Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that turns you off? Or you just don't get? (This will exclude any discussion related to Minors or Violence)

[FiveInch033]

What I find fascinating about Sex Acts, Fetishes, and/or Kinks is how one person will find something to be a complete turn on. While the same Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink will be a complete turn off to someone else. This thread relates to what turns you off.

I have three questions related to what turns you off.
(These question will exclude Anything associated with minors or unwanted violence to another. I'm not a person who flags things, but I will flag anything associated with these two topics.)

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?
(This isn't just singular it is plural. It could include a list of turn offs)

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?
(I'm assuming it didn't go against your morals or values. You just didn't like it but you did it for your partner. Even after engaging in this act, fetish, or Kink you still didn't understand why it was a turn on for your partner)

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

What I mean by Sex Act-Any sexual activity that isn't a Fetish or a Kink

Definition of a Fetish-a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

Definition of a Kink-unconventional sexual taste or behavior

 

[FiveInch033]

My answers.

Question One:
Feet: I don't get it.
Hairy: ugh.
Being tied up: Nope
Pain: I don't enjoy being hurt or hurting others.
Same sex as me: I'm a straight guy so any inclusion with another guy is off limits. It's just a complete turn off for me. I've been asked to be involve with straight couples. I can't because of the guy there.
Real big boobs: not turned on by real big ones. Wouldn't exclude dating a woman with big tits but it isn't a "Thing" for me.
Thongs: It's not a thing for me. What I'm turned on by are booty shorts or boyshorts. Who can figure?
Teddy's: I love it when a woman wears lingerie, except for this one. Don't see what's so special about Teddys.
Daisy dukes/real short skirts: Not a fan. Love it when a woman wears shorts or skirts just not real short where the ass is hanging out. Makes me cringe.

Question Two: I went down on a woman who was, very hairy in her private area. I did it because I liked her. Not fun for me. A partner tied me up once....hated it. A partner enjoyed being spanked. She yelled at me after stopping several times to ask if she was okay.

Question Three: I've always wanted to be with a woman who was into pee desperation and enjoyed peeing in her pants/jeans.
I've always wanted to be with a woman who prefers and is hoping their partner would have a smaller penis.
(I'm fortunate to have had great partners who didn't care about my smaller penis or enjoyed me as a sexual partner. This is different than a woman who really desires a smaller penis. Who is turned on when they see one or touches one.)

 

[AchtungNight]

I’m not into bestiality, non consensual relationships, certain age groups outside my own, certain forms of incest, bdsm, scat, or certain other fetishes. I might write this stuff if my characters are into it but there are lines I don’t cross. Other writers can cross the lines if readers are into it. Do I need to get more specific?

 

[scposteel]

I never understood being pissed or shit on, as well as the whole thing about feet. Just never seemed like something that would be sexy. I'm also not into the extreme aspects such as rape fetishes or beastiality ect.

 

[canogagrizz]

I totally get it why some women would want to try bestiality. As long as the dog is fine with it and not being hurt, why not? Especially if a woman gets off on it. I find that part of it the most arousing that a woman would be willing to do such a thing to experience that & enjoys it. Does it turn me on? Yes & no. I like seeing a woman get off on it but I don't like it when it's just for money or filming. I always wanted to watch that happening in person, a super sexual woman willing & wanting to be mating & knotting with a dog. It seems weird but I can understand a woman wanting to try it. And if she enjoys it then good for her. I don't look at something like that as being abnormal really. To each their own likes & desires.

