Belegon
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If you hated it, you hated it, but I think you read it completely wrong--though I understand why read it that way and had that visceral reaction to it if you did read it that way.
The movie is about murder, not suicide. The man, however, in becoming aware and witness to the "murder" of the woman who hurt him, realizes that he's killing himself along with her. More, he realizes that she doesn't deserve to die. At which point, he tries to stop it from happening in the hopes of saving them both.
The resolution of the film, however, shows that it's not so easy as the man, or the doctor who created the procedure think to murder others or yourself. The essence of the movie is whether or not all we are is our memories. And the movie's answer to that question is a resounding "NO!" It says we're far more than that.
Far from being about the inability of humans to handle disappointments and failure, it is a movie that proves that we can learn to handle all kinds of disappointments and failures. Even the very worst disappointment and failure, the times when we disappoint and fail ourselves. This is evident when, during his last memory of her, our hero accepts and forgives the "murder" he's caused of both of them. Far from seeing it as a failure and a disappointment that he can't stop the process, he accepts it all. Everything he's done and is about to lose.
Thus, the movie is all about learning to accept loss.
And that acceptance is what allows him, awake, aware, and making a fresh, new conscious choice on the matter, to bravely risk certain failure and disappointment by wanting to be with this woman all over again, even after he's heard on tape how he disappointed her, and how she failed him. Hence, the two of them survive the "attempted" murder, which erases only memories, but not what who they really are, and what they feel for each other. And both learn to deal with failure and disappointment.
And that is what the movie is about.
Beat me to it. Well said.