Ok I am a 20 year old bi male with a boyrfriend who has a pentient for body modifications. I was cool with this until he started telling me he has wanted to get penile piercings for quite some time. Specifically an ampallang. Which is a piercing which goes straight through the cockhead and there are small metal balls about 2 millimeters in diameter. (I am guessing here they could be a little smaller or larger) on each side of the cock head. Does anyone here have experience with anal sex and such a piercing. I am afraid that it will hurt like hell. I have had an experience with anal sex without enough lube once and that was far more painful then I am at all willing to repeat. The idea of an ampallang going up there scares the shit out of me. Can someone either validify my fears or tell me I'm bein paranoid. Thanks for the help.