pearl necklace

[ayrton]

I need some suggestions. I love big breasts. I mean I can't even see a woman on the street with big breasts without immediately getting hard. In any case, since they are the objects of my desire I would love to cum on my girlfriend's tits. Unfortunately, she is very traditional sexually. I really don't know how to broach the subject. Any help from the ladies?

 

[M's girl]

Gee, that's a hard question. Or a question hard to answer I should say. Look at other threads in this forum and the general answer will be: "just talk to her about it". But I know it's not that simple.

I'm a very liberal girl concerning sexual issues but I can see how an extreme wish of mine would be hard to discuss with my partner. But there's not much we don't do in the bedroom, so to speak, so there's not much (nothing actually) else I would like to suggest to him. We talk a lot about sex, about what turns us on and what doesn't. I think we both know very well from each other what our sexual boundaries are.

There's also things I don't know about sex and one thing is that what you wish is called a pearl neckless. Learning all the time here ;-)
I bet, because you say she's very traditional sexually, she would not know eighter. Is she open to discussions about sex? I can imagine how you casually could tell her at one time what "the other" meaning of a pearl neckless is. Hope it will put a smile on her face. Maybe you can even suggest to buy her a nice (very traditional ) one if she will be so sweet as to have you add a few pearls yourself every once in a while? I'm not saying sexual favours should be bought, no way... but I think in this case it might be a charming way to suggest this.

How long are you together already? She might be open for more than you think but you will have to gradually extend the things you do and wish. Also, if she's very traditional it might just be that she has a lot of hidden desires. It will be hard for her to express them because she's probably told that it's not right or she convinced herself. Have you asked her what she likes or what she would like (in bed) that you two are not already doing? If there's a response from her it might make it easier for you to tell her your wish. Who knows what kind of new opportunities this opens up for you...

Good luck

 

[Eilan]

Just ask her? Perhaps you could bring it up when/if you talk about fantasies that you might have, though that might be a little bit difficult if she's conservative.

Don't just cum on her tits without asking, though.

Communication is always important.

 

[HollyHawkk]

My Bf and I did this, he just sweetly asked me. It was fun. My suggestion is to have some lube on hand. It is messy too.

 

[Runner4fun]

my wife loves it on her chest - she actually asked me to do it while we were heavy into a session...I think that women really like to have cum all over them...my question now is how do I tell her I want to give her a facial - I know she'll like it once its done but I think she may be a little squeamish at first...

 

[Eilan]

my wife loves it on her chest - she actually asked me to do it while we were heavy into a session...I think that women really like to have cum all over them...my question now is how do I tell her I want to give her a facial - I know she'll like it once its done but I think she may be a little squeamish at first...

Actually, there are quite a few women out there who DON'T like it when men cum on them, particularly on their faces. They consider it disrespectful/degrading. I think this is one of those things that some men assume all women like because they get paid to like it in porn.

Personally, I have no issues with it, but I wouldn't allow just anyone to do it. The trust HAS to be there.

My husband's welcome to cum wherever he wants.

 

[EJFan]

I think this is one of those things that some men assume all women like because they get paid to like it in porn.

yup... we (men) see life in such simplistic terms.

My husband's welcome to cum wherever he wants.

there are a lot of potential interpretations here, eilan.

 

[ayrton]

Thanks for the replies. No, I would never just cum on her without asking. I think bringing up fantasies is probably the best idea. It's kind of a touchy subject because she gets a little annoyed at times with my love for her tits. She feels like maybe that all I see in her no matter how I try to convince her otherwise. I just think it would be so erotic to cum on them.

 

[Eilan]

there are a lot of potential interpretations here, eilan.

Well, okay. Maybe not in my hair, just because it would be kinda messy. And not in my eyes, ears, or nose.

We ARE talking about just on ME, mmkay?

 

[EJFan]

then do it, man. get the official "okey dokey" but do it!

and remember this when she asks something of you... and i hope you encourage her to do so. she'll loosen up a little over time.

 

[EJFan]

We ARE talking about just on ME, mmkay?

see... this is what i was getting at. you give a guy permission to "cum wherever her wants" he can surely do exactly that. lol. that includes every cum-dumpster from here to reno.

btw... i know YOUR hubby wouldn't interpret it that way, but i had to make the point for the sake of levity.

 

[Eilan]

see... this is what i was getting at. you give a guy permission to "cum wherever her wants" he can surely do exactly that. lol. that includes every cum-dumpster from here to reno.

btw... i know YOUR hubby wouldn't interpret it that way, but i had to make the point for the sake of levity.

Yeah, but he MIGHT interpret it that way not because he'd act on it, but because he's a smartass. Like other people I know.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I need some suggestions. I love big breasts. I mean I can't even see a woman on the street with big breasts without immediately getting hard. In any case, since they are the objects of my desire I would love to cum on my girlfriend's tits. Unfortunately, she is very traditional sexually. I really don't know how to broach the subject. Any help from the ladies?

Cum on her tits while she's sleeping.

 

[M's girl]

It's kind of a touchy subject because she gets a little annoyed at times with my love for her tits. She feels like maybe that all I see in her no matter how I try to convince her otherwise. I just think it would be so erotic to cum on them.