The fetishes I don't understand is the dominance & humiliation bondage sexual stuff. NO PAIN!! "Role playing" I have always found awkward, cringe & a bit odd & weird. Just not my thing at all. And especially the scat thing is gross af to to me it disgusts me. And anything non consensual is especially a turn off for me.
I can understand the watersport pissing thing but not scat that disgusts me. I actually had a gf that wanted me to pee inside her and I found that very very arousing.
As far as incest stuff goes IDC. It is a tad exciting. Anything "naughty" and forbidden I have found mostly arousing. Incest, bestiality and (even as a straight guy) gay sex acts between men & especially women. I find the "first time" experimentation (especially women more so than guys) trying bi or gay stuff very arousing more so then the just gay sex. I have found the first time trying bi between guys also arousing to watch on occasions. But for the most part I'm into most normal sex. I am really into watching missionary sex & passion between a man & a woman. The very most sexual arousing thing to me is watching a woman's face when she is having a orgasm. There is nothing more thrilling that that.

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

One issue for me is pain; receiving it is not a turn on for me and causing it (even something as simple as spanking) is a struggle for me.

Another is being peed on, the hygiene aspect as well as the clean up afterwards is not something that excites me. However, watching a woman do that outside, such as in the backyard or out for a hike, can be arousing for me.

Nonconsensual in a fictional sense (aka a movie, tv show, book, scripted porn, hentai, etc) I am ok with and can be turned on by it but not an act of real nonconsensual sex.

 

[1983ctm]

There is quite a bit that doesn't do anything for me, but to be honest, and I may be a small minority that will say this, I don't care at all about anal. It's fun to think about or watch/read about sometimes, but real life I don't care about it at all... I would take pussy or mouth for sure or possibly even hand over it, if offered

 

[Lipstick_E]

There is not much that can turn me off unless it involves animals or hygiene. I seriously do not get how going to the bathroom on each other can ever be arousing. Anyways, to each their own.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Sounding. I don't even like saying it

 

[Indianabone]

Any dominatrix stuff involving high level pain or even medium and also the cage deal. Don’t get it.
Don’t like the non human things including the alien stuff.

 

[TastySuckToy]

I definitely don't understand feet, pain and anything anal related makes me wanna puke.

 

[canopy]

Answer 1 scat
Answer 2 drunk sex
Answer 3 probably everything I'm into lol

What I find fascinating about Sex Acts, Fetishes, and/or Kinks is how one person will find something to be a complete turn on. While the same Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink will be a complete turn off to someone else. This thread relates to what turns you off.

I have three questions related to what turns you off.
(These question will exclude Anything associated with minors or unwanted violence to another. I'm not a person who flags things, but I will flag anything associated with these two topics.)

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?
(This isn't just singular it is plural. It could include a list of turn offs)

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?
(I'm assuming it didn't go against your morals or values. You just didn't like it but you did it for your partner. Even after engaging in this act, fetish, or Kink you still didn't understand why it was a turn on for your partner)

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

What I mean by Sex Act-Any sexual activity that isn't a Fetish or a Kink

Definition of a Fetish-a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

Definition of a Kink-unconventional sexual taste or behavior

 

[Bigaug]

I like kink, I will try anything my wife wants to try, many many years ago my ex wanted to urinate on me in the tub, I said sure so she filled up with water before our tub time, I was hard, she was so horny, she is peeing niagra falls on me and rubbing her clit, then she yells yessss and shits all over me and has a giant orgasm, I am laying there with shit all over me and her having orgasm after orgasm. It was good for her not good for me, she also insisted on sticking large objects on her ass. Anyhow moving forward years later with my current wife, we have tried a number of things, the problem is she enjoys kink but then stops and moves on and won't go back to it. The bottom line is if she said to me today I want to try this......whatever......I would do it. I do not like scat, I do not like the real pain people, just don't get it, we do spanking and she bites my nipples when she gets into it it makes my orgasms much better.

 

[StrongMaster7]

There's nothing wrong with asking the question, but the responses tend to be people putting down things that other people may enjoy.

There are a lot of 'sexual activities' that I am not drawn to. But others may love those activities, so good for them as long as no one gets hurt and it's all consentual.

And if you are open-minded, you could be surprised at the thing you enjoy, given the right circumstances.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

What I find fascinating about Sex Acts, Fetishes, and/or Kinks is how one person will find something to be a complete turn on. While the same Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink will be a complete turn off to someone else. This thread relates to what turns you off.

