Pegging

[sgwatts3]

horny

I agree that it's a tough rhythm to get into. I can tell my wife sometimes has problems. Of course, you can solve that problem by riding cowgirl or reverse cowgirl instead. That way the guy has control of the movement. Not as dom/sub as when the woman's doing the driving (if you like that sort of thing) but still very enjoyable.

And, obviously, this woman has no problem with the rhythm.
https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2020/11/787775/bdsmlr-787775-7Eblw59WO8.gif

i love riding my wifes cock i cum several times when being fucked tht way i cum on her big tits and suck on em while riding

 

[jammin177]

Love this thread.

Does anyone have any recommendations on a strap-on for my wife? We are newbies to pegging.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Love this thread.

Does anyone have any recommendations on a strap-on for my wife? We are newbies to pegging.

Start small and start slow and use a lot of silicon lube.

You could use a regular strapon or, if she is into it, she could use a feeldo.

 

[Crios]

Start small and start slow and use a lot of silicon lube.

You could use a regular strapon or, if she is into it, she could use a feeldo.

Prepping with butt plugs (starting small) helps as well

 

[cubbyfire04]

Love this thread.

Does anyone have any recommendations on a strap-on for my wife? We are newbies to pegging.

Start small and start slow and use a lot of silicon lube.

You could use a regular strapon or, if she is into it, she could use a feeldo.

I echo vitriolhack, but I might not suggest a feeldoe for the newbies. It's hard to find one that will stay put inside the woman if she hasn't gotten the hang of the motion yet... Although they do make them with a harness as well I believe. Definitely opt for that if so.

 

[jammin177]

Thanks for the advice, Vitriol and cubby.

Do either of you or anyone have specific links to harness type strapons? Possibly with the potential to switch out dildos fairly easily? I hear ones with metal rings are more stable and long-lasting than plastic/nonmetal type materials.

Also, any links to the silicone lubes mentioned?

 

[Goldenfinger]

https://SPAMPOST/SwitchForHer/post/3954dcbd-f237-453e-8dc0-d75f7bd8a1da/

 

[Wifechangedhermind]

https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2021/06/10338100/bdsmlr-10338100-TJ1T2enUdn.jpg

 

[Crios]

https://cdn012.bdsmlr.com/uploads/photos/2021/06/10338100/bdsmlr-10338100-TJ1T2enUdn.jpg

My favorite position!

 

[Ben_Tover]

Sliquid has a range of lubes. If your toys are silicone, DO Not use silicone lube. We have a Tantus Super Soft Goliath that silicone lube removed the slick finish off. Now we have to use a condom to use that toy. On the other hand, silicone lube and glass or steel toys is divine, I was plugged with an 1.5" glass toy for 8 hours yesterday using Sliquid Silver lube.
Sliquid Silver is silicone, Sassy is a thicker water based for your ass, H2O is water based that is thinner that my wife prefers for vaginal. They have smaller bottles that you can experiment with.
We live in Western Canada, so the most economical source for our toys is pinkcherry.ca Amazon.ca is a real crap shoot, sometimes it's 200% cheaper to buy from the American site, pay the exchange, duty, and shipping.
Honestly do some research, find things that you think that may work for you, then search for reviews of that item. Almost every online purchase that I regretted spending money on, had bad reviews.
Communicate with your partner, my favourite position, is doggy style, but then my Darling can't see if I'm grimacing in pain, or grinning from ear to ear, or drooling, with my eyes rolled back because she's found that sweet spot and rhythm and I'm experiencing an almost continuous orgasm. Be verbal, tell her if you need more lube, if you just need to stop a moment. Explain that stop doesn't mean yank it out like you are pull starting a lawnmower. Tell her if she's found the sweet spot and OMG that is so good please don't stop. Make your partner feel sexy and appreciated, thank her, and have fun with her.

