I want to have my prostate milked - both for pleasure and for health reasons but don't want to ask my doctor (for obvious reasons); and I've tried it with three different FBSM providers and they didn't seem to be able to find my prostate, even thought they advertised that was a specialty. Where can a guy go to have this happen - by someone who really does know what they're doing? I'm in the SF Bay area btw. Any input ?