When a married couple separate for a while (dropping hubby off at the subway station, etc), they usually kiss- same when they meet again. I'm looking for a gesture that would indicate submission, that can be used in public. Somethhing that means "remember- my body is yours, as well as my heart and soul, until we meet again". Any ideas will be appreciated.
Public Gestures of Submission
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I would press my head against is chest (over his heart) when we embraced for our good byes. (By the way, he was alot taller than I.)
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DixieDom said:
To *ME*,...this would fall under ~Rituals~ (and I love them). It should be something simple, but MEANINGFUL to him.
A stick of his favorite chewing gum, (grasped at each end by either set of thumb and forefinger), presented as an offering with arms extended fully. It may be kissed or not, (depending on His preference).
I like THIS one because,...later,... when he opens it up,...he will be thinking of YOU, ...as he pushes it into His mouth,...he will be thinking of YOU,...as the sweetness permeates His palate,...he will be thinking of YOU.
It can be done with small wrapped HARD candies etc. or something else that he uses on a daily basis. I also like it for it takes little time, and sometimes those alarm clocks have a way of getting us RUSHED.
You may wish to have something to SEPARATE the going away from the HELLO ritual. A *WARNING* to ALL,...once this is INITIATED,...there is NO turning back, He will EXPECT it to be done EVERYTIME. Good Luck Dixi,...I hope this helps ya out.
(BTW: I don't chew gum-LMAO)
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I don't know about others, but for Master and I we do kiss. Also he will hold me tightly to himself. Its a feeling like no other.
This is also the normal hello for us too (provided he hasn't been in field training for 3 weeks...lol.)
To me the submission is there, and his control over me is there, so I guess that's really all that matters.
dixi
This is also the normal hello for us too (provided he hasn't been in field training for 3 weeks...lol.)
To me the submission is there, and his control over me is there, so I guess that's really all that matters.
dixi
Whenever your owner leaves, it's important to remember that he or she does not want to leave you but has to, either due to important business or due to a sincere need to discipline you with his/her absence.
So it's more important than anyone might think that you provide your owner with a symbol of your obedience and respect at this time. The most valued expressions of submission and love are those that are publicly humiliating to the much loved sub. many of these will get you arrested. (a wonderful sub I lived with for 2 years used to have to take out her breasts, put her hands behind her neck and kiss me when I left)
as a sign of intimate obedience, when your owner leaves,
1. place your hands at your master's waist, grasping his/her belt. This will show your helplessness.
2. Lean into your master's chest and turn your head to the right, opening your mouth. If your owner wishes, he/she may then take his or her right arm and wrap it around your head, inserting a finger into your open mouth for you to suck. This signifies your master's penetration and ownership of you.
3. When the finger is removed, keeping your hands on the belt, you will kiss his/her chest near the heart once. This represents your desire that you will be owned with love
4. You will then kiss his/her neck once. This signifies your submission to all parts of the ownership.
5. You will then kiss your master on the lips for as long as he or she wishes. This represents your union as a willful agreement between you both.
Your slave contract should include the details of how you will say goodbye to and greet your owner, including what you are permitted to wear.
So it's more important than anyone might think that you provide your owner with a symbol of your obedience and respect at this time. The most valued expressions of submission and love are those that are publicly humiliating to the much loved sub. many of these will get you arrested. (a wonderful sub I lived with for 2 years used to have to take out her breasts, put her hands behind her neck and kiss me when I left)
as a sign of intimate obedience, when your owner leaves,
1. place your hands at your master's waist, grasping his/her belt. This will show your helplessness.
2. Lean into your master's chest and turn your head to the right, opening your mouth. If your owner wishes, he/she may then take his or her right arm and wrap it around your head, inserting a finger into your open mouth for you to suck. This signifies your master's penetration and ownership of you.
3. When the finger is removed, keeping your hands on the belt, you will kiss his/her chest near the heart once. This represents your desire that you will be owned with love
4. You will then kiss his/her neck once. This signifies your submission to all parts of the ownership.
5. You will then kiss your master on the lips for as long as he or she wishes. This represents your union as a willful agreement between you both.
