paying for it....

[Slinky'sWench]

OK, my (I don't know how to explain our relationship but here goes)... long term shag partner, no relationship, no strings, not really friends just shag when we see each other and have been doing so for 6 yrs now (does that make sense?)

anyhow, he's coming round to help with my gardening on the weekend coz my health makes it impossible for me to do it, the problem is there is such a spark of lust anytime we're together that we will, inevitabley end up playing rabbits and shagging for England.....

with me so far, OK... I'm sat here, having agreed to pay him money for the gardening, wondering whether in fact, i am just paying for his services, not just to the garden but my growing sexual frustration aswell.

I could really do with some unbiased help as to wether to call the whole thing off and turn to yellow pages or just go with it and have my shagee become my slut (his words not mine).

HELP !!

 

[kotori]

I can see why it's taken 2.5-hrs to get your first reply. . .

This is a complicated little question.

But my thought was this: hire someone else to do the digging, and whilst there outside churning dirt, you and the fuck-buddy can be inside doin' what come naturally.

You'll get them daffys up by March 1st

 

[Gamelover221]

I don't know how much you are paying him, but compare that to what you would have to pay a typical gardner. If you are paying him a substancial bit more, then you might consider it is for your "extra" needs, but if not then I wouldn't worry about it. If he keeps a good garden for you, and you enjoy his company, what could be better?

 

[Slinky'sWench]

thanks for the advice