Aw, what a shame.... now I would get annoyed when my BF was not in love with my tits and ass and, well, all of me ;-) I love it when he says he does, makes me really horny...

And as Eilan said, my BF can come wherever he wants. I think she meant also as long as it's with, on or in ME! I love it when he comes inside of me because of the closeness, the intimacy, but I also LOVE to watch him come so that would have to be ON me..... somewhere. He loves to give me a facial which is fine with me, as long as it's not in my eyes (which sometimes happens by accident and then we both laugh about it; I know he can't help it when that happens...)

 

[LadyJeanne]

Maybe you could just ask her while you're having sex? A well-timed, "I'm so close. Where do you want me?" while you're playing with her nipples might be all it takes.

If that doesn't work, give her options. Tease her. Ask, "Do you want me here? while you're stroking her pussy. "Or here?" while you kiss her on the lips. "Or here?" while you're sucking her nipples.

Make it fun and playful and she might start to see it that way too.

 

[M's girl]

Maybe you could just ask her while you're having sex? A well-timed, "I'm so close. Where do you want me?" while you're playing with her nipples might be all it takes.

If that doesn't work, give her options. Tease her. Ask, "Do you want me here? while you're stroking her pussy. "Or here?" while you kiss her on the lips. "Or here?" while you're sucking her nipples.

Make it fun and playful and she might start to see it that way too.

So right...! I agree

 

[ayrton]

Thanks for all the great replies. I'll definately try them. By the way ladies, am I weird for having such an immediate reaction to large breasts? I know lots of men like them but I'm not kidding...just one glimpse and I'm hard. It makes even grocery shopping embarrassing having to try to hide the growing bulge in my pants.

 

[M's girl]

Thanks for all the great replies. I'll definately try them. By the way ladies, am I weird for having such an immediate reaction to large breasts? I know lots of men like them but I'm not kidding...just one glimpse and I'm hard. It makes even grocery shopping embarrassing having to try to hide the growing bulge in my pants.

Are you weird...... hmmmmm, let's seeee.....
Maybe, and I don't mean to offend you in any way but I can't see much about you in your profile, you are not very experienced with sex yet? My BF just told me the other day that a friend of his had asked him for advice on a relationship/sexual issue. He is not very experienced yet (although not VERY young eighter) and my BF mentioned that his friend used to almost get off already if only the word SEX was mentioned. We laughed about that and of course it was not exactly like that but you get the picture....

When I was younger I reached orgasm much easier. Guess the stimulation was newer (although not neccesarily more exciting). Me and by BF have to 'work harder' (...) now for me to reach an orgasm. So could it be that you're kinda new at this? Then I guess it will become something you are more used to in a while.

There's also a good chance that, once your GF lets you live out your fantasy, it won't be such a big issue for you anymore and your interest will fade somewhat too. You may even find then, that you wish you could go back to the days when your fantasy was still just that, because it was far more exciting then.

 

[BattyBattyBats]

My girlfriend let me cum on her face a couple of times till she got some in her eye and now won't let me, not even when I suggested swimming goggles because she knows they can leak. Is there any way to reduce the stinging of cum in the eyes?

For that matter, what is the best way to get cum out of hair?

 

[Eilan]

Is there any way to reduce the stinging of cum in the eyes?

Don't cum in her eyes?

 

[SkyyAngel]

Could you still cum with the vision of her wearing swimming goggles? Lol....

And unless she's completely submerging her head in a bucket of semen I doubt that it would "leak" as she suggests...

Back when I did this I just closed my eyes until he was done cumming... even if I opened them afterwards it was usually "goopy" enough that it didn't run down into my eye.

And getting cum out of hair.... regular shampoo.... Make it a romantic thing by offering to wash her hair for her. I absolutely swoon when my lover massages the shampoo into my scalp and lovingly rinses it out.... of course he hasn't done this to wash out cum before but it would still be romantic in a way.

 

[the captians wench]

When one guy first decided to aproach me with this idea, I have to admit that I was a little set back by the idea. Now, the way he eased me into it, was a really long night of foreplay and games. Now, I love to suck cock, so while he had me on the bed, he first kissed up and down my body. Then on his way back up, he kept going up until his cock was with in reach of my mouth. After a few minutes of me licking and sucking he moved back down so that he was nestled in my breasts, leaned down and kissed me. As he leaned down, his cock had no choice but to slide between my breasts. And then he went back to letting me use my mouth. After a few rounds of this, he was very ready to cum, so he asked me if it was okay to cum where his cock lied, on my breasts. I was so into the moment I shouted out "YES YES Cum right there baby". Needless to say I really enjoyed it. And the shower fun afterwards.

Hope my experience helps.

 

[Private_Label]

I need some suggestions. I love big breasts. I mean I can't even see a woman on the street with big breasts without immediately getting hard. In any case, since they are the objects of my desire I would love to cum on my girlfriend's tits. Unfortunately, she is very traditional sexually. I really don't know how to broach the subject. Any help from the ladies?

My personal feelings are that skin & hair are washable. If my partner wants to cum on my body that's ok. I haven't experienced it in real life yet, so I don't know how it will affect me to see it.

Maybe ask if you could do it in the shower once and that way she could wash it off right away. At least it would be a compromise and an opening to communicating.