 

[sgwatts3]

horny

Sliquid has a range of lubes. If your toys are silicone, DO Not use silicone lube. We have a Tantus Super Soft Goliath that silicone lube removed the slick finish off. Now we have to use a condom to use that toy. On the other hand, silicone lube and glass or steel toys is divine, I was plugged with an 1.5" glass toy for 8 hours yesterday using Sliquid Silver lube.
Sliquid Silver is silicone, Sassy is a thicker water based for your ass, H2O is water based that is thinner that my wife prefers for vaginal. They have smaller bottles that you can experiment with.
We live in Western Canada, so the most economical source for our toys is pinkcherry.ca Amazon.ca is a real crap shoot, sometimes it's 200% cheaper to buy from the American site, pay the exchange, duty, and shipping.
Honestly do some research, find things that you think that may work for you, then search for reviews of that item. Almost every online purchase that I regretted spending money on, had bad reviews.
Communicate with your partner, my favourite position, is doggy style, but then my Darling can't see if I'm grimacing in pain, or grinning from ear to ear, or drooling, with my eyes rolled back because she's found that sweet spot and rhythm and I'm experiencing an almost continuous orgasm. Be verbal, tell her if you need more lube, if you just need to stop a moment. Explain that stop doesn't mean yank it out like you are pull starting a lawnmower. Tell her if she's found the sweet spot and OMG that is so good please don't stop. Make your partner feel sexy and appreciated, thank her, and have fun with her.

i agree its a special bond for a man and a woman to give yourself like that is very hot we love it i ride her so she can see my love of it i cum 2-3 times while were doing it and always lick her clean after she cums to

 

[jammin177]

Thanks, Ben. You mentioned glass versus silicone toys. To me, it seems like glass would really hurt if used incorrectly for an amateur because it is so rigid and silicone is softer/more flexible, which may be safer. Does that make sense?

Sliquid has a range of lubes. If your toys are silicone, DO Not use silicone lube. We have a Tantus Super Soft Goliath that silicone lube removed the slick finish off. Now we have to use a condom to use that toy. On the other hand, silicone lube and glass or steel toys is divine, I was plugged with an 1.5" glass toy for 8 hours yesterday using Sliquid Silver lube.
Sliquid Silver is silicone, Sassy is a thicker water based for your ass, H2O is water based that is thinner that my wife prefers for vaginal. They have smaller bottles that you can experiment with.
We live in Western Canada, so the most economical source for our toys is pinkcherry.ca Amazon.ca is a real crap shoot, sometimes it's 200% cheaper to buy from the American site, pay the exchange, duty, and shipping.
Honestly do some research, find things that you think that may work for you, then search for reviews of that item. Almost every online purchase that I regretted spending money on, had bad reviews.
Communicate with your partner, my favourite position, is doggy style, but then my Darling can't see if I'm grimacing in pain, or grinning from ear to ear, or drooling, with my eyes rolled back because she's found that sweet spot and rhythm and I'm experiencing an almost continuous orgasm. Be verbal, tell her if you need more lube, if you just need to stop a moment. Explain that stop doesn't mean yank it out like you are pull starting a lawnmower. Tell her if she's found the sweet spot and OMG that is so good please don't stop. Make your partner feel sexy and appreciated, thank her, and have fun with her.

 

[Ben_Tover]

If you or your partner are new to anal play, start soft and small. Nothing larger then a finger width or possibly 2. My point was to not use silicone lube with silicone toys. We are a huge fan of silicone toys, especially the Tantus line. There are probably 100's of lube makers, with 100's of options. Our first choice is Sliquid Silver (Silicone) for glass and steel toys. Sliquid Sassy (water based, pink bottle) for anal play, and Sliquid H20 (thinner water based, blue bottle) for vaginal sex. Of course there is the old standby of Astroglide Gel available anywhere fairly cheap.
Water based lubes can be used with all toys. Silicone lubes do bad things to most silicone toys.
Communicate, explore, play, and enjoy each other.

 

[suzyque72]

https://suzyque72.**********/post/440661939

 

[bjlatx]

Thanks for the advice, Vitriol and cubby.

Do either of you or anyone have specific links to harness type strapons? Possibly with the potential to switch out dildos fairly easily? I hear ones with metal rings are more stable and long-lasting than plastic/nonmetal type materials.

