Premature Ejaculation

[kennyA]

First of all, I would like to say hi to all fellow members here. I been visiting this site for quite some time and finally decided to register.

I am suffering from premature ejaculation. There are all sorts drugs and massaging technique all over the internet claiming to be a cure for this embarrassing problem. Sadly, none of them actually worked. for me.

I find myself having hard time to hold my cum. Most of them time I feel like cumming right after I stick it in. My friend reckoned me some kinda 'prolong spray' and it worked, somehow. Just that it made my dick goes numb... After using it for sometimes, situation went worse.

Just today was I was watching porn, I shoot right in my pants. It wasn't getting hard and I wasn't even jerking. I just came like that. I feel that the joining part between the head and shaft (sorry coz no ideal what its called) is getting really sensitive nowaday.

I have not talked to my gf about it yet. Should I approach a doc or something? May I know is there any cure for this...

Thanks.

 

[youngleo]

Had that same problem when I was younger. Dont have that problem anymore.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I also had this problem.

Three things that helped:

1. age & experience
2.condoms
3. practicing masturbation and delaying orgasm, remaining aware of my sensations and breathing deeply at all times.

Communication with your partner is key. Also, it's important to realize that you don't need to be a porno star.

 

[SweetErika]

Have you tried getting off before you're intimate with your gf, to reduce some of the urgency?

Have you tried male kegel exercises? Like any other exercise, you must do a sufficient amount daily for at least six weeks to strengthen the PC muscle, but once it's strong enough, you may be able to stop your ejaculation and even achieve multiple orgasms. It'll take practice and commitment, but it's an easy, free, healthy way to enhance your sex life.

Do you worry about coming too quickly when you're masturbating or with your gf? Have you tried relaxing, not worrying about it and changing the way you think?

I agree with the condom suggestion, too. They don't help dramatically, but can take the edge off just enough to get it under control sometimes.

Pills, creams/sprays, supplements, devices and "cure your PE" programs don't work, so don't waste your time or money on those. Your best bet is to try the above suggestions and relax. Worrying/obsessing about it isn't going to help, and is likely to make it worse, so focus on something else, enjoy yourself, work on the kegel exercises and see if it passes with age and experience, like others have said.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Have you tried getting off before you're intimate with your gf, to reduce some of the urgency?

Have you tried male kegel exercises? Like any other exercise, you must do a sufficient amount daily for at least six weeks to strengthen the PC muscle, but once it's strong enough, you may be able to stop your ejaculation and even achieve multiple orgasms. It'll take practice and commitment, but it's an easy, free, healthy way to enhance your sex life.

Do you worry about coming too quickly when you're masturbating or with your gf? Have you tried relaxing, not worrying about it and changing the way you think?

I agree with the condom suggestion, too. They don't help dramatically, but can take the edge off just enough to get it under control sometimes.

Pills, creams/sprays, supplements, devices and "cure your PE" programs don't work, so don't waste your time or money on those. Your best bet is to try the above suggestions and relax. Worrying/obsessing about it isn't going to help, and is likely to make it worse, so focus on something else, enjoy yourself, work on the kegel exercises and see if it passes with age and experience, like others have said.

I practiced kegels and Taoist ejaculation control intensely for years, as a result of humiliating experiences with premature ejaculation.They work, but you have to invest the time.

 

[SophieUK]

Just don't worry about it my boyfriend has the same trouble.He has cum before he has got it in me.But we can soon get him up again then we can both enjoy it.

maybe its because you're so hot!!