Regarding the hygene part, besides the usual enema and all that, she can wear disposable gloves also. Wife prefers that if fingering me, even with a toy to keep cleanup qyuck.We have talked about it to some degree. She used to joke about pegging me when I would bring up anal. At one point I said I’d let her if she let me and that I was curious to see if I’d like it. We talked about prostate massagers as well. She is pretty anti anal all around. So even doing to me she isn’t really interested in. She is really hung up on the hygiene part. As far as pegging me, even talking about it in general she felt like it would change how she viewed me.
I do believe continued conversation may help to at least get her to try stuff on me. Not sure I’ll ever get her to agree to let me fuck her ass.