Prostate Orgasm

[MrMikelobe1952]

Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I just don't know if it is really possible.

You should not start thinking you're not "doing it right." For everything in sex, each person is unique. He said that his orgasms were more intense. Not everyone is going to have a spectacular reaction. Indeed, you should probably read the reports of results with some skepticism. In almost anything involving sex, men often exagerate. I'm sure you've run into it.

For me, it feels best when she is stroking my cock at the same time. It adds to the feeling, it feels different, but when I cum without stimulation of my penis to go with it, the results are actually less intense.

Just have fun.

 

[Wonderer67]

Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I just don't know if it is really possible.

Everyone is different. My wife has pegged me with a strap on, or use a dildo on me probably 100 times. I’ve also used dildos to masturbate with and pleasure myself with.

I’ve had a hands free orgasm twice. For whatever reason it’s really hard for me to ejaculate that way. I can have prostate orgasms no problem, but can’t seem to ejaculate from it. Wish I could.

It’s still fun tho and feels amazing.

 

[MargotPayge]

Well. I guess we'll just accept what is. But I am not going to stop trying, as long as he is willing.

 

[masterslave00]

Well. I guess we'll just accept what is. But I am not going to stop trying, as long as he is willing.

If he is not willing, he does not deserve you!

 

[MargotPayge]

Well, no matter what, I'll get some good ideas for stories! The goal is to write hot, believable scenes with hot, believable orgasms. If most of them are boring, those are the ones I'll leave out. LOL

 

[masterslave00]

Well, no matter what, I'll get some good ideas for stories! The goal is to write hot, believable scenes with hot, believable orgasms. If most of them are boring, those are the ones I'll leave out. LOL

DM me if you want to discuss some ideas...

 

[Lucien_Al]

You should not start thinking you're not "doing it right." For everything in sex, each person is unique. He said that his orgasms were more intense. Not everyone is going to have a spectacular reaction. Indeed, you should probably read the reports of results with some skepticism. In almost anything involving sex, men often exagerate. I'm sure you've run into it.

For me, it feels best when she is stroking my cock at the same time. It adds to the feeling, it feels different, but when I cum without stimulation of my penis to go with it, the results are actually less intense.

Just have fun.

I think you have it spot on.

I have been trying prostate play with my wife for about 8 months with varying success. The first time I used a normal plug and she stroked me with lots of lube. I ended up having the biggest orgasm ever imagined and was completely wiped out.

This got me onto wanting to try hands free and bought an Aneros Helix. did absolutely nothing after about 10 uses. Didn't even get properly hard.

Bought a prostate massager and it didnt do anything and if she finished me off by stroking me it was really just a reasonable handjob. Tried using her finger but also was not able find the spot.

On a business trip I resolved to give the Helix another try over a period of a week (every article I read about the Helix indicated that it would take time). This time around the results were a little better where after about an hour of wearing and playing online I could feel some of the effects that are described but still no hands free or really massive orgasm. Found the best position was lying on my stomach on a pillow, with a Tenga on my cock and then doing the squeeze motion described by some on here. Some pretty big orgasms but still not up to the strength of that first one.

When I got home we tried again with all the prostate toys and nothing. This got me reading more and I started to wonder how it was that all people are different and how could a static toy be sure to hit the correct spot in all men.

On Sunday we took some time to give this a really good last chance. I used the Helix while I played with her (we are working on her ejaculating with some positive results) obviously this play had me very worked up and after she finished she got me on my knees with my ass in the air and using one of her hard plastic gspot vibes she started to probe me to try and find the spot and wow she just hit an awesome spot. She struggled a bit to keep it on the spot so I turned onto my back with my hips on a pillow and she went to find the spot again and she found it quickly. She was able to keep it on the spot and with some gentle thrusting in and out I started to feel all the sensations described by people on here. I started to leak huge amounts of milk and it felt like I was riding a wave. It kept on for about 15 to 20 minutes and then with no warning I exploded. I don't think I have ever cum so much. I felt like I was going to pass out and lay on the bed for about 10 minutes before I could think of moving. From this It would seem that my prostate is a little closer to the front and the other toys were going past my prostate.

