People with Disabilities?

[Rrrosyn]

I'm shy and not confident.

I am the most shy person you can imagine. Won't make phone calls, hates asking a receptionist for the time... but when it comes to bed, I am insane. It's like I found something I can control in my life. That's the psychology behind my Domme tendancies.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I thought I was the only person who had issuess about phone calls.

anyway but I think sexualy.. my problem is not that much that I'm shy.. but more confidence.
my whole life I've been treated like a child.. still am.
No one beleives I'm 20. cause I'm 4 foot. people dont treat me like a women.
people make rude comments about me.
Hell was in a restaurent and a old lady asked bf how his little girl was.
and he even has said that only my face looks my age.
its a little hard to feel attractive and confident and be agreesive sexualy when you feel all that.
hes like I'm your bf you shouldnt have a problem with being shy and such with me.
he seems to think since he doesnt that I shouldnt.
doesnt work that way.
he has a low selfesteem as well. hes over weight. 5'7" and 230 lbs
but hes very confident sexualy.

I am the most shy person you can imagine. Won't make phone calls, hates asking a receptionist for the time... but when it comes to bed, I am insane. It's like I found something I can control in my life. That's the psychology behind my Domme tendancies.

 

[Rrrosyn]

nah. i was surprised to get an email from this guy after all this time.

no phones. hate phones. like computers.

i am 5'6" and obese. but the health makes me more insecure than weight.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I hate phones to.. imgine phone sex... ACK

nah. i was surprised to get an email from this guy after all this time.

no phones. hate phones. like computers.

i am 5'6" and obese. but the health makes me more insecure than weight.

 

[Rrrosyn]

Phone sex? What's that?

I did that once!! It sucked. Turned out I was "too quiet" according the the jerk on the other end.

I actually admire women who can make a living doing that!

 

[Pixie Mischief]

LMAO!!! me to me to! BF seems to taken it upon himself to teach me to be louder.
teach, train. same thing. thats what it feels like.
LMAO

but I hate phone sex. you need to be real verbal and thats hard for me.
and I hate phones. but he cant be here with me. so ....

Phone sex? What's that?

I did that once!! It sucked. Turned out I was "too quiet" according the the jerk on the other end.

I actually admire women who can make a living doing that!

 

[Rrrosyn]

I don't mind, if it is to hear a comforting voice once in a while. But, I really hate phones. It's pathetic. Wonder if it a phobia?

 

[Pixie Mischief]

I prefer cyber over phone sex LOL
I always had issuess with phones. and sex on the phone thats just.. gawd.
hmm well I have a water phobia.. phones arent that bad.
I do avoid them thought

I don't mind, if it is to hear a comforting voice once in a while. But, I really hate phones. It's pathetic. Wonder if it a phobia?

 

[Rrrosyn]

I have some phobias too and would gladly take phone.

I don't really like cyber. Don't mind Domme with webcam and I can see him. But... Something about me requires scent and other things to get really into it. Which means R/L... which means knowing someone well first.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

Yes but... I prefer cyber over phone LOL

I have some phobias too and would gladly take phone.

I don't really like cyber. Don't mind Domme with webcam and I can see him. But... Something about me requires scent and other things to get really into it. Which means R/L... which means knowing someone well first.

 

[Nightjak]

Disabled as well

DustyWolfe, you are not alone at all. I have had on disabled sub a while ago and the relationship was great. But the real change came when I recently joined the disabled ranks, now that my hip is falling apart. The pain is the worst part, but I deal with it and learn to work, and live past it, not through it. I also have some good days and bad days but I have been able to stay on TOP of the game. I will be having surgery in soon for a replacement.

 

[Netzach]

I must have a thing about hips. I have chronic illness rather than disability, but 2 of the bottoms I play with fondly and regularly have degenerating hips. 3 hip replacements between 2 people!

You adjust your demands and play to their strengths and you can still have a ton of fun.