Poll question – Adultery

[jaxcreampie69]

I am a cheater! I admit it and don't hide it from the people I have affairs with.
Since women who like this lifestyle are such a minority, how about answering a simple poll without all the "cheater hater" crap than has been beat to death on other threads.

 

[mercury93]

people are not naturally monogamous creatures. period. polyamory is the way to go.

 

[robbie_boy1]

I am a cheater! I admit it and don't hide it from the people I have affairs with.
Since women who like this lifestyle are such a minority, how about answering a simple poll without all the "cheater hater" crap than has been beat to death on other threads.

and what is wrong with letting the person you vowed to love honor and obey the truth? Not that i care about others but living a lie is like family death...i don't believe the relationship would last nor should it...........if you can tell me what part of the lie is good for the relationship?

 

[Seduce]

I am not avoiding it, never crossed my mind to mix with married kind....... alone

 

[muskokan]

people are not naturally monogamous creatures. period. polyamory is the way to go.

I completely agree

 

[jaxcreampie69]

Poll is working really well. We are split 11 to 11 so far. Looks like half the ladies like discreet married guys.

I like all of the comments, its good to hear other peoples opinions.

I want to thank all my married gf's for voting favorably. Keep the thread going.

 

[none2_none2]

I don't see why monogamy gets such a bad rap. The alternative really gets old as the years go by.

I don't see anything natural about:
1) having to wearing condoms or put up boreing limits to stay safe/healthy.
2) worring about embarassing things like crabs.
3) having to rush cause the other person has to suddenly leave to get back to home or work before missed.
4) fucking/sucking, but no kissing as somehow that plesant act somehow IS betrayal.
5) having meetings canceled at the last minute because suddenly it may raise questions...
6) not able to have sex because he isn't horney because he already got it on with someone else. [I'm not into 18yo's or there abouts, otherwise, I suppose this one wouldn't be a problem.]

The list can go on and on.

I suppose if I were SINGLE again and very horney and my kind of guy was bent over and willing, I might go back to old habits. However, it would be a poor substitute for what I have now. Being monogamous doesn't mean I have sex at the drop of a dime, but it has given me a peace of mind I never had with the umpteen guys I had before.

Finally, I met many nice (gay/bi) men, married to women, who were longing for male companionship (not just a dick). Though one could argue how it was unfair for their spouse, I could empathise with them. I'm glad I am not in their shoes where I have to decide between honesty and possibly loosing a family.