This has definitely given me the will to want to keep on working on this and may well look at one of the larger Aneros toys to see if it positions better. I am still not sure a hands free will be possible but right now following the feeling I experienced on Sunday I will most certainly keep going.

For those who have been able to do a hands free from the start, you are extremely fortunate and hopefully I can get there.

I feel that the other critical thing that has helped me is a wife who participates fully and wants to make this happen.

 

[Lowhanger]

You should not start thinking you're not "doing it right." For everything in sex, each person is unique. He said that his orgasms were more intense. Not everyone is going to have a spectacular reaction. Indeed, you should probably read the reports of results with some skepticism. In almost anything involving sex, men often exagerate. I'm sure you've run into it.

For me, it feels best when she is stroking my cock at the same time. It adds to the feeling, it feels different, but when I cum without stimulation of my penis to go with it, the results are actually less intense.

Just have fun.

So true Mike. Love to hear more.

 

[Wonderer67]

Well. I guess we'll just accept what is. But I am not going to stop trying, as long as he is willing.

That’s the spirit! It may happen too - and there’s only one way to find out: lots of experimentation. good luck and enjoy.

 

[eroticspank]

Well. I guess we'll just accept what is. But I am not going to stop trying, as long as he is willing.

I think there have been some great posts and ideas for you and your partner. I completely agree with your post here, don't stop trying.

I think the best advice I read was to take it slow so you understand what turns on your partner and LOTS of foreplay. For example, before even inserting your finger or dildo in his ass, make sure he is very hard. His prostate will be bigger when he is turned on and easier to find. Plus, it feels good when you touch it at that point. If I am not excited when my lady touches my prostate it hurts a bit, like in the doctor's office.

If you are getting more intense orgasms from him with prostate play, keep it up, it will only get better.

Hands-free orgasms are possible, it may take a while until he is relaxed enough to let it happen. Similar to women having G-spot orgasms there is an emotional element that the man needs to get to, in order to be completely relaxed and truly let go. So, part of it is in our heads.

Remember it is okay to touch his dick once and a while to get him hard and keep him there. Example: Fuck him for a bit then grab his dick and jack him off. When he gets close stop, and continue fucking. Go back and forth to his dick keeping him hard. Talk to him throughout so you know how he is feeling and when he is getting close. Soon his body will remember the good feeling you were giving him while fucking and stroking him. Begin fucking him with no stroking and notice his reaction, increase the intensity when he starts to moan more. It may take a while, but soon he will cum that way, hands-free.

One of my best hands-free orgasms was unexpected. We did a lot of foreplay prior and ended up in the missionary position, her on top, me holding my legs spread. I was already very turned on, but seeing her naked above me, except for her strapon, her breasts bouncing about her nipples hard and very red, and her moans so very sexy. Visuals are very important for most men. Anyway, all of a sudden she screamed out and started cumming. I was shocked. It was amazing to watch. She kept pounding me faster as she came. I looked down at my dick and I was cumming, hands-free! Then my orgasm hit me like a tidal wave. I shook and bucked squirting all over my chest. She had never cum that way before and for me, it was only my 2nd hands-free cum but it certainly was the best.

ES

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I think there have been some great posts and ideas for you and your partner. I completely agree with your post here, don't stop trying.

I think the best advice I read was to take it slow so you understand what turns on your partner and LOTS of foreplay. For example, before even inserting your finger or dildo in his ass, make sure he is very hard. His prostate will be bigger when he is turned on and easier to find. Plus, it feels good when you touch it at that point. If I am not excited when my lady touches my prostate it hurts a bit, like in the doctor's office.

If you are getting more intense orgasms from him with prostate play, keep it up, it will only get better.

Hands-free orgasms are possible, it may take a while until he is relaxed enough to let it happen. Similar to women having G-spot orgasms there is an emotional element that the man needs to get to, in order to be completely relaxed and truly let go. So, part of it is in our heads.

