Prostatectomy

[Peyronie]

5 years ago, I had my prostate removed due to cancer. The prostate produces semen, providing the liquid that the sperm swims in. Since I no longer have a prostate, I can’t ejaculate. I still feels really good when my penis is stimulated, and I can orgasm, but there is no definite ‘finish’ that I experienced when I could ejaculate. So I just have to decide when I’ve had enough. Very weird.

My libido is still very strong. On Lit, I just fantasize about how I used to feel when I had a prostate.

I’d be interested in hearing from other men who’ve had prostatectomies, what their experiences are. Also interested in hearing from women whose partners had prostatectomies.

 

[Gregola]

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

 

[Brittttlvr]

5 years ago, I had my prostate removed due to cancer. The prostate produces semen, providing the liquid that the sperm swims in. Since I no longer have a prostate, I can’t ejaculate. I still feels really good when my penis is stimulated, and I can orgasm, but there is no definite ‘finish’ that I experienced when I could ejaculate. So I just have to decide when I’ve had enough. Very weird.

My libido is still very strong. On Lit, I just fantasize about how I used to feel when I had a prostate.

I’d be interested in hearing from other men who’ve had prostatectomies, what their experiences are. Also interested in hearing from women whose partners had prostatectomies.

That’s interesting. I hear that the surgery shortens the penis as well, is that your experience?

 

[Peyronie]

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

It can be very pleasurable, but it’s different because there’s not necessarily the same sense of being finished. Also, climacturia is a problem. Sometimes I squirt urine when I orgasm, which can be unpleasant for my partner. We’ve talked about that recently, and I’ll wear a condom to catch the urine.

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

 

[Peyronie]

That’s interesting. I hear that the surgery shortens the penis as well, is that your experience?

No, my penis isn’t shorter. I don’t get as hard, though. I could take meds for that, but meanwhile I also have Peyronie’s , which is a bent penis. So we can’t have intercourse. She jacks me off after I finger her.

 

[Gregola]

It can be very pleasurable, but it’s different because there’s not necessarily the same sense of being finished. Also, climacturia is a problem. Sometimes I squirt urine when I orgasm, which can be unpleasant for my partner. We’ve talked about that recently, and I’ll wear a condom to catch the urine.

I've never heard of climacturia before. I looked it up and it seems very common after your type of surgery. About half find the symptom disappear after a couple of years, but otherwise, it persists. Sorry to hear that. I hope you find someone who enjoys being sprayed.

 

[gregor2001us]

I had my prostate removed more like 20 years ago. Benign enlargement restricting urine flow. While nothing comes out, I have a full climax, definite end. or finish. In a very real sense, it is nice to have no mess to clean up, smile.

 

[spurtman2]

I had my prostate removed about 1 1/2 years ago. Like others here, I very much miss the ability to shoot semen (and I miss the "visual" that comes along with that), but am able to achieve a partial erection and "cum" (achieve a release) -- sometimes faster than I'd like. My question is this: Given that the well is dry, has anyone who've had their prostate removed been able to have multiple orgasms? I can't say I've tried this (or gotten my wife to help me to more than one cum), but I'd like to think it's possible . . . . and perhaps a way to make up for the lack of those glorious cumshots of yesteryear!

 

[txrc2001]

5 years ago, I had my prostate removed due to cancer. The prostate produces semen, providing the liquid that the sperm swims in. Since I no longer have a prostate, I can’t ejaculate. I still feels really good when my penis is stimulated, and I can orgasm, but there is no definite ‘finish’ that I experienced when I could ejaculate. So I just have to decide when I’ve had enough. Very weird.

My libido is still very strong. On Lit, I just fantasize about how I used to feel when I had a prostate.

I’d be interested in hearing from other men who’ve had prostatectomies, what their experiences are. Also interested in hearing from women whose partners had prostatectomies.

I had the same surgery and I think it was the worst decision I ever made. I am single. When I'm honest with a girl before meeting and tell them I dont ejaculate, I've been ghosted multiple times. Life goes on...

 

[DLS66]

That's what I was wondering about Txrc2001, since I've had my surgery, was wondering if the ladies would just stay away after hearing my story.

 

[1960curious]

I had prostate cancer and had my prostate removed February of 2024. I then had to have 38 radiation treatments. I was done with the radiation October 2024.
I am just now at times able to get a semi-hard erection.
I do miss the ejaculation, I always loved watching my cum shoot out of my cock.
My wife and I try to have sex, just not the same. I do still love finging her wet pussy and rubbing her clit. She does have orgasms when I do this.
I get semi-hard, not hard enough for pentatration.
I always have to JO and I do finally get there.
My orgasms are very stong, I just miss the release.

I have started watching more and more cumming videos.

 

[Peyronie]

I had prostate cancer and had my prostate removed February of 2024. I then had to have 38 radiation treatments. I was done with the radiation October 2024.
I am just now at times able to get a semi-hard erection.
I do miss the ejaculation, I always loved watching my cum shoot out of my cock.
My wife and I try to have sex, just not the same. I do still love finging her wet pussy and rubbing her clit. She does have orgasms when I do this.
I get semi-hard, not hard enough for pentatration.
I always have to JO and I do finally get there.
My orgasms are very stong, I just miss the release.