I have three questions related to what turns you off.
(These question will exclude Anything associated with minors or unwanted violence to another. I'm not a person who flags things, but I will flag anything associated with these two topics.)

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?
(This isn't just singular it is plural. It could include a list of turn offs)

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?
(I'm assuming it didn't go against your morals or values. You just didn't like it but you did it for your partner. Even after engaging in this act, fetish, or Kink you still didn't understand why it was a turn on for your partner)

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

What I mean by Sex Act-Any sexual activity that isn't a Fetish or a Kink

Definition of a Fetish-a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

Definition of a Kink-unconventional sexual taste or behavior

Thank you! I love discussions like this. I'm fascinated not just by my own kinks and desires, but I love to discover what other people enjoy, and WHY they enjoy them.

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?

I don't get feet at all. It doesn't turn me off or bother me, but it's just not something that I have ever found sexual, and no amount of explaining by those into it has helped me 'get' it. (But I respect that others are aroused by feet, and encourage them to savor and enjoy that!)

I don't get those drawn to vomit or feces or severe pain. (Vomit and feces are on my 'no fly' list, and I can tolerate/participate in some pain play at a very low level...but aside from the pleasure of being spanked I just don't get it).

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?

Foot worship. I had a boyfriend once who loved to spend an hour kissing and licking and playing with my feet. It didn't do anything for me sexually, but it certainly wasn't unpleasant, and I loved seeing how hard and horny it made him...and I loved what he did to me with that hard cock and arousal when he moved on from my feet.

Food play. Another boyfriend loved to be cuffed (I enjoy both being cuffed and cuffing someone!) and having me touch his hard cock with different foods. Cookies. Marshmallows. Cooked spaghetti. Cake. Popsicles (he loved me to lick/eat the popsicle while touching it to his throbbing cock). Honey. Syrup. The food play did nothing for me, except that I loved how hard it made him and teasing is almost always fun...even if it's doing something that I don't quite understand.

I had a female playmate once who loved (to the point of need) to have me write all over her body with markers. Things like 'Emily's cunt' on her belly with an arrow pointing down. 'Tongue here' on each buttcheek with an arrow to her anus. 'Property of' or 'Spank me' or 'Suck' or 'Whore' or 'Rug Muncher' (she liked that on her forehead....yes these were washable markers). She'd have me take pictures on my phone and show her, and by the time this was done she was a quivering mass of need who could cum from a stiff breeze or stern look. Again I didn't need or really want to do this, but her arousal was fascinating and would always get me turned on, and taking a long soapy bath together afterwards was ALWAYS fun.

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

Oh my yes.
I love to be watched while peeing, preferably in some place or some way that's unusual (bucket, bedpan, sink, outdoors, onto towels, into a diaper someone is holding) and have had several partners who had indulged even though it wasn't their thing.

I also like to watch others pee as well, and many have indulged that without really being into it.

I love to pee with someone, and I've had partners play along like the last two answers.

I love to be desperate, and it's a bit weirder for some to cuddle and snuggle while I struggle not to wet myself (not an age play thing for me...just a desperation thing).

With the right partner I love to swap spit....like literally drool saliva back and forth from mouth to mouth...and I've had people play along who didn't get that either.

And even though this is pretty common....many of my female friends just don't get it....I love (FUCKING LOVE LOVE LOVE) giving handjobs and playing with cum. I could happily sit as a whole line of men moved past me allowing me to stroke/play that way. Like I said it's not unusual....or even really weird/gross.....but many of my female friends just don't understand it.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

There's nothing wrong with asking the question, but the responses tend to be people putting down things that other people may enjoy.

There are a lot of 'sexual activities' that I am not drawn to. But others may love those activities, so good for them as long as no one gets hurt and it's all consentual.

And if you are open-minded, you could be surprised at the thing you enjoy, given the right circumstances.

