Phone sex pointers

[KillerMuffin]

Okay, so I'm seriously considering having some hot to trot phone sex. I'm not really sure how to go about it, though. Any tips? Pointers? She's a sexy woman, of course, but I'm a bit embarrassed about the whole thing. I mean, what if she starts giggling? What if I giggle?

*sighs*

Maybe I'll just write a dirty story and call it good.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Laughing out loud is always helpful. I know from experience.

 

[Kitte]

Someone once told me giggling during sex is good. Sometimes you need to giggle to release the tension of the first time, or the awkward things that can happen. Just let it flow naturally and have a good time. Make sure the phone battery is charged!

 

[Rubyfruit]

May I pre-order the transcripts?

 

[Guru]

 

[Ms_Lilith]

laughing during phone sex is cute... it releases tension, and it gives you info about what your partner likes/dislikes/finds appropriate, etc.

Just relax, and enjoy your fingers and her voice..

 

[Never]

KillerMuffin:
“Okay, so I'm seriously considering having some hot to trot phone sex. I'm not really sure how to go about it, though. Any tips? Pointers? She's a sexy woman, of course, but I'm a bit embarrassed about the whole thing. I mean, what if she starts giggling? What if I giggle?”

The world is so not fair.
*sobs uncontrollably*

 

[Eumenides]

Tips:

1) Lock your posessive cat in the bathroom. Screaming in pain from her biting your leg is NOT sexy.

2) Don't fall asleep.

3) giggling is good, but not after he says "my cock is so hard for you, baby"

4) make sure you don't lose focus and start watching infomercials

5) moan, whimper, gasp, cry out...they like that...

6) have something entertaining nearby in case it's not much fun for you.



Not that I would know...

 

[ridddder]

newbie phone sex pointers

First, be yourself....it usually helps me to warm up to it....try to be open start by discussing things that arouse you, and see where that takes you.

Second, humor is appreciated but only when appropriate, laughing when she is moaning isn't a good sign.

Third, think of it as reading a sensual novel with you being the star. Only relate it like you are doing so with feeling, being plastic is a downer.

Fourth, since the phone is aural use lots of sounds, moan....whisper in her ear.

Fifth, don't be shy, make it real. Being a timid lover in bed is accepted at 15, be candid, she will be appreciative. However tone it down to the person, only use language she can relate to.....saying fuck me at an inoportune time could be a killer.

Sixth, get into the moment. I think enthusiasm is part of the most exciting things with phone sex. If you aren't into it....there isn't much that can save it.

Hope these things help

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Never]

I don't know screaming in pain might be sexy - as long as they thought you were screaming in orgasmic bliss.