Desiremakesmeweak
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Hmn. In this place I think people can have a go at self-identifying about this subject, and not just hold it all as 'theoretical' or 'fictional' or 'fantasy' and try to get away with somewhat let's say 'sneaky' (as in more-or-less deceitful) erotic writing about things that will never ACTUALLY be.
Hmn x 2. There are a lot of tiny details that go along with having that kind of 'lifestyle morality.' I haven't seen anywhere - not on any television program, certainly, that I am aware of - what really goes along with allowing oneself to accept the concept of being either ACTUALLY (as opposed to just talking about it) permissive, or promiscuous. I am certainly ACTUALLY both, though, no question.
I notice a lot of comments whenever this sort of thing is raised, about germs and illnesses and crazy people and drug-using people - and that's just the beginning of the negatives.
When I walk into a room of people I have never met before, that fact is, those I would consider having a sexual involvement with is likely to be extremely few in number. And there are many reasons for that.
If you go about endlessly washing yourself with antibacterial gel and so on, you end up like Howard Hughes but without the wealth! If you are ignorant about the potential problems, you'll be dead like Howard Hughes too. The reality is, too few germs around you and you'll have inadequate immune responses - but even just a tiny amount of the worst ones and you'll be in very serious trouble.
Is the physical health and medical aspect the most important one? Yes. I think it is.
Can you overcome those risks? Yes, you probably can.
Are there psychological issues with permissiveness and/or promiscuity? No, I'm pretty certain in fact that it is the other way around. And I think as intelligent beings people, some people, have the challenge and also the capacity to resolve the problematic factors and reach an optimum situation.
I go so far as to say, Monogamy is the lazy human's way out of the issue.
I think this recent iteration of 'swinging' is not the same as real permissiveness and promiscuity. Even polyamory is a particular condition placed on top of pure sex expression.
Careful though I am, of course, I am not a doctor. Wait a minute - I'm WA-A-AY more knowledgeable than any doctor out there today!!!
My thoughts.
"Desire makes me weak." Yes. But not in the head.
Hmn x 2. There are a lot of tiny details that go along with having that kind of 'lifestyle morality.' I haven't seen anywhere - not on any television program, certainly, that I am aware of - what really goes along with allowing oneself to accept the concept of being either ACTUALLY (as opposed to just talking about it) permissive, or promiscuous. I am certainly ACTUALLY both, though, no question.
I notice a lot of comments whenever this sort of thing is raised, about germs and illnesses and crazy people and drug-using people - and that's just the beginning of the negatives.
When I walk into a room of people I have never met before, that fact is, those I would consider having a sexual involvement with is likely to be extremely few in number. And there are many reasons for that.
If you go about endlessly washing yourself with antibacterial gel and so on, you end up like Howard Hughes but without the wealth! If you are ignorant about the potential problems, you'll be dead like Howard Hughes too. The reality is, too few germs around you and you'll have inadequate immune responses - but even just a tiny amount of the worst ones and you'll be in very serious trouble.
Is the physical health and medical aspect the most important one? Yes. I think it is.
Can you overcome those risks? Yes, you probably can.
Are there psychological issues with permissiveness and/or promiscuity? No, I'm pretty certain in fact that it is the other way around. And I think as intelligent beings people, some people, have the challenge and also the capacity to resolve the problematic factors and reach an optimum situation.
I go so far as to say, Monogamy is the lazy human's way out of the issue.
I think this recent iteration of 'swinging' is not the same as real permissiveness and promiscuity. Even polyamory is a particular condition placed on top of pure sex expression.
Careful though I am, of course, I am not a doctor. Wait a minute - I'm WA-A-AY more knowledgeable than any doctor out there today!!!
My thoughts.
"Desire makes me weak." Yes. But not in the head.