Remember it is okay to touch his dick once and a while to get him hard and keep him there. Example: Fuck him for a bit then grab his dick and jack him off. When he gets close stop, and continue fucking. Go back and forth to his dick keeping him hard. Talk to him throughout so you know how he is feeling and when he is getting close. Soon his body will remember the good feeling you were giving him while fucking and stroking him. Begin fucking him with no stroking and notice his reaction, increase the intensity when he starts to moan more. It may take a while, but soon he will cum that way, hands-free.

One of my best hands-free orgasms was unexpected. We did a lot of foreplay prior and ended up in the missionary position, her on top, me holding my legs spread. I was already very turned on, but seeing her naked above me, except for her strapon, her breasts bouncing about her nipples hard and very red, and her moans so very sexy. Visuals are very important for most men. Anyway, all of a sudden she screamed out and started cumming. I was shocked. It was amazing to watch. She kept pounding me faster as she came. I looked down at my dick and I was cumming, hands-free! Then my orgasm hit me like a tidal wave. I shook and bucked squirting all over my chest. She had never cum that way before and for me, it was only my 2nd hands-free cum but it certainly was the best.

ES

The feeldoe is designed to make this possible.
To provide stimulation to the woman's clit while she uses it on her guy.
I haven't had experience with it.

 

[eroticspank]

The feeldoe is designed to make this possible.
To provide stimulation to the woman's clit while she uses it on her guy.
I haven't had experience with it.

That is true. The feeldoe does help the woman achieve orgasm during pegging. In our case, she was just rubbing herself off on the base of the strapon dildo. We certainly did not plan it that way, I think the strapon fit her just right to put pressure on her clit.
ES

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

That is true. The feeldoe does help the woman achieve orgasm during pegging. In our case, she was just rubbing herself off on the base of the strapon dildo. We certainly did not plan it that way, I think the strapon fit her just right to put pressure on her clit.
ES

Have you used the feeldoe?
Did it work well for you? And her?

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

We have used the original feeldoe. Had no success holding it in without some support; my body grips the large end tighter than hers grips the smaller end, so it didn’t stay in well. Have had great success with her on her back and me straddling the feeldoe. When she holds her legs together it doesn’t come out, and she is able to thrust to meet my motions. No hands free orgasms but still some of my strongest full body O’s from the prostate stimulation.

It does seem like it would be tricky

 

[albertaboy]

Well. I guess we'll just accept what is. But I am not going to stop trying, as long as he is willing.

I've never cum hands free, close a few times

 

[eroticspank]

Have you used the feeldoe?
Did it work well for you? And her?

We have not used one. I do know people who have used one and it worked for them. There is a special harness you can get to help hold the feeldoe in place. I know it works for some people.
ES

 

[Goldenfinger]

Have you used the feeldoe?
Did it work well for you? And her?

we have and my wife hated it. She thought it was very limited on positions she could be in because the bulb would hurt because it would press against her insides. She also doesn’t like the stimulation it provides. She gets a mental turn on from pegging. She says it’s difficult for her to peg and chase her orgasm at the same time.

 

[masterslave00]

we have and my wife hated it. She thought it was very limited on positions she could be in because the bulb would hurt because it would press against her insides. She also doesn’t like the stimulation it provides. She gets a mental turn on from pegging. She says it’s difficult for her to peg and chase her orgasm at the same time.

Agree... It's similar to what I say about 69 - it's good but prefer enjoying either giving oral or receiving oral. Doing both at simultaneously weakens the experience...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

we have and my wife hated it. She thought it was very limited on positions she could be in because the bulb would hurt because it would press against her insides. She also doesn’t like the stimulation it provides. She gets a mental turn on from pegging. She says it’s difficult for her to peg and chase her orgasm at the same time.

Thank you for the report.
Like everything in sex, there seem to be a wide range of responses.

 

[Wonderer67]

I have had a “true prostate orgasm“ only two times. I can have a normal prostate orgasm w/oncumming pretty easily with prostate stimulation, and even just doing kegels. i get good, strong prostate contractions and good muscle streaming up and down my legs and arms. It feels good.