Also, any links to the silicone lubes mentioned?

I would start with something like this.

https://shop.literotica.com/product/CNVNAL-8370/vac-u-lock-set-8-realistic-cock-with-ultra-harness

It's small enough for a beginner but also big enough to be enjoyable. The Vac-u-Lock system makes changing dildoes very easy and quick. There are also many options available in the Vac-u-Lock product line that you can find any size to suit you. If you enjoy it, it won't take long for you to be ready to move up a size or two...or three. And you can just get the KY water based lube from your local grocery or drug store. It works great, is inexpensive, and readily available.

We usually use a condom on our toys to keep them as clean as possible and for extra lube. I also always use an enema about an hour before we play to ensure there is no "issue". The standard fleet enema from our local grocer or drug store are great for this purpose and are also inexpensive.


Edit: I changed the link to a different dildo as the one I linked is Ultraskyn which is too flimsy. Ultraskyn is good for oral because they are soft, but not so good for fucking because they are too limp. I've found with our Ultraskyn, we can only do one position...me on top. It's a lot of fun, but there are so many other positions to explore that it sucks to be limited to one.

 

[Crios]

I would start with something like this.

https://shop.literotica.com/product...ck-7-ultraskyn-dildo-with-ultra-harness-beige

It's small enough for a beginner but also big enough to be enjoyable. The Vac-u-Lock system makes changing dildoes very easy and quick. There are also many options available in the Vac-u-Lock product line that you can find any size to suit you. If you enjoy it, it won't take long for you to be ready to move up a size or two...or three. And you can just get the KY water based lube from your local grocery or drug store. It works great, is inexpensive, and readily available.

We usually use a condom on our toys to keep them as clean as possible and for extra lube. I also always use an enema about an hour before we play to ensure there is no "issue". The standard fleet enema from our local grocer or drug store are great for this purpose and are also inexpensive.

We use a couple of strapons. The gel one is smaller and easier to take but she spends much of the time holding onto it so as to keep it from bending. The larger one is more firm - she doesn't have to hold onto it.

 

[melodymkr4u]

Sliquid has a range of lubes. If your toys are silicone, DO Not use silicone lube. We have a Tantus Super Soft Goliath that silicone lube removed the slick finish off. Now we have to use a condom to use that toy. On the other hand, silicone lube and glass or steel toys is divine, I was plugged with an 1.5" glass toy for 8 hours yesterday using Sliquid Silver lube.
Sliquid Silver is silicone, Sassy is a thicker water based for your ass, H2O is water based that is thinner that my wife prefers for vaginal. They have smaller bottles that you can experiment with.
We live in Western Canada, so the most economical source for our toys is pinkcherry.ca Amazon.ca is a real crap shoot, sometimes it's 200% cheaper to buy from the American site, pay the exchange, duty, and shipping.
Honestly do some research, find things that you think that may work for you, then search for reviews of that item. Almost every online purchase that I regretted spending money on, had bad reviews.
Communicate with your partner, my favourite position, is doggy style, but then my Darling can't see if I'm grimacing in pain, or grinning from ear to ear, or drooling, with my eyes rolled back because she's found that sweet spot and rhythm and I'm experiencing an almost continuous orgasm. Be verbal, tell her if you need more lube, if you just need to stop a moment. Explain that stop doesn't mean yank it out like you are pull starting a lawnmower. Tell her if she's found the sweet spot and OMG that is so good please don't stop. Make your partner feel sexy and appreciated, thank her, and have fun with her.

This is all really good info. Perfect.

Aaaaand... "Explain that stop doesn't mean yank it out like you are pull starting a lawnmower."

LMAO... made my day.

 

[melodymkr4u]

Love this thread.

Does anyone have any recommendations on a strap-on for my wife? We are newbies to pegging.

As a woman, I must tell you, that in my opinion, a strap on is like a piece of lingerie. No kidding. It's so important that the wearer is comfortable in it & it feels 'right'. My husband bought the first couple harnesses and I hated them both. Neither of them felt right. They both had all these straps & crap that just looked horrible & felt wrong. I said screw this & we went shopping. Typically the hubby hates shopping but he loved this adventure. I found the most simple leather (I love leather...;-)) harness I could find. They are on the pricy side but they are worth it. I have a few now, it's my favorite piece of lingerie that I own.