Your slave contract should include the details of how you will say goodbye to and greet your owner, including what you are permitted to wear.
"angel" eve
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goodbye hello
my girl and i have a somewhat strange relationship as far as D/s goes. we both switch however on a daily basis i tend to be submissive and her dominant, while in play i tend towards dominant.
when we're saying hello and goodbye it tends to be that i will be the submissive. although there are days when it can be the other way around depending on how we are both feeling (and what we've been playing).
i am not required, but i will walk to the bus stop with her when she leaves for work (provided it don't have to be at work myself) and wait with her. as we see the bus coming i will hug her, and rub my cheek against her shoulder or chest and give her a kiss by her ear. she will hug me tight and then i wil leave her.
when she returns home i will bid her to sit down, bring her a glass of juice or water as she wishes *with ice* and help her take her shoes off. when she is ready she will stretch out on the couch, and will sit at the end, her feet on my lap and i will give her a foot rub, because she has been on her feet all day.
when one of us leaves for longer periods of time the ritual varries. if a friend is driving us we will act differently than if it is a family memeber we are leaving with. we also have to consider that we are going to generate some staring just by the fact that we are both female. any "strange" rituals will only increase this. it depends on if we are among strangers or aquaintances mostly.
hope that gives you some insight.
my girl and i have a somewhat strange relationship as far as D/s goes. we both switch however on a daily basis i tend to be submissive and her dominant, while in play i tend towards dominant.
when we're saying hello and goodbye it tends to be that i will be the submissive. although there are days when it can be the other way around depending on how we are both feeling (and what we've been playing).
i am not required, but i will walk to the bus stop with her when she leaves for work (provided it don't have to be at work myself) and wait with her. as we see the bus coming i will hug her, and rub my cheek against her shoulder or chest and give her a kiss by her ear. she will hug me tight and then i wil leave her.
when she returns home i will bid her to sit down, bring her a glass of juice or water as she wishes *with ice* and help her take her shoes off. when she is ready she will stretch out on the couch, and will sit at the end, her feet on my lap and i will give her a foot rub, because she has been on her feet all day.
when one of us leaves for longer periods of time the ritual varries. if a friend is driving us we will act differently than if it is a family memeber we are leaving with. we also have to consider that we are going to generate some staring just by the fact that we are both female. any "strange" rituals will only increase this. it depends on if we are among strangers or aquaintances mostly.
hope that gives you some insight.
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Public gestures for the unattached
I had to think about this one for a while.
I have two part-time subs and both relationships are very different. One is long lived (1 1/2 years), and the other is relatively new (1 month).
sissy has been with me the longest and it is the non-romantic one. How we behave in public depends on our destination. When we visit fetish events he is more overtlysubmissive in that he calls me Mistress. In public, he calls me by my given name, which is code for Mistress.
bitchboy is the relationship with the "magic", and it is getting more and more touchy feely. He does what sissy does, (i.e. opens doors pulls out chairs, etc.) but he is not as overtly vanilla in public. Also, there is more kissing in greetings that with sissy.
bitchboy calls me by my given name in public too, but for some reason, it sounds more submissive the way he does it.
Ebony
I had to think about this one for a while.
I have two part-time subs and both relationships are very different. One is long lived (1 1/2 years), and the other is relatively new (1 month).
sissy has been with me the longest and it is the non-romantic one. How we behave in public depends on our destination. When we visit fetish events he is more overtlysubmissive in that he calls me Mistress. In public, he calls me by my given name, which is code for Mistress.
bitchboy is the relationship with the "magic", and it is getting more and more touchy feely. He does what sissy does, (i.e. opens doors pulls out chairs, etc.) but he is not as overtly vanilla in public. Also, there is more kissing in greetings that with sissy.
bitchboy calls me by my given name in public too, but for some reason, it sounds more submissive the way he does it.
Ebony
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