Pegging

Does it remain firm enough for penetration at any position?

So the pair we bought does. But I’d say the pair we got is probably a half size small and stays in place very well. I think if they were to big and loose it would not work so well. It would be just like a harness with loose straps.
 
Thanks, but I meant the dildo. We have one that is soft and lifelike but it really only works hands free with me on top.
 
I have a question about being pegged that may sound strange but if I can’t ask here where can I?😅 So my wife and I are new to BDSM. We are still learning our boundaries and how to navigate the Dom/Sub relationship. We don’t live it 24/7 just in the sexual sense. I am the dominant and she the sub.

However, I am curious about being pegged, but not as a submissive act but where I would be making her service me and jerk me off while she’s doing it. I see all these women, bi-men, gay men who all rave about how good anal feels. I’m at the age (59) where if I don’t try something now I probably never will. And hell why have regrets about not doing something? Why shouldn’t we all get to experience this pleasure (if it turns out to be pleasure) without it changing the dynamic? My wife and I briefly had a discussion about it but she feels it would reduce my dominance over her, at least in her image of me.

So my question is, first, are there any dominant males in this group that have their subs peg them? Or is this completely contradictory of the role? If so, how do you balance the act with still being the dominant? Any suggestions on how to present it to my sub to make her understand it is her duty to service and please me however I desire.

Thanks!
 
@SexualCuriosity66, I've been thinking about your post.
This is your wife. Why can't you just have a conversation about this? It's something you want to try. You are starting to explore BDSM, these are conversations that you should be able to have with her. You don't have to be fixed in sub/dom roles. You're free to switch it up and enjoy things any way that suits you.

Conversations should be a part of any relationship, regardless of the topic.
 
@SexualCuriosity66, I've been thinking about your post.
This is your wife. Why can't you just have a conversation about this? It's something you want to try. You are starting to explore BDSM, these are conversations that you should be able to have with her. You don't have to be fixed in sub/dom roles. You're free to switch it up and enjoy things any way that suits you.

Conversations should be a part of any relationship, regardless of the topic.
We have talked about it to some degree. She used to joke about pegging me when I would bring up anal. At one point I said I’d let her if she let me and that I was curious to see if I’d like it. We talked about prostate massagers as well. She is pretty anti anal all around. So even doing to me she isn’t really interested in. She is really hung up on the hygiene part. As far as pegging me, even talking about it in general she felt like it would change how she viewed me.

I do believe continued conversation may help to at least get her to try stuff on me. Not sure I’ll ever get her to agree to let me fuck her ass.
 
Sorry she's not into it. Might not be easy to convince her then.
It won’t be and I will never pressure her. But I will keep having open conversations about it. Sometimes I think the more you hear the same thing the less bizarre it sounds compared to the first time. It basically loses the shock effect and might allow more actual thought. We’ll see.
 
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