Post-Marital? Adultery! Other Adventures

[Guest]

I'm an American woman who is in somwhat of a
dilemma. I have met an professional man from India
who I absolutely adore.

I think of him constantly. It does not feel like just lust, but a true meeting of the hearts. No physical intimacy but just a kiss or hug. He say's the feelings are mutual. He's married! I am not an experienced person at all when it comes to matters of the heart.

I've always done what was expected of me. I've always been what you would call a good girl, compassionate, etc. If marriage is so important to you all- Why is a married man fron India doing this? He has a daughter in college and I have no idea what the problem is with his marriage.

I do know he said it was an arranged marriage. That's about it. I have never known anyone that makes me feel the way he does. It almost seems like I've known him forever. He's so comforting and endearing. Is this common? Do married men have affairs in their marriages alot? I don't want to hurt anyone, I do have a conscience.

Can someone enlighten me? I have to see him for professional reasons, so it's unavoidable at the moment. I do want all who read this to know it has nothing to do with him being Indian, his culture, etc. He's just touched my soul, and that has never happened to me before.

I've always been very sheltered and stand offish. Very much in control of my emotions. I just need someone that can enlighten me on this situation. I'm sorry if I've offended anyone, I just need some help...

 

[SweetCherry]

Yayati strikes again.

 

[Siren]

 

[fgarvb1]

Will he ever stop?

I think he should change his name to "I'm a".

 

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

I live a happy family life with my husband and kids in Dubai. My husband is dark, tall, handsome. Though there is a 11 years gap between us. I work in a reputed firm and holds a good job with all convenient facilities. For the past few years my boss has been trying to draw lines accross me , I mean gestures like keeping hand over hand, eyes to eyes and taunting remarks showing his interest in me. I have been ignoring all this for 6 years, though I report directly under him. Of late I find myself attracted very much with him. I don't know the reason. My husband satisfies me. He is jolly too. Though there are ups and downs. We get over quickly and loving again. But may be only a little less romantic. This boss seems to be interested in music, arts and enjoying life. He has high regards to me too and shows concern. He sings arabic / hindi songs looking at me, smiling...I really get attracted to him and carried away. I have started to imagine being filmy with him all the time. My whole body aches for him. I am 33 years old. I have sex with my hubby..thinking its him!! I cannot forget him either. I meet him daily. Each day..I say my novena prayers at office to get control over him. His very male voice electrifies me over phone. Though he is very much interested if given a chance..he has lost hopes after his long years trial, he is very busy at work and shows has nothing got to do with me sometimes. But sometimes..when he has a bit of spare time, he tells all worldly praises to me. When I meet him ..I forget what I prayed .. !! What shall I do? Please help me urgently. I have literally started to fall head over heals in love with him at this age...Love and sexually too.. Quiting work is not practical. How shall I react to his gestures and get control?

 

[SweetCherry]

Geez, I thought I talked to myself a lot. I seriously wonder if he's got multiple personality disorder. Psychiatric help might be needed.

 

[Siren]

 

[Saint Peter]

yoyotwat cant help it. He has a small indian dick. It is not his fault. You cannot put the blame on yoyo for his tiny yaya. It is in the bloodline.

 

[perks]

I know an Indian guy with a big dick.

 

[Saint Peter]

I know an Indian guy with a big dick.

Penile transplant?

 

[perks]

Penile transplant?

no

 

[Saint Peter]

no

Oh. My mistake. I take back all the small penis comments made to yoyo in this and all the other threads.

 

[KillerMuffin]

The odds are pretty strong that the Indian man perky knows isn't even remotely related to Yaya.

Yoyo has a small penis. He's too ashamed to show it to me.

Perks, are you talking about an Indian from India or an Indian from one of the American continents?

 

[Siren]

 

[perks]

The odds are pretty strong that the Indian man perky knows isn't even remotely related to Yaya.

Yoyo has a small penis. He's too ashamed to show it to me.

Perks, are you talking about an Indian from India or an Indian from one of the American continents?

India but he lives here, I believe he's half Scottish on his mother's side.

he has a BIG one.
my mistake, he still has a BIG one but is not from India. How disappointing. *laughing*

 

[islandman]

India but he lives here, I believe he's half Scottish on his mother's side.

he has a BIG one.

Interesting combo. Maybe that's why he's hung.

 

[Saint Peter]

India but he lives here, I believe he's half Scottish on his mother's side.

he has a BIG one.

That explains everything. I take back taking back all the small yoyo yaya jokes. It is back to being tiny.

Carry on.

 

[perks]

turn around

 

[islandman]

turn around

Yeah, SaintPeter, turn around!


..............been dying to ask that for awhile now............