Prostate Orgasm

You use verbiage to elucidate nothing. I would inform you, but your skepticism bares witness to your closed minded world view. It is therefore nonsensical for me to enlighten you to the five ingredients of the ’natural’ method. Be open minded with me. After all, you called them ‘toys‘, which in itself suggest the non-validity of them.
This is getting old dude.
 
You use verbiage to elucidate nothing. I would inform you, but your skepticism bares witness to your closed minded world view. It is therefore nonsensical for me to enlighten you to the five ingredients of the ’natural’ method. Be open minded with me. After all, you called them ‘toys‘, which in itself suggest the non-validity of them.
blahblahblahblah….yada yada yada yada……(yawn…..), Oh! Sorry, did you SAY something? I wasn’t paying attention…
 
I got into anal in college and found no lack of dates willing to help me with that chore. But, when I decided to let them know the pleasures of the prostate, several balked at my attempts.

That became my standard, if you're going in my ass, I'm going in yours. There wasn't a single guy who didn't ask for the fingers the next time around. I'm sure they told every one of their guy friends they fucked me in the ass, but I doubt they ever told the same guys that I got them off the same way.

I wish I had owned a strap-on back then, it would have been fun to see who would have run for the door and who would have stayed, opened wide, and let me peg them. I think more would have stayed than run.
Is the pegging invitation still open? "Pick me!!" :)
 
I know some people really want to get pegged by a woman. I think sometimes it takes baby steps.

I got a dildo with a flared base and lubed it up. I sat on it and had my wife get on top of me Cowgirl style. I was very hard so it was easy for her to slip me inside her. She rode me until she had an orgasm which triggered my own. We came together and it was wonderful. Her up and down movements pushed the dildo in and out of my ass just like a strapon.

ES
 
I've read about this and I want to do it so bad.. I want to give my boyfriend a prostate orgasm. Everything I've read here so far is about self stimulation. How do I fuck him and make him cum?
My I’ve has used toys and her fingers to work her magic on me. Make sure your nails are short. And when you feel in his ass you can feel a walnut shape. My wife rubs that and basically finger fucks my ass.
She also sucks my cock while doing this.
And then I loose my mind lol
 
I've read about this and I want to do it so bad.. I want to give my boyfriend a prostate orgasm. Everything I've read here so far is about self stimulation. How do I fuck him and make him cum?
Just get strap on and fuck him as long as it takes...
 
I've read about this and I want to do it so bad.. I want to give my boyfriend a prostate orgasm. Everything I've read here so far is about self stimulation. How do I fuck him and make him cum?
I would suggest that you start it slow and easy, probably using a finger first.
Have you talked to him about this? Is he uncomfortable with the idea of having things in his ass?
If he is into it, the easiest way to start is with him on his hands and knees. YOu can also do it with him laying on his stomache, with a pillow or two under his hips, but its better if you can get a hand around to reach his cock and stroke him while you explore his ass.

You want to use lots of lube, but on his asshole and on your finger.
Lube him up thoroughly, and insert one finger, very slowly. He will have to learn to relax to let your finger in. You want your finger to enter with the fingertip (the side with your fingerprint) facing downward, toward the front of his body which is down. This may be a little awkward for you, but you want to be able to use the fingertip to search for the prostate.
Once you get inside, about an inch or so inside, feel around for a relatively hard bulb. (The books say its about the size of a walnut). You will know when you find it, and so will he. He will get an incredible surge of feeling and pleasure. You want to caress it gently until you get into practice. Take you time. You can start to stroke him as his intensity builds.

Once you get familiar with it, you can do it from the other side, and even give him a blow job while caressing his prostate.
 
I would suggest that you start it slow and easy, probably using a finger first.
Have you talked to him about this? Is he uncomfortable with the idea of having things in his ass?
If he is into it, the easiest way to start is with him on his hands and knees. YOu can also do it with him laying on his stomache, with a pillow or two under his hips, but its better if you can get a hand around to reach his cock and stroke him while you explore his ass.

