Pegging

Does it remain firm enough for penetration at any position?

So the pair we bought does. But I’d say the pair we got is probably a half size small and stays in place very well. I think if they were to big and loose it would not work so well. It would be just like a harness with loose straps.
 
Thanks, but I meant the dildo. We have one that is soft and lifelike but it really only works hands free with me on top.
 
I have a question about being pegged that may sound strange but if I can’t ask here where can I?😅 So my wife and I are new to BDSM. We are still learning our boundaries and how to navigate the Dom/Sub relationship. We don’t live it 24/7 just in the sexual sense. I am the dominant and she the sub.

However, I am curious about being pegged, but not as a submissive act but where I would be making her service me and jerk me off while she’s doing it. I see all these women, bi-men, gay men who all rave about how good anal feels. I’m at the age (59) where if I don’t try something now I probably never will. And hell why have regrets about not doing something? Why shouldn’t we all get to experience this pleasure (if it turns out to be pleasure) without it changing the dynamic? My wife and I briefly had a discussion about it but she feels it would reduce my dominance over her, at least in her image of me.

So my question is, first, are there any dominant males in this group that have their subs peg them? Or is this completely contradictory of the role? If so, how do you balance the act with still being the dominant? Any suggestions on how to present it to my sub to make her understand it is her duty to service and please me however I desire.

Thanks!
 
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