I have started watching more and more cumming videos.

I have similar experience. I finger and rub her, to orgasm, and then she jacks me off. I’ve taken to wearing a condom when she does this, due to climacturia (spurting urine). I do really miss ejaculating semen.

 

[1960curious]

I have similar experience. I finger and rub her, to orgasm, and then she jacks me off. I’ve taken to wearing a condom when she does this, due to climacturia (spurting urine). I do really miss ejaculating semen.

That is my problem too, urine leak, I will have to try a condom too.
Thanks

 

[spurtman2]

That is my problem too, urine leak, I will have to try a condom too.
Thanks

I'm with both you guys, having had my prostate removed in October 2024 -- can still get partially hard (but not hard enough for penetrative sex), enjoy playing with wife, who does same to me and vice versa as you guys, but do miss the visual aspects of "spurting" (hence my WL name!).

Regarding the spurting urine, there is one thing I do that kind of brings back the days of cumshots -- but it requires some privacy and a shower . . . . Sometimes I'll JO with a less-than-empty bladder, and "finish" standing by the open door of my shower. The "piss shot" is pretty spectacular (at least to me), and is easily cleaned. Something I do on my own, of course!

 

[RideMeSlowly]

Couple of years post prostatectomy here, as my female doctor said the prostate makes the juice for the semen. I can get a full erection now after using a prescribed vacuum device and viagra for a while. I can get a full feeling orgasm no problem and my dick gets very hard, I'm 61 now. Only problem is my wife is no longer really interested in sex. I enjoy solo play and can easily control if I shoot pee or not sometimes I do and enjoy that. If men are struggling with erections you can get help.

 

[Peyronie]

I do have a vacuum pump, and after prostatectomy, was prescribed Viagra. But I have Peyronie’s disease, a bent penis. So even if I get an erection, I can’t really hav penetrative intercourse; it’s not at the right angle, and can be painful.

My wife is not interested in oral sex. She’s turned off by shooting pee. So here’s what we do: I finger her, using oil for lubrication. I love how she moans when she cums - what a turn on. Then she uses oil on me. When I’m getting close, she wraps my cock in tissues, and I shoot into the tissues, moaning like crazy.

Usually while this is going on, I’m thinking about how it used to be years ago, when I would fuck her deep and shoot semen deep inside her, and we’d often cum at the same time. Happy, hot memories.

 

[spurtman2]

Couple of years post prostatectomy here, as my female doctor said the prostate makes the juice for the semen. I can get a full erection now after using a prescribed vacuum device and viagra for a while. I can get a full feeling orgasm no problem and my dick gets very hard, I'm 61 now. Only problem is my wife is no longer really interested in sex. I enjoy solo play and can easily control if I shoot pee or not sometimes I do and enjoy that. If men are struggling with erections you can get help.

Keep on keeping on, brother! My wife, too, seems to be less interested in sex these days. I'd like to think that it's her age (she's 72, I'm 65), and not the fact that I'm no longer a cum-spurting "stud" (LOL). That said, she usually responds if I get really horny and make it apparent I'm interested -- typically we trade oral and she "finishes me off" with a vigorous hand job and/or titty fuck.

 

[Beholders_Eye]

I had my prostate radiated away many years ago. In the meantime I have found great satisfaction with the penis pump and cock ring combination. Occasionally I wish I had semen but mostly I'm happy without the mess. I do not have a partner at present but enjoy protracted sessions and edging. I think each person just has to figure out what works to keep us happy and satisfied.

 

[ArabianNights]

Wow, what an amazing thread. As a 52 yo male, this has worried me. But after reading the above posts, if I ever get Prostate Cancer there is a sexual light at the end of the tunnel. This information should be communicated to all men, so they are not scared. Thank you

 

[Riverliver]

I also had a prostateomy 5 years ago, a radical one, where they removed the neck of the bladder also. I had a vasectomy years ago so don't produce seven or sperm. I do still get horny, and do orgasm with no discharge. I don't get hard enough for intercourse but there are so many other options. I did want to add that the recovery from surgery was not painful, only discomfort from the catheter. My cock, balls, and ass all enjoy stimulation just like before. My decision for surgery over other treatment was based on the highest survival rate. This is an important thread for men and I'm sure all of us that have been through this would be happy to answer any questions from those of you that might have them.

 

[Gregola]

I also had a prostateomy 5 years ago, a radical one, where they removed the neck of the bladder also. I had a vasectomy years ago so don't produce seven or sperm. I do still get horny, and do orgasm with no discharge. I don't get hard enough for intercourse but there are so many other options. I did want to add that the recovery from surgery was not painful, only discomfort from the catheter. My cock, balls, and ass all enjoy stimulation just like before. My decision for surgery over other treatment was based on the highest survival rate. This is an important thread for men and I'm sure all of us that have been through this would be happy to answer any questions from those of you that might have them.

Thanks for that info. You never know when you might need to know that...

 

[eomerson]

I did not have cancer or full removal. However even a TURP where they essentially use a laser to widen the passage results in the loss of semen being ejaculated. So just some info for folks reading without issues yet. Also...glad all of the folks above this have survived and hope they stay healthy.