You want to use lots of lube, but on his asshole and on your finger.
Lube him up thoroughly, and insert one finger, very slowly. He will have to learn to relax to let your finger in. You want your finger to enter with the fingertip (the side with your fingerprint) facing downward, toward the front of his body which is down. This may be a little awkward for you, but you want to be able to use the fingertip to search for the prostate.
Once you get inside, about an inch or so inside, feel around for a relatively hard bulb. (The books say its about the size of a walnut). You will know when you find it, and so will he. He will get an incredible surge of feeling and pleasure. You want to caress it gently until you get into practice. Take you time. You can start to stroke him as his intensity builds.

Once you get familiar with it, you can do it from the other side, and even give him a blow job while caressing his prostate.
We discuss it often. I fantasize about it. I think He gets turned on by seeing how turned on I get..?
Anyway, we have done some exploration, but he hasn't had an orgasm yet and I was wondering what I was doing wrong. I'll probably write about that one day. LOL Reading your post is very helpful, I'm just going to start over with a finger again.
Thanks.
 
We discuss it often. I fantasize about it. I think He gets turned on by seeing how turned on I get..?
Anyway, we have done some exploration, but he hasn't had an orgasm yet and I was wondering what I was doing wrong. I'll probably write about that one day. LOL Reading your post is very helpful, I'm just going to start over with a finger again.
Thanks.
Combining the finger with other stimulation should guarantee an intense orgasm.
Have you found the organ?
 
I got into anal in college and found no lack of dates willing to help me with that chore. But, when I decided to let them know the pleasures of the prostate, several balked at my attempts.

That became my standard, if you're going in my ass, I'm going in yours. There wasn't a single guy who didn't ask for the fingers the next time around. I'm sure they told every one of their guy friends they fucked me in the ass, but I doubt they ever told the same guys that I got them off the same way.

I wish I had owned a strap-on back then, it would have been fun to see who would have run for the door and who would have stayed, opened wide, and let me peg them. I think more would have stayed than run.
Oh to have known someone like you in college ( or beyond)
 
We discuss it often. I fantasize about it. I think He gets turned on by seeing how turned on I get..?
Anyway, we have done some exploration, but he hasn't had an orgasm yet and I was wondering what I was doing wrong. I'll probably write about that one day. LOL Reading your post is very helpful, I'm just going to start over with a finger again.
Thanks.
I have given myself one twice, it’s kinda awkward so I dream of the day I can have a partner’s help.

I had no idea what I was doing the first time, but the results were amazing, I was laying on the bed and incorporated some prostate rubbing along with my edging and some online chat, and when I erupted, I swear I almost hit the ceiling fan ( and it rained down on me-hot)

So, I don’t know about speeding up the process, but my results were worth the wait.
 
Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I just don't know if it is really possible.
 
Unfortunately, I have never had a partner that would go as far as the prostate. A few would just play at the entrance and maybe as deep as the first knuckle but never more and never a strap on.

I have been successful with satisfying myself by using toys.
 
Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I just don't know if it is really possible.
I mean you know him best but here’s food for thought, kids and play with him, tease him, lay him back and strip for him, but don’t let him touch, straddle his thigh and rub on him so he can feel how wet your pussy is , while you rub your tits. If he tries to touch, push him away and threaten to stop. He needs to get that you are in control. Lube his cock and slowly stroke it, getting him hard, but stopping before he gets close to cumming, see if you can do this for a good half hour. Then start pushing some of the lube into his ass. Stroke him and finger his ass, then leave the room and get your strap on. Make him suck it and beg for it in his pussy.

Roll him over and slowly push in, reach around and milk him, getting more intense then backing off, when you feel him all twitchy, go to town on him. I bet he’ll explode.

Pull out and lay back and tell him, if he can get hard in the next 5 min he can have your pussy, time him.

Hope that gives you some ideas
 
I mean you know him best but here’s food for thought, kids and play with him, tease him, lay him back and strip for him, but don’t let him touch, straddle his thigh and rub on him so he can feel how wet your pussy is , while you rub your tits. If he tries to touch, push him away and threaten to stop. He needs to get that you are in control. Lube his cock and slowly stroke it, getting him hard, but stopping before he gets close to cumming, see if you can do this for a good half hour. Then start pushing some of the lube into his ass. Stroke him and finger his ass, then leave the room and get your strap on. Make him suck it and beg for it in his pussy.