This answer is perfect.

 

[FiveInch033]

Thank you! I love discussions like this. I'm fascinated not just by my own kinks and desires, but I love to discover what other people enjoy, and WHY they enjoy them.

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?

I don't get feet at all. It doesn't turn me off or bother me, but it's just not something that I have ever found sexual, and no amount of explaining by those into it has helped me 'get' it. (But I respect that others are aroused by feet, and encourage them to savor and enjoy that!)

I don't get those drawn to vomit or feces or severe pain. (Vomit and feces are on my 'no fly' list, and I can tolerate/participate in some pain play at a very low level...but aside from the pleasure of being spanked I just don't get it).

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?

Foot worship. I had a boyfriend once who loved to spend an hour kissing and licking and playing with my feet. It didn't do anything for me sexually, but it certainly wasn't unpleasant, and I loved seeing how hard and horny it made him...and I loved what he did to me with that hard cock and arousal when he moved on from my feet.

Food play. Another boyfriend loved to be cuffed (I enjoy both being cuffed and cuffing someone!) and having me touch his hard cock with different foods. Cookies. Marshmallows. Cooked spaghetti. Cake. Popsicles (he loved me to lick/eat the popsicle while touching it to his throbbing cock). Honey. Syrup. The food play did nothing for me, except that I loved how hard it made him and teasing is almost always fun...even if it's doing something that I don't quite understand.

I had a female playmate once who loved (to the point of need) to have me write all over her body with markers. Things like 'Emily's cunt' on her belly with an arrow pointing down. 'Tongue here' on each buttcheek with an arrow to her anus. 'Property of' or 'Spank me' or 'Suck' or 'Whore' or 'Rug Muncher' (she liked that on her forehead....yes these were washable markers). She'd have me take pictures on my phone and show her, and by the time this was done she was a quivering mass of need who could cum from a stiff breeze or stern look. Again I didn't need or really want to do this, but her arousal was fascinating and would always get me turned on, and taking a long soapy bath together afterwards was ALWAYS fun.

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

Oh my yes.
I love to be watched while peeing, preferably in some place or some way that's unusual (bucket, bedpan, sink, outdoors, onto towels, into a diaper someone is holding) and have had several partners who had indulged even though it wasn't there thing.

I also like to watch others pee as well, and many have indulged that without really being into it.

I love to pee with someone, and I've had partners play along like the last two answers.

I love to be desperate, and it's a bit weirder for some to cuddle and snuggle while I struggle not to wet myself (not an age play thing for me...just a desperation thing).

With the right partner I love to swap spit....like literally drool saliva back and forth from mouth to mouth...and I've had people play along who didn't get that either.

And even though this is pretty common....many of my female friends just don't get it....I love (FUCKING LOVE LOVE LOVE) giving handjobs and playing with cum. I could happily sit as a whole line of men moved past me allowing me to stroke/play that way. Like I said it's not unusual....or even really weird/gross.....but many of my female friends just don't understand it.

I love to be desperate, and it's a bit weirder for some to cuddle and snuggle while I struggle not to wet myself (not an age play thing for me...just a desperation thing).

I've always wanted a partner into this. I'd love to watch a woman do the desperate thing and soak a pair of tight jeans.

The handjob thing with playing with cum is awesome for me too. This could be a thread in of itself. It's amazing to me on how my lovers and friends have reacted to cum. I'm respectful no matter what. One of my favorite friends would give me a handjob and let me spray all over her boobs. Had another lover who wanted me to tell her when I was going to cum, had a towel ready, and wanted very little to do with it. Was a great lover though.

I really liked your post. The black magic marker is fascinating. I really find it interesting on how one thing is great from one person and another goes..."No way."

What I like is how you went "along" with things. Many will not. Mine was spanking a partner. To be honest she would get mad at me. Why? I kept asking her if she was alright. LOL.

 

[IsabellaEmily]

I really liked your post. The black magic marker is fascinating. I really find it interesting on how one thing is great from one person and another goes..."No way."

