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I wanted to introduce anal sex on me. One time, totally spontaneously, I got her to simulate fucking me from behind. We were both naked, and she was giving me a back rub. I was laying flat on the bed. She was sitting across my legs straddling my ass. She was rubbing my back and leaned forward to do my shoulders and neck. She had been rubbing me for quite awhile when I could feel her pelvic mound pressing into my ass right near my anus. As she leaned forward to rub my neck her mound put more pressure on my ass in this very sensitive spot. I started to slowly rotate my ass on her mound. As I started to do this I suspected she knew what I wanted. She leaned forward and pressed her mound into me. Nothing was said as this was happening.

Amazing story and thanks for sharing! That is exactly how I got started into pegging. My gf loved my ass so much she would make me lay on the bed naked face down. She mounted me as you mentioned above and would rub her pussy on my ass until she had an orgasm. When she first did it, I was not turned on at all just happy that she could get herself off. But soon I found myself getting hard as she pumped on top of me and I would move back into her as you described!

Later, when I started pegging it was all about the woman's pleasure not my own. I would endure the pain of entry etc and hold out until she came.

ES
 
the submissive aspect is a huge turn on, as is surrendering control. but also, i can safely say i have never felt such intense pleasure as with anal sex. when you first try it, it's difficult to forget!

That's so true. I think I've said it elsewhere but one of the first times my wife pegged me, I was riding her (think cowgirl...or cowgurl ;):devil::kiss:). Even though I didn't stay hard, I had one of the strongest orgasms I'd ever experienced. Shot all over her hair, head, headboard of the bed, etc. Glorious.

I did apologize profusely as I've never cum on my wife's face or hair or anything. Facials aren't one of our things.
 
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This past weekend, my wife fucked me for the first time in a about a week. She started with me bent over the bed and then told me to lay on my back. She was fucking me and stroking my dick while talking dirty. I was so turned on that when I came it shot all over my face. I opened my mouth for the second big spurt and licked off whatever I could reach with my tongue. It was very very hot.
 
JS,
That's how I felt It is also why I like it when my current wife takes charge and dominates me and does what ever she wants too to me. Especially when she sits on my face and mouth after sex and tells me to lick her clean. She is not interested in pegging me yet.

She sounds like me where I just don't have an interest in it; more just a curiosity of the act itself.

When a lover pegged me. I never lost control

I wouldn't say a total loss of control, but when she pegged you, she had at least some control since she was essentially doing the driving, if for a brief period of time.

Hello LadyJS,

My answer to your questions is that everyone's experience is going to be different. That includes the person being pegged and the pegger. For me, anal play is fun and pegging is just one part of that. I am sure you will see by my responses that I initially did pegging for my partner's pleasure not my own. I had no idea pegging could be pleasurable for the guy.

Surrender and lose control during pegging? That is usually up to the woman pegging me. IF she can get me on that road, that is great but it is rare. There needs to be a deep level of connection and trust.

I would say the role reversal can be fun if the woman also likes that part. For example, the initial entry part is similar to a man first entering a woman. You need to go slow and let her get used to the size. During pegging, the woman may get carried away and not attend to her partner's pleasure--again similar to regular intercourse only in reverse. Some guys say they are much more understanding of a woman's needs during intercourse after being pegged.

ES

Like I said above, I think there's some surrender of control, at least for a time; an agreed upon surrender, so to speak. And I agree that everyone's experience is going to be different. And levels of pleasure will vary. And yeah, attention to your lover's pleasure is important, whether you're the pegger or peggee (is that a word?).
 
the submissive aspect is a huge turn on, as is surrendering control. but also, i can safely say i have never felt such intense pleasure as with anal sex. when you first try it, it's difficult to forget!

My experiences with anal have all been on the negative side, which might explain my lack of interest in pegging. But I do know there's a strong interest in it, witnessed by the number of responses along with the total activity within this thread.
 
For me the turn on is the submissiveness and surrender. That's why I like her strapping me down and then riding my face and mouth with her pussy full of my cum.
 
the submissive aspect is a huge turn on, as is surrendering control. but also, i can safely say i have never felt such intense pleasure as with anal sex. when you first try it, it's difficult to forget!


My husband says this same thing. As the giver of this pleasure, I can honestly say it is the biggest turn on ever and I can't imagine our sex life without my strap on. ;-)
 
My experiences with anal have all been on the negative side, which might explain my lack of interest in pegging. But I do know there's a strong interest in it, witnessed by the number of responses along with the total activity within this thread.

There are a lot of sites out there to help you with anal play. I am sorry to read that it has been all negative. I do feel that it can be fun for everyone. In some cases, you need the right information, ideas, and help.

