Prostatectomy

[Peyronie]

5 years ago, I had my prostate removed due to cancer. The prostate produces semen, providing the liquid that the sperm swims in. Since I no longer have a prostate, I can’t ejaculate. I still feels really good when my penis is stimulated, and I can orgasm, but there is no definite ‘finish’ that I experienced when I could ejaculate. So I just have to decide when I’ve had enough. Very weird.

My libido is still very strong. On Lit, I just fantasize about how I used to feel when I had a prostate.

I’d be interested in hearing from other men who’ve had prostatectomies, what their experiences are. Also interested in hearing from women whose partners had prostatectomies.

 

[Gregola]

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

 

[Brittttlvr]

5 years ago, I had my prostate removed due to cancer. The prostate produces semen, providing the liquid that the sperm swims in. Since I no longer have a prostate, I can’t ejaculate. I still feels really good when my penis is stimulated, and I can orgasm, but there is no definite ‘finish’ that I experienced when I could ejaculate. So I just have to decide when I’ve had enough. Very weird.

My libido is still very strong. On Lit, I just fantasize about how I used to feel when I had a prostate.

I’d be interested in hearing from other men who’ve had prostatectomies, what their experiences are. Also interested in hearing from women whose partners had prostatectomies.

That’s interesting. I hear that the surgery shortens the penis as well, is that your experience?

 

[Peyronie]

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

It can be very pleasurable, but it’s different because there’s not necessarily the same sense of being finished. Also, climacturia is a problem. Sometimes I squirt urine when I orgasm, which can be unpleasant for my partner. We’ve talked about that recently, and I’ll wear a condom to catch the urine.

Is the orgasm itself as pleasurable as before? Is it a different kind of pleasure? Asking because a potential partner is in your situation and I want to understand.

 

[Peyronie]

That’s interesting. I hear that the surgery shortens the penis as well, is that your experience?

No, my penis isn’t shorter. I don’t get as hard, though. I could take meds for that, but meanwhile I also have Peyronie’s , which is a bent penis. So we can’t have intercourse. She jacks me off after I finger her.

 

[Gregola]

It can be very pleasurable, but it’s different because there’s not necessarily the same sense of being finished. Also, climacturia is a problem. Sometimes I squirt urine when I orgasm, which can be unpleasant for my partner. We’ve talked about that recently, and I’ll wear a condom to catch the urine.

I've never heard of climacturia before. I looked it up and it seems very common after your type of surgery. About half find the symptom disappear after a couple of years, but otherwise, it persists. Sorry to hear that. I hope you find someone who enjoys being sprayed.

 

[gregor2001us]

I had my prostate removed more like 20 years ago. Benign enlargement restricting urine flow. While nothing comes out, I have a full climax, definite end. or finish. In a very real sense, it is nice to have no mess to clean up, smile.