 

[Crios]

As a woman, I must tell you, that in my opinion, a strap on is like a piece of lingerie. No kidding. It's so important that the wearer is comfortable in it & it feels 'right'. My husband bought the first couple harnesses and I hated them both. Neither of them felt right. They both had all these straps & crap that just looked horrible & felt wrong. I said screw this & we went shopping. Typically the hubby hates shopping but he loved this adventure. I found the most simple leather (I love leather...;-)) harness I could find. They are on the pricy side but they are worth it. I have a few now, it's my favorite piece of lingerie that I own.

YES! My wife’s short and on the chunky side and has a problem finding comfortable harnesses

 

[cubbyfire04]

As a woman, I must tell you, that in my opinion, a strap on is like a piece of lingerie. No kidding. It's so important that the wearer is comfortable in it & it feels 'right'. My husband bought the first couple harnesses and I hated them both. Neither of them felt right. They both had all these straps & crap that just looked horrible & felt wrong. I said screw this & we went shopping. Typically the hubby hates shopping but he loved this adventure. I found the most simple leather (I love leather...;-)) harness I could find. They are on the pricy side but they are worth it. I have a few now, it's my favorite piece of lingerie that I own.

My SO and I would agree... Don't go cheap. If she doesn't feel comfortable and sexy, she won't be as into it. Since we found the right harness, she can't get enough lol. And the pegging sessions have been unbelievable.

 

[eroticspank]

As a woman, I must tell you, that in my opinion, a strap on is like a piece of lingerie. No kidding. It's so important that the wearer is comfortable in it & it feels 'right'. My husband bought the first couple harnesses and I hated them both. Neither of them felt right. They both had all these straps & crap that just looked horrible & felt wrong. I said screw this & we went shopping. Typically the hubby hates shopping but he loved this adventure. I found the most simple leather (I love leather...;-)) harness I could find. They are on the pricy side but they are worth it. I have a few now, it's my favorite piece of lingerie that I own.

My SO and I would agree... Don't go cheap. If she doesn't feel comfortable and sexy, she won't be as into it. Since we found the right harness, she can't get enough lol. And the pegging sessions have been unbelievable.

These comments are so important, I completely agree. Part of it for me is getting the woman to take ownership in her part of this kind of play. Having her pick out the strapon is a big part of that. Plus there are many things that we men don't think about that are important to the ladies when it comes to this kind of toy.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

If you or your partner are new to anal play, start soft and small. Nothing larger then a finger width or possibly 2. My point was to not use silicone lube with silicone toys. We are a huge fan of silicone toys, especially the Tantus line. There are probably 100's of lube makers, with 100's of options. Our first choice is Sliquid Silver (Silicone) for glass and steel toys. Sliquid Sassy (water based, pink bottle) for anal play, and Sliquid H20 (thinner water based, blue bottle) for vaginal sex. Of course there is the old standby of Astroglide Gel available anywhere fairly cheap.
Water based lubes can be used with all toys. Silicone lubes do bad things to most silicone toys.
Communicate, explore, play, and enjoy each other.

I am not sure if anyone has mentioned this but do not use petroleum-based lube with condoms. It causes the condom to break down. An example of this type of lube is Baby Oil.

As mentioned above, if you are starting out with pegging go small first. You can always go larger later on but if you start too big it is going to be painful.

ES

 

[Benbored]

She’s actually pretty cute
http://wifechangedhermind.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Screen-Shot-2020-08-26-at-12.50.29-PM.png

 

[jimbob8888]

She’s actually pretty cute
http://wifechangedhermind.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Screen-Shot-2020-08-26-at-12.50.29-PM.png

Uhh.... WOW!!!

 

[Vitriolhack]

She’s actually pretty cute
http://wifechangedhermind.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Screen-Shot-2020-08-26-at-12.50.29-PM.png

They both make a cute couple