But I did ejaculate twice from my wife pegging me. The first time was the very first time she pegged me, 12/13 yo, and then she was thrusting away. A bunch of cum just came out of my cock. It was not even hard. We were amazed, and both had that, “wha?” look.

The second time was maybe a year and a half ago. I hadn’t cum in a couple weeks and my wife was fucking me with her biggest strapon. We tried several positions, missionary (love it, it makes me feel so submissive), then she fucked me doggy style for a while. I was desperate to come and asked her if I could ride her.

She got down on our fucking bench, and I mounted her. The mirror was right in front of me, so I could see her enter my add (so hot). I rode her for a good 10 minutes and it felt amazing… not cumming amazing, but just felt super pleasurable.

After a few more minutes, I felt a feeling rising up from my midsection, I was amazingly turned on, and felt like I was actually going to cum. I kept on fucking her dildo, harder and harder, and felt the feeling rising and rising. My cock was not even very erect, just flipping about as I rode her, but a boatload of cum poured out of it onto her stomach.

It felt more like a ruined orgasm, not a great feeling, but a good one. My wife made me clean up my cum and eat it, and asked me if I wanted to continue. It was like a ruined orgasm; I was still horny and could still get erect (eating my own cum off of her made me hard), so I continued to ride her.

It still felt amazingly good. My cock got very hard, riding her. After a few more minutes, I felt another orgasm rising up inside me again. My cock was hard as anything, and when I finally came, it was like a traditional orgasm. In other words, I was spent and done.

Both, the “ruined” cum and the actual ejaculatory orgasm were large amounts.

My legs were sore from so much riding, but it was well worth it. My wife made me clean up.

My wife has pegged me probably 25-30 times since then and I have used a lot of prostate massagers, anal dilators, and some dildos, and of course her strapon to try to find that same position, to no avail.

God, I wish I could replicate that again and again..

It won’t stop me from trying tho!

 

[eroticspank]

The prostate orgasm does seem to be a bit elusive. Sometimes it is there and amazing, but other times with the same stimulation there is nothing.
ES

 

[eroticspank]

I got into anal in college and found no lack of dates willing to help me with that chore. But, when I decided to let them know the pleasures of the prostate, several balked at my attempts.

That became my standard, if you're going in my ass, I'm going in yours. There wasn't a single guy who didn't ask for the fingers the next time around. I'm sure they told every one of their guy friends they fucked me in the ass, but I doubt they ever told the same guys that I got them off the same way.

I wish I had owned a strap-on back then, it would have been fun to see who would have run for the door and who would have stayed, opened wide, and let me peg them. I think more would have stayed than run.

That is a good question. In my experience talking to women like yourself, more men than you would think ran for the door when the option was right in front of them.
ES

 

[eroticspank]

One time
As a guy was on top of me
I was so horny
I surprised both of us
I fingered him unexpectedly
He came so hard
He loved it
Turned me on knowing how much it got him off

Wow! Did he ask you to do it again?
ES

 

[Goldenfinger]

I got into anal in college and found no lack of dates willing to help me with that chore. But, when I decided to let them know the pleasures of the prostate, several balked at my attempts.

That became my standard, if you're going in my ass, I'm going in yours. There wasn't a single guy who didn't ask for the fingers the next time around. I'm sure they told every one of their guy friends they fucked me in the ass, but I doubt they ever told the same guys that I got them off the same way.

I wish I had owned a strap-on back then, it would have been fun to see who would have run for the door and who would have stayed, opened wide, and let me peg them. I think more would have stayed than run.

For me it would depend on the relationship and how comfortable i am with the partner. I’ve only been pegged by my wife and we had been together for years. Or maybe if I was really fucked up.

 

[Zumshot]

I’ve experienced many external prostate orgasms via gently rubbing my perineum area with lube.After a while of rubbing my perineum. I feel my prostate swell up and the area becoming increasingly sensitive to the touch. Sometimes that sensitivity would shift towards my asshole if my finger goes down near my ass.