Popular fetishes or fantasies that you just don't get...

[Beandip478]

I'll start with two I have never understood: being pulled over by a female state trooper, and the "naughty nurse" fantasy. First of all, a woman being a cop does nothing for me, erotically. Why would it? And the nurse thing? Dude, when I think of being in a hospital I think of being sick, in pain, of unpleasantness in general--and the nurse may be coming in to change you bed pan. ;-)

 

[Goldenfinger]

tentacles dont get it. Being kicked in the gonads repeatedly. Ouch.

 

[lil_jenni]

tentacles dont get it. Being kicked in the gonads repeatedly. Ouch.

So, while I can't speak for all women, I can give you one woman's thoughts on the tentacle thing. It was 'ewww' to me when I was younger, but now... Let's just say there is something exciting about the idea that I could have all three holes filled and what was doing it could also be teasing my clit, nips,boobs, toes, ears, etc., etc. all at the same time.

Yeah, the non-human component is a little cringe for me, but I've just glossed over that part the few times I've engaged in tentacle fantasies.

As for popular fetishes/fantasies I don't understand, that would be human/non-human sex. And why yes, that is a contradiction. But as a professor I had always said, we find the most interesting things in life within the contradictions we embrace.

 

[live4thebj]

Getting someone pregnant
Peeing
Acting like a baby
Wanting to hook up with someone of the same sex but consider yourself straight
Hairy armpits and legs
I am sure these is more.

 

[RawloveR]

100% agree with the nurse thing, its the least sexy situation you can be in imo lol

Never understood feet either.

 

[lil_jenni]

Getting someone pregnant
Peeing
Acting like a baby
Wanting to hook up with someone of the same sex but consider yourself straight
Hairy armpits and legs
I am sure these is more.

I have to agree with these too.

 

[annabel_lee]

I don’t know how popular it is to enjoy bodily waste, but that is one (or two, I guess) that I just don’t understand.

 

[lil_jenni]

I don’t know how popular it is to enjoy bodily waste, but that is one (or two, I guess) that I just don’t understand.

This is another contradiction for me. The thought of fecal matter play is gross to me, but I have done ATM and would for Hubby any time he wanted if it didn't gross him out.

 

[live4thebj]

This is another contradiction for me. The thought of fecal matter play is gross to me, but I have done ATM and would for Hubby any time he wanted if it didn't gross him out.

I had a girl did an ATM once. I tried to say it was just in your ass but she was sucking so hard I couldn’t get the words out.

 

[lil_jenni]

I had a girl did an ATM once. I tried to say it was just in your ass but she was sucking so hard I couldn’t get the words out.

The one time I did it for Hubby, it was a roleplay scenario in which I had picked him up at a bar and we were having a one night stand. He started to object a couple times but never got the words all out.

Also, he had just come in my ass but still managed to stay hard and come again in my mouth. So, I think it did turn him on, even though he said never again afterward.

 

[live4thebj]

The one time I did it for Hubby, it was a roleplay scenario in which I had picked him up at a bar and we were having a one night stand. He started to object a couple times but never got the words all out.

Also, he had just come in my ass but still managed to stay hard and come again in my mouth. So, I think it did turn him on, even though he said never again afterward.

This mom would do anything for me. If I met her a different time in my life I would be with her today. But I met someone else not as sexual but loves me dearly and I to her.

 

[annabel_lee]

This is another contradiction for me. The thought of fecal matter play is gross to me, but I have done ATM and would for Hubby any time he wanted if it didn't gross him out.

I don’t see a contradiction at all. I think there’s a big difference between ATM, rimming, or any similar ass play, and deliberately bringing actual fecal matter into sex play.

 

[Egam1972]

I don’t get all the incest and “mommy” “daddy” fantasies. Why are they so popular? Weird to me.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Having learned a lesson yesterday, when I expressed antipathy toward an activity that others enjoy and rightly got called out for it, I will just say this.

To each his own, as long as everything is consensual and no one gets hurt.

The thing you don't like, don't understand, or think is gross may be the thing that someone else loves most of all.

Live and let live.

 

[Dapperguy]

I once, and only once, date this slut who, once we went back to her place wanted me to plaster her cunt with fish guts- which were kept in her fridge- and to push them up her cunt before I fucked her. Well, let me tell you, I left her standing naked, fridge open, with a bowl of stinking fish guts in her hands. I hope she found someone to accomplish her fetish.

 

[KinkStevens]

Furry fetish. I dont get it

 

[CuttingEdge]

Having learned a lesson yesterday, when I expressed antipathy toward an activity that others enjoy and rightly got called out for it, I will just say this.

To each his own, as long as everything is consensual and no one gets hurt.

The thing you don't like, don't understand, or think is gross may be the thing that someone else loves most of all.

Live and let live.

I agree.

I rather detest the threads like these that are negative in nature. Sex is such a wonderful thing that it is too bad someone has to feel better about themselves by knocking a type of legal sex another person enjoys.

 

[Drinkmein]

If we understood all fetishes then they’d be mainstream and not considered fetishes.

 

[lil_jenni]

I agree.

I rather detest the threads like these that are negative in nature. Sex is such a wonderful thing that it is too bad someone has to feel better about themselves by knocking a type of legal sex another person enjoys.

I think respectful discussion helps expand our awareness so we understand others better. I see a lot of that in these types of threads. Sure, some people come in and belittle or make snarky comments, but generally speaking, I find these discussions thought provoking.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Impact play. Even if my wife asked me I could not hit her.

 

[lil_jenni]

Impact play. Even if my wife asked me I could not hit her.

It took a long time for Hubby to do anything but spank my ass and my boobs (lightly). Now, if I'm really in the mood, he'll lightly slap my face. But no using an object on my face. And no punching or kicking.

 

[SexyVita]

So, I know this isn't really a fetish, but the thing that blows my mind are people that come to a erotic literature site to talk about politics. WTF? I mean, I get that people are going to do it anyway, so giving them a specific place to do it that the rest of us can avoid is a smart move. But that doesn't mean I understand the people who do it. Surely there are better places to talk politics than here? I come to Lit for fantasy... fantasy, not reality.

 

[PapaRomantic]

I'm not a fan of cum facials. I don't know how popular it is outside of porn, and I suppose if a woman I was with really REALLY wanted it, I might give it to her. But it does nothing for me.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Getting someone pregnant
Peeing
Acting like a baby
Wanting to hook up with someone of the same sex but consider yourself straight
Hairy armpits and legs
I am sure these is more.

I not into these either. I’ve never done ATM but once drunk with mt wife she did it to me. It was many years ago and I don’t really remember it so it must not of made a great impression on me.
electric shock didn’t care for.
sounding was also a bust.
I know the list is longer but it will take time remembering.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have a thing for public nudity by a lady, but I really detest when they are written on. I mean to the point where I skip right by any video of it.

I understand its a form of humiliation, but to me it is just too demeaning. Maybe I am too much of a writer who takes "show, don't tell", a bit to far. I mean she is naked in public, do you really feel the need to use a Sharpie on her to say, "whore" or "slut"? I am getting that vibe without a sign needing to be written across her forehead.

To me it just detracts from the fact that she is brave enough to be nude in public. That is to be celebrated and not demeaned.