Playgrounders And Proud Of It

[EllaPure]

You really are a pitiful, pathetic, small-minded idiot . You won't change any of us - why not show us how committed you are to your faith and go and help the innocent victims of acts of god . In fact get on your hotline and tell him off for their suffering

Can I get an AMEN?

 

[MrEd63]

Thank you, but he isn't going to get it. .

True - he has not sufficient intellect to comprehend what an ameoba would pick up in a second .

 

[janeyl]

Ok I agree with that and it has been well documented but it must also be about taking what you want, in this case sex, otherwise there are many ways to exert power over someone. I mean obviously the sexual urge are built very deep into the psyche of people. Many things in the unconscious that we're not even aware of. Yeah its complicated.

But my point was without debating the exact definition of rape, that if you have sex with a person you absolutely loathe, in this case, the rapist, there can be an unwanted emotional connection. Thats possible what makes the act so difficult to overcome. Am I wrong?

That is almost always fear and shame followed by anger. I wouldn't agree that something that generates a strong emotion means an emotional connection with the person but the act and how it makes someone feel about themselves or even others

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

Thank you, but he isn't going to get it.



My sexual experience, I enjoy sex immensely. Why not get paid for it? I don't choose to. If someone else decides they want that to be part of their sexual repertoire, I say they go for it. None of my business.

I'm not having a discussion about rape with you.

All of you have so far dodged the issue I through out there. I didn't question if you enjoy sex, I asked whether it was possible without some sort of emotional connection.

Ok you don't have to talk about rape, I used it as an extreme example of having sex with something you loathe. In this case the emotional damage is clear. Yes maybe emotion and power have something to do with each other, and that would be interesting to know.

Its strange how I talk to you reasonably and you all talk to me as though I'm the lowest piece of shit under your feet. But in your angry replies, you don't actually bother to read the sense of what I say. Why can't you think and talk instead of yell and scream like little children? The college students I forgive, how about the older ones though? Having said that not everyone here is like that only the more vocal ones. You don't realize that every time you insult me, you're actually doing damage to your personality.

 

[MrEd63]

just what I thought... anything else? Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Oh yeah I forgot you are a superior person to me aren't you.

Yes I am - and I'm proud of that fact . At least I can have a cogent and well-ordered discussion without having to resort to some fictional being and a set of values which were outdated in 450BC

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

Yes I am - and I'm proud of that fact . At least I can have a cogent and well-ordered discussion without having to resort to some fictional being and a set of values which were outdated in 450BC

You have a cogent discussion?! you just called me an amoeba. Way to go mr. philosopher.

 

[janeyl]

Are you sure? Are you sure you just haven't pushed the emotion down and away? And did you always feel like that?

Yes I'm sure. And yes i did and still do now...some sex is purely recreational. I've doen far more intimate things with people than fuck them...

Don't presume to know me or what my thoughts or feelings are or are you going to roll out the old chestnut of me being a woman so it's impossible for me to seperate the two?

 

[EllaPure]

All of you have so far dodged the issue I through out there. I didn't question if you enjoy sex, I asked whether it was possible without some sort of emotional connection.

Ok you don't have to talk about rape, I used it as an extreme example of having sex with something you loathe. In this case the emotional damage is clear. Yes maybe emotion and power have something to do with each other, and that would be interesting to know.

Its strange how I talk to you reasonably and you all talk to me as though I'm the lowest piece of shit under your feet. But in your angry replies, you don't actually bother to read the sense of what I say. Why can't you think and talk instead of yell and scream like little children? The college students I forgive, how about the older ones though? Having said that not everyone here is like that only the more vocal ones. You don't realize that every time you insult me, you're actually doing damage to your personality.

I've already told you it's possible to have sex w/o an emotional connection. Do you have another question?

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

That is almost always fear and shame followed by anger. I wouldn't agree that something that generates a strong emotion means an emotional connection with the person but the act and how it makes someone feel about themselves or even others

So you're saying that there is an emotional reaction to but not a connection with the partner of any sexual experience? In other words its the circumstance of the act, we feel about?

 

[cowslinger64]

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[MrEd63]

You have a cogent discussion?! you just called me an amoeba. Way to go mr. philosopher.