I feel like beginners should not read stories of explosive anal orgasms and amazing pleasure. In many cases, it takes a long road to get to that point. However, the road to get there can still be pleasurable. It just seems like many guys compare the amazing stories to their beginner experiences and they get very frustrated.

I hope this helps.

ES
 
There are a lot of sites out there to help you with anal play. I am sorry to read that it has been all negative. I do feel that it can be fun for everyone. In some cases, you need the right information, ideas, and help.

I feel like beginners should not read stories of explosive anal orgasms and amazing pleasure. In many cases, it takes a long road to get to that point. However, the road to get there can still be pleasurable. It just seems like many guys compare the amazing stories to their beginner experiences and they get very frustrated.

I hope this helps.

ES

You do have a good point. Anal sex can be a lot of fun but it is the kind of thing that is best taken slowly and with a lot of lube.

In men, the penis extends internally and goes through the prostate. Gentle pressure to it in the right spot feels very very good. Getting there is elusive and at times frustrating.
 
You do have a good point. Anal sex can be a lot of fun but it is the kind of thing that is best taken slowly and with a lot of lube.

In men, the penis extends internally and goes through the prostate. Gentle pressure to it in the right spot feels very very good. Getting there is elusive and at times frustrating.

But still worth every bit of the journey! As Vitriol says, take your time and use LOTS of a good lube meant for anal.
 
But still worth every bit of the journey! As Vitriol says, take your time and use LOTS of a good lube meant for anal.

Yes, silicon based lube.

As hard as the imaginary can be to use big simulated plastic penises, resist the temptation and start small, perhaps your partner’s finger, then 2 or 3 oh you kinky slut!… ahem, 😂 .

Step one, relax and fight the natural urge to clench your sphincter. Start small and ring the doorbell gently. Let your partner know how it feels. Continue with gentle pressure along the continuation of your penis towards your belly. Sometimes a 1/4 of an inch is all It takes of an adjustment for you to feel very very good! 😊
 
Too bad you don't get any pleasure out of it. I guess one has to be in the right mind set. Good for you that you put a woman's pleasure up front. For me when my wife puts the strap-on on and walks around that's enough for me. I get so excited with the anticipation that it carrries over to the penetration, and if we take it slow until its all the way and I've adjusted to the object there's no pain only pleasure for both of us.

Times are when I'm concerned that my wife is the one who takes little pleasure in it.

I know in the past she's commented favorably on the power transfer aspect, but for every time I hear her say how excited she feels watching her girlcock first penetrate me, then move slowly in and out of my quivering ass, I also think her interest in it, as a former sociology/anthropology major, is mostly academic. After all, my man pussy is a nexus of profuse enervation within the anal canal, what with a couple zillion specialized sensory all telling me to lose my mind. Otoh, her strap-on - although quite realistic in appearance - is little more than a clever bit of space age plastic.

I really think we overthink these things too much; at least, I know I do. In the end, it comes down to her willingness to use one on you, and you being gracious enough to accept it for what it really is - a very great gift!
 
This past weekend, my wife fucked me for the first time in a about a week. She started with me bent over the bed and then told me to lay on my back. She was fucking me and stroking my dick while talking dirty. I was so turned on that when I came it shot all over my face. I opened my mouth for the second big spurt and licked off whatever I could reach with my tongue. It was very very hot.

Jeez that does sound very hot. My girlfriend loves seeing the pleasure she is giving me using just her finger.
 
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Too bad you don't get any pleasure out of it. I guess one has to be in the right mind set. Good for you that you put a woman's pleasure up front. For me when my wife puts the strap-on on and walks around that's enough for me. I get so excited with the anticipation that it carrries over to the penetration, and if we take it slow until its all the way and I've adjusted to the object there's no pain only pleasure for both of us.

Actually, I get plenty of pleasure out of it nowadays. That was just how I started. It took a woman who was a Pro and probably a doctor to show me all the pleasurable ways of pegging for men. She knew more about my body than I ever thought possible. Add to that being with a woman who is enjoying herself pegging me, that is even more of a turn-on. No pain these days.

ES
 
she has got it dowm pat she is fucking his ass with power, most women just cat get the rythym going its not a natural move for a woman

I agree that it's a tough rhythm to get into. I can tell my wife sometimes has problems. Of course, you can solve that problem by riding cowgirl or reverse cowgirl instead. That way the guy has control of the movement. Not as dom/sub as when the woman's doing the driving (if you like that sort of thing) but still very enjoyable.

And, obviously, this woman has no problem with the rhythm. :devil:
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