premature ejaculation?

[SassySheDevil]

I am a little weird tho - i dont really care for oral on myself. I love giving but i dont like recieving <not sure why but 'eh. SHould i just suck it up and let him have his fun on me so i know he's completely happy?

I'm also not big on oral so having him go down on me first, just makes me impatient lol.. I let him use toys on me or I use them while he plays with me. I just make sure to cum first now and then I am happier.

 

[SweetErika]

i was just telling you guys that he had said its because i'm tight. I did discuss it with him and he's never had this problem before. He used the term "throwing a hot dog down a hallway" for his last girlfriend or 2.

1) No man in his right mind tells his woman she's anything but tight. It's just like "you give the best oral ever!" - how many of us have heard that line?

2) You should be wary of guys who place so much emphasis on tightness and degrade their exes like that. That kind of comment says plenty about your guy's maturity and personality; it says nothing about his ex girlfriends.

 

[infinity706]

1) No man in his right mind tells his woman she's anything but tight. It's just like "you give the best oral ever!" - how many of us have heard that line?

2) You should be wary of guys who place so much emphasis on tightness and degrade their exes like that. That kind of comment says plenty about your guy's maturity and personality; it says nothing about his ex girlfriends.

Now, I wouldn't go that far. I certainly remember one fiesty little switch that I teased about that and much worse. At least I guess telling her to stuff a summer sausage up her twat counts. That all started one night when she tried to hook me up with a friend of hers and was talking really dirty. It actually ended up scaring off the friend (who's a pretty dirty chick in her own right), though. She even called me a cunt shortly after finding out it's one of my favorite words. Of course, we're both really dirty. She quite frequently called me a cocksucker, flipped me off whenever no one was looking, went to the tampon section of stores and teased me in front of sales people about shoving one up my ass, went up to known gay guys and told them I'd like to fuck them.... Of course, I gave her as much shit back. I even gave her a hard slap on the ass frequently and called her more dirty words than probably anyone but a sex story author would know. We got along extremely well to the point that friends joked that we were on exactly the same wavelength even though they made us tone things down in front of them. The only reason we're not still going at it is because she's married and her husband got jealous after a few months of just how well we did get along. Of course, there was also my ex girlfriend and a slutty little sub with almost as many partners as me. I've only met a couple women that I'd tell things like that, but the ones I would do it to would end up soaking their skimpy panties and fuck my brains out for doing it.

 

[Mental Tennis]

Hmmm

As an older guy, if you don't mind my perspective. Have him penetrate you and both of you stay completely still let him calm down as you talk to each other without moving inside you. Once he is able to focus a bit more on you and less on the sensation, he should be able to relax and take his edginess down a notch or two. After that if you move slowly at first and not a complete in and out penetration. He may find he is able to feel the sensation without letting himself get in the heavy contraction faze. It may take a few tries, but if your patient he should get the hang of it. Enjoy

 

[Eilan]

You should be wary of guys who place so much emphasis on tightness and degrade their exes like that. That kind of comment says plenty about your guy's maturity and personality; it says nothing about his ex girlfriends.

Not to mention his needledickitude.

Okay, I clearly have nothing constructive to say here, so I'll move on.

 

[kimbernee]

If all you've got is a hot dog, everything feels like a hallway..

 

[USWMachine]

1) No man in his right mind tells his woman she's anything but tight. It's just like "you give the best oral ever!" - how many of us have heard that line?

2) You should be wary of guys who place so much emphasis on tightness and degrade their exes like that. That kind of comment says plenty about your guy's maturity and personality; it says nothing about his ex girlfriends.

Yeah I've had women before that were... ummm a bit used up, and I didn't tell them they weren't tight.

But to the person asking the question...

I think someone already gave this answer but.. why not try to get him hard again afterwards, even if it's just an hour?

Naturally a guy will last longer after they've cum once(or at least with me.)

I personally would masterbate before I went out with a woman. That way I would naturally last longer. Generally once I get to a certain time frame, I can go forever.

Hell the first time I had sex I lasted like maybe a minute, it was pretty embarassing, but we kind of played around for about an hour and then when I was up again we went at it for about two hours.

Alot of it can also be the anticipation factor. I had girl I was with for about 2 years when I was in high school. First time we had sex, I actually had worn her out and she wanted me to cum. But we were at her parents and my mind was on not getting caught.

Second time, all alone, and probably fastest I've ever cum. But about 30 minutes later we went at it again and it was an hour or so.

Probably nothing wrong with him, I would take it as a compliment, perhaps you excite him that much.

 

[sexysharonmilf]

Kinda simple. He needs to learn control by jerking off and holding off on cumming. Same as you did with Kegel. Learn Some Dick control as Eddie Murphy said.

 

[satindesire]

What I'm surprised that no one has addressed so far is the fact that the first time it happened, there were 2-3 HOURS of foreplay beforehand. What did the OP expect to happen to him after such a long time? Of course he's going to pop as soon as he gets inside, he's been dying for it for AGES!

Here's what you might try, OP, make sure that 90% of the foreplay is concentrated on YOU, so that he isn't so worked up. Also, condoms=GOOD. Unless you two have shown each other CLEAN and RECENT STI screenings, you should have been using them from the jump.

Numbing creams=bad. Not only will they possibly make him lose his erection, but if you get any on your clit, you can say goodbye to your orgasm.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

but i find it a major turn on that i can make him come like this

Men In Black, take this alien female and clone her.