Possible date with another woman...hmmm

Mistress

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So the new chic at work has been hitting on me the last couple of days. It's not good to work us together because we are so much alike we goof off too much. The only difference is she is very open about who she is...I mean VERY open. She voices her flirtations and conquests in open..infront of other customers, and the only slight problem I have with that is she talks openly about sleeping with me. Yes, I'm serious, let's just say she blew me away with how open she is. She told me the other day that she had asked her boyfriend (*Nods*) if he would think it was cheating if she slept with me......

Unbelievable.

Now she has a fantastic body, thin, nice small round breasts...the kind I like, a great looking ass, she's blonde, even though I don't go for blondes I think its the fact that she is open with who she is thats attracting me. We have alot of fun together too, so I'm just wondering if I should give it a chance. See, I'm starting to see a guy at the moment, it's going very slow, but I like him alot already, I grew up around him and his family. So I don't know how people would take things if they found out, I was possibly with a woman at the same time as him. I'm not talking about a relatinship with her or anything but,bah you know what I'm talking about right? I know I know I'm rambling again as usual.

I'll shut up :p

Just kinda in shock about the whole situation I guess LOL!


:kiss: M.
 
This sounds like a great oppurtunity. As for your new guy, maybe you could just tell him about it.

Hopefully you guys have that sort of friendship were he'll find it interesting, maybe even erotic..... Yeah, he'll find it erotic.

My opinion is to just have fun. Hopefully you can do it without hurting anyone, if only this was a perfect hippy love world, huh?
 
He knows I'm bi-sexual..and doesn't have a problem with that...I just dont know how he would feel if I slept with another woman while me and him were together. Most guys are all for it IF they get to watch, but the way I see it..I want my alone time with my woman at least the first time or so :p

I so wish I had been a hippie :p Laughs
Instead I'm a closet 'Freak' Freak: kinky,freakish...not refering to anyone in same sex habits as being a freak /nod. :p
 
Mistress, I have found that men are just happy hearing the details about me fooling around with other women, even men I'm dating at the time. I say if you want it, go for it.
 
If you are just starting your relationship with this guy just go for it.
If you are really really serious then dont. Just depends on the guy,

If I were in a deep relationship I wouldn't want my girlfriend fooling around with women.

If I were just starting my relationpship, I would be telling my friend, "yeah she fools around with women :)"

If you want to fool around with the other woman at work, do it the sooner the better because this way your boyfriend will be able to live with the fact that you are fooling around with women, while you are dating him, more so then farther down the road.

Laz
 
Unless you are commited to this guy... which it sounds like you guys are only starting out why not?

If you are sure this is what you want and you can handle it, why not go for it?

I'm not saying this because of any male fantasies of lesbians.. but you have an opportunity... if it interests you... explore it. ;)
 
if it feels good doing it

goal number one in everyones life....... to be happy
 
Damn Mistress, we really haven't had much of a chance to talk lately, have we? ;)
 
If you think she talks alot now, wait until you sleep together. If that is something you are able to deal with in the workplace, go for it.
 
Go for it and then tell us the details.
:D

I would talk with him too though.
 
Just a note.........never play where you work........usually means you'll be looking for a new job.

;)
 
Wanderer D said:
Damn Mistress, we really haven't had much of a chance to talk lately, have we? ;)

whoops ;) sorry baby, I honestly forgot to bring it up the last time we talked.
 
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