What I like is how you went "along" with things. Many will not. Mine was spanking a partner. To be honest she would get mad at me. Why? I kept asking her if she was alright. LOL.

Like you I am absolutely fascinated with how different people respond to different kinks/triggers/fetishes.

Something like degradation or bondage or spanking or hair pulling can turn some people on so much that they're weak in the knees with a pounding heart, and others don't really care, while still others would be turned OFF by it.

I'm also fascinated by where our kinks come from. I know where one of mine came from (I not only know, I can remember in vivid details the exact event that brought it into focus for me....although I suppose the argument could be made that it was already there and the specific event is what me realize it was there....I've written about it in detail here on Literotica so if you're curious send me a private message and I'll send you the link...hate to spam it here), but I have others that I don't have any real clue why they trigger me so much.

And yes, I feel that one is obligated (to an extent at least!) to go along with partners when it comes to trying/exploring/indulging in things that turn them on. That's why communication is so important, to help set the parameters and limits for the partner who isn't quite into it so they know they can stop at a certain point. Of course, we're also obligated to respect our partners limits and not push or demand explanations if they don't want to do/try something....which also goes back to communication along with respect.

 

[sarod]

poop and or pee is a hell no for me. Violating health codes is not a turn on.

 

[Ticklespankee]

Question One: What is a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or a Kink that turns you off? That you don't understand or it just doesn't do a thing for you?

So... on the whole, I usually get why people are into things, even if I'm not. There are psychological underpinnings like humiliation, submission and other power dynamics that I experience through my own fetishes. Sometimes there's a taboo element too, sometimes being taboo is the whole appeal. In that sense I can kind of understand "weird" fetishes. I'm not into it, but in a sense... you know, I get it. I'm pretty open to trying things too, with the exception of scat, vomit, anything involving real animals, and incest (even as a concept/roleplay).

Question Two: Is there a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that didn't turn you on but you participated in it because your partner liked it?

I've had two boyfriends who liked to cum all over my face and chest after a blowjob. One of them was particularly into moneyshots. I enjoyed being degraded as a submissive, but I wasn't especially into the act itself. I didn't hate it, just didn't do much for me.

Question Three: Do you enjoy a Sex Act, Fetish, and/or Kink that most people would cringe at or bluntly dislike?

Haha, yes! My primary fetish is tickling. I enjoy being tickled more than doing the tickling, which has made my experience easier in terms of finding partners willing to participate. A lot of people hate being tickled.

In total I've had four serious relationships in my life, two of them (including my spouse) shared my fetish, two did not. The two that didn't thought it was cute and were more than happy to tickle me.

I guess you could say I like feet, too, but really only as an extension of my tickling fetish. I notice and appreciate well maintained feet, just about as much as I notice a nice butt or set of abs. This goes for armpits and bellies, too.

Both of the people I've been with who liked tickling were also heavily into feet, including my spouse, who I'm more than happy to indulge.

My second primary fetish is spanking, which I think most people get.

 

[PleasureArchitect]

Question One: Humiliation - sorry, I want to feel pleasure, not be an outlet for your emotional problems. (no thrill here, especially the drama that comes with it)

Question Two: Humiliation - Previous relationship with a person that had a lot of issues. I re-grew a pair after we split.

Question Three: Pegging and swallowing my wife's squirt Not for everyone, but we sure get off. (gettin hot just thinkin about it)

 

[Katch123]

Answer 1 scat
Answer 2 drunk sex
Answer 3 probably everything I'm into lol

What do you have against drunk sex???

 

[SherlockianMan]

Anything with spit or drool. Can't do vids with sloppy, drooly bjs. Bleh

 

[Katch123]

I've never understood spitting, peeing on someone or scat. I don't judge but my mind says. WTF ???

 

[Drinkmein]

Funny the same guys who are DYING to stick it in your ass are CRYING about how nasty pee is.