LDR, we do see each other regularly (not regularly enough, but more than some LDR couples), in between times I have various gadgets and an imagination to keep the cobwebs at bay inbetween his visits


On a side note Leeroy, I hate training a man, if I wanted to do that I would be a Domme or buy a dog. All my long term ex's were pre-trained, I just had to fine tune and maintain them, before passing them onto another woman packaged and stamped as 'a job well done' ROFL

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

Why can you not have both?

 

[graceanne]

I'm with ImmortaleAmante. Sometimes we're just too tired to go to the effort of satisfying sex. *shrugs* So we have a quickie, just to take the edge off till we have the time and energy for something more fulfilling. And frankly I'd rather have a quickie than nothing at all.

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

Exactly usually there are at least two having sex and i have always found no matter how inexperienced my partner may be i always give 100% and get satisfaction back.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

There is no excuse for unsatisfactory sex...ever!

If you can't please yourself how can you expect another to?

Pitch in...help a little when needed.

d

 

[Shankara20]

*sigh* dilemma

living alone - no good playmate around, no fuck buddy

do you go out and go to all the troubler of finding someone that probably will turnout to be bad at sex

or do you just do-it-yourself?






it is Saturday night and I am at home.....

 

[leeroy jenkins]

*sigh* dilemma

living alone - no good playmate around, no fuck buddy

do you go out and go to all the troubler of finding someone that probably will turnout to be bad at sex

or do you just do-it-yourself?






it is Saturday night and I am at home.....

What is sad Shank is one of the bdsm clubs is doing a Fetish ball and I lack any fetish gear so I am staying home too.

 

[Shankara20]

What is sad Shank is one of the bdsm clubs is doing a Fetish ball and I lack any fetish gear so I am staying home too.

sorry to hear that L J.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

sorry to hear that L J.

I'm not, I might not get out to see our local freaks and geeks but I am still going to get to play with someone tonight even if its just here on lit. Besides I did stretch myself a bit and attened our young adult to mid 30's club's munch. Not sure what I would beable to wear while having needles in my body or being bound with some rope.

 

[saw_man1]

Seeing the future.

I suppose if I had a crystal ball and could tell that the sex I was preparing to have with someone I did not care deeply about was going to be lousy, then I would just skip it.

 

[SouthernDom]

For me,at this point of life......it is all about the quality.

I have struggled through a few hopelessly unchanging nilla relationships in the past.

It's not fair to either party involved to have to go through a relationship that either one of us is not totally comfortable and fulfilled with in regards to our sexuality.

It takes a loving,willing, submissive female to get my attention and hold it,anything less will not get my interest up.

I cannot go through a self-inflicted mindfuck again,i know what i hunger for in a sexual partner and refuse to settle for anything less.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm a fortunate one, I have both quality and quantity all with one extraordinary man.

Catalina

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I'm a fortunate one, I have both quality and quantity all with one extraordinary man.

Catalina

geez Catalina rub it in why don't you

Oops what I really meant was 'Ohh thats wonderful '

Just playin ........smiles..........waves to Francisco

Ohhh just gave me an idea ..........the metaphor 'rubbing salt into wounds' now there is another idea for edge play

actually it would act as an antiseptic huh.........pleaseeeeee don't tell me you have done it

 

[shy slave]

I suppose if I had a crystal ball and could tell that the sex I was preparing to have with someone I did not care deeply about was going to be lousy, then I would just skip it.

Oh this is my 'smile of the day' post.

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

I'm a fortunate one, I have both quality and quantity all with one extraordinary man.

Catalina


Same here.

 

[riverofshudder]

Maybe when I was younger I didn't care, sex was sex...if I was getting some great. Most of my past subs I've not cared and if sex happened it was just something we did. I used to masturbate alot as well. An orgasm was an orgasm and they all felt good....but....

My current sub and I have been having some of the most "mind blowing-toe-curling-both our entire bodies quivering against each other post orgasm-both of us spent and unable to move-out of breath-holy shit le't do that again when we can move "type sex that it has fully reafirmed my belief in "Quality over Quantity"...lucky for me currently I'm getting both given the realites of our lives right now...

I'm (we) are 100% clear as to why it's so good for us (think communication and a unforced and natural fit) and we both agree we wouldn't change it for anything, even when we can't spend the time together we do now....