Please accept my apologies - I never meant to be demeaning to single cell creatures
No body cares what you think - we'll take the piss out of you and your sort all day and every day . You're not important, not relevant and nobody gives a fuck about you

 

[janeyl]

So you're saying that there is an emotional reaction to but not a connection with the partner of any sexual experience? In other words its the circumstance of the act, we feel about?

That's not what I'm saying at all-go back and read my post...you spoke about rape specifically and posited that there was somehow an emotional connection from the victim because it was a sexual act...my position is that it is a reaction and possibly more with the act than the person necessarily

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

Please accept my apologies - I never meant to be demeaning to single cell creatures
No body cares what you think - we'll take the piss out of you and your sort all day and every day . You're not important, not relevant and nobody gives a fuck about you

Certainly have a chip on your shoulder!! Why is it that every time i try and have a serious discussion, someone comes along and tries to turn it into a war?

 

[MrEd63]

That's not what I'm saying at all-go back and read my post...you spoke about rape specifically and posited that there was somehow an emotional connection from the victim because it was a sexual act...my position is that it is a reaction and possibly more with the act than the person necessarily

Jane - you're gonna have to use words of one syllable and maybe even pictures for him to understand anything

 

[MrEd63]

Certainly have a chip on your shoulder!! Why is it that every time i try and have a serious discussion, someone comes along and tries to turn it into a war?

That's a bit rich coming from someone who believes in a vengeful god . Your hypocracy is breath-taking - surely you're having us all on . Noboby can be stupid enough to believe the drivel you spout

 

[EllaPure]

Certainly have a chip on your shoulder!! Why is it that every time i try and have a serious discussion, someone comes along and tries to turn it into a war?

You've come to an erotic message board to tell us we are evil and to change our ways, and somehow you think we are starting the war? That's an interesting spin.

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

That's not what I'm saying at all-go back and read my post...you spoke about rape specifically and posited that there was somehow an emotional connection from the victim because it was a sexual act...my position is that it is a reaction and possibly more with the act than the person necessarily

I'm just clarifying... so it is the circumstance of the act that we feel so strongly about... and that wouldn't apply only to say rape but all manner of sexual interactions.

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

That's a bit rich coming from someone who believes in a vengeful god . Your hypocracy is breath-taking - surely you're having us all on . Noboby can be stupid enough to believe the drivel you spout

Well why don't you try and work it out hmmm?

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

You've come to an erotic message board to tell us we are evil and to change our ways, and somehow you think we are starting the war? That's an interesting spin.

My point was just objective. I was just bringing you the good news! After all if I was evil, I'd sure thank someone to tell me about it, cause then I could change.

By the way don't you think heated discussions are erotic? Eroticism needs passion, energy... give it to me baby.

 

[EllaPure]

My point was just objective. I was just bringing you the good news! After all if I was evil, I'd sure thank someone to tell me about it, cause then I could change.

By the way don't you think heated discussions are erotic? Eroticism needs passion, energy... give it to me baby.

You are evil..do you feel better?

Yes, intellectual intercourse can be very erotic. Ignorance...not so much.

 

[janeyl]

I'm just clarifying... so it is the circumstance of the act that we feel so strongly about... and that wouldn't apply only to say rape but all manner of sexual interactions.

would you seriously refer to rape as an interaction?

but perhaps you have a point to an extent in that recreational sex is very different to me and the circumstances of the act create a very different emotional reaction to more intimate acts with the man I love-ie. none, other than pleasure and curiosity

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

I'm just clarifying... so it is the circumstance of the act that we feel so strongly about... and that wouldn't apply only to say rape but all manner of sexual interactions.

So to follow on from that, you would feel love based on the circumstances of the act?

But are you guys saying there really isn't any emotion in sex? That its just about feeling chemical interactions?

 

[WboroBaptM0134]

You are evil..do you feel better?

Yes, intellectual intercourse can be very erotic. Ignorance...not so much.

Thanks for that, I'll try and change!! So lets be erotic together!

 

[EllaPure]

Thanks for that, I'll try and change!! So lets be erotic together!

You don't fall into the right category for the intellectual intercourse...
Ignorance isn't bliss...it's just ignorant.

 

[MrEd63]

So to follow on from that, you would feel love based on the circumstances of the act?

But are you guys saying there really isn't any emotion in sex? That its just about feeling chemical interactions?

What would you know about it - I suspect that you have had a severely dysfunctional upbringing and could do with some sort of therapy to help you deal with your delusional episodes