Roll him over and slowly push in, reach around and milk him, getting more intense then backing off, when you feel him all twitchy, go to town on him. I bet he’ll explode.

Pull out and lay back and tell him, if he can get hard in the next 5 min he can have your pussy, time him.

Hope that gives you some ideas
don’t know about Margot, but it certainly gave ME some ideas….
 
Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I just don't know if it is really possible.
It certainly is possible... Came like that last Saturday. Just pegging by my FWB, no single direct touch of my dick... It may not be a mind blowing orgasm though for him... Sometimes it's just a steady flow of cum without orgasm... That's how I love it most...
 
It certainly is possible... Came like that last Saturday. Just pegging by my FWB, no single direct touch of my dick... It may not be a mind blowing orgasm though for him... Sometimes it's just a steady flow of cum without orgasm... That's how I love it most...
But that's the way I write the scenes. I want it to be like that. LOL Please don't tell me real life is less interesting than fiction! :rolleyes:
 
Yes. That's why I thought I was just doing it wrong. His orgasms were better, but not the fireworks I've heard about. Good enough to want to keep trying, but there was no hands free coming. That's what I'm really talking about.
That's my fantasy, to fuck him until he comes with just my strap-on -- ands begs for more.
So Hot.
I do love to be released by prostate. Not sure if I could accept a peg nor would I want to. Pretty hot if he can do that for you.
I don't think you should feel you are doing it wrong unless it hurts. I would also suggest him laying relaxed on his back. Lots of lube. Balls are sensitive. Caress and move them as to locate where he feels the sensation he has while ejaculating. Take your time. As she moves, her fingers trace my crack and butt cheek / taint. As her finger finds the hole if I clinch she moves on tries again later. Once relaxed and she can enter it is either her index finger or middle finger. Nothing fast and not an in or out motion. The free hand still handling my balls, intermittently leaving to feather stroke my shaft and head. I like how shoe three teases real quick and back to my balls. When she finds my prostate it is like she pushed a button. I feel like I am holding back at first. She adroitly goes up my shaft then slightly tighter this time move her hand slowly down the shaft as to pull the skin tight over my head. Its over quick, but both of us are amazed at how much cum is in me. Or out of me I should say. Even at 58. During covid while we had more time for practice we caught some and had a look under the microscope. The swimmers look as healthy as I remember when I was young and curious with my first love.
I know you don't have a prostate. But her on her knees and shoulders relaxing much like I was, she likes two in her pussy and one in her butt sensual and slow. At first she likes clitoral stimulation I manage with my thumb as it goes she tells me when to stop. Her orgasm from that feels really powerful where she almost passes out. She calls it vaginal climax. I like the grip she gets on my finger. I get really turned on. Years ago in my 40's I played with another couple. After we traded 4 hand massages and were comfortable together we, the two guys, tried to demonstrate edging on her. She squirted. Was amazing. Try as we might we never figured it out again.
We like coconut oil for lube. It comes in a big tube like toothpaste and comes out like paste. So we let the tube swim in warm water so we have slick from the start. Nuru gel works too. That comes in powder form, but we prefer the gel. 35$ for 33oz. A 1-1 mix refrigerate the unused. We have a rectangle shaped kiddie pool. If it dries add a little water. Spray bottle comes in handy. Towels under it and footies or socks for when you get out. You cannot stand on a wood floor or tile floor with nuru gel on you. It does not wipe off. Washes off. We enjoy the time in the slippery tub more than prostate massage. I just wish she would consider one of her friends slippery in there with us. I would love to feel someone innocent and new experience that the first time again. Anyway for us that is something special in winter. Exhausting each other orgasmicaly, showering and cuddling to sleep. The pool is easy to wash in the shower and dries over the tub. Be sure you will have the house to yourself... The weekend after the first week of the year is usually a good time. Everyone leaves you alone after the holidays trying to get back to work life again.
I am not sure where you are but do some research and look for a tantra goddess. Sessions are costly for two but are very educational if you find the right one. I went by myself on a business trip. That is where I learned to relax everything so the provider is in complete control.
 
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