pain wothout marks

[poesinoe]

pain without marks

I have been cursed and blessed with fair irish skin, the problem is that I truly enjoy a good amount of pain and most everything leaves marks, not that I care about the marks, but my husband who has no idea that I am as into bdsm as I am, nor that I have a Master might question where they came from. My Master and I are looking for new ways to play so that I get the pain I crave and not leave too many tell tale signs. Help!

 

[D's mariposa]

I have been cursed and blessed with fair irish skin, the problem is that I truly enjoy a good amount of pain and most everything leaves marks, not that I care about the marks, but my husband who has no idea that I am as into bdsm as I am, nor that I have a Master might question where they came from. My Master and I are looking for new ways to play so that I get the pain I crave and not leave too many tell tale signs. Help!

Start with a slow spanking that gently reddens your backside. This brings the blood up into the top layers of skin and may help you mark a little less. Another thing that may help is to take benadryl or a similar antihistamine; I've heard that it reduces bruising but I've never tried that. Avoid aspirin and other anti coagulants that thin the blood. Or try staying away from intense pain until you discuss this with your husband.

I'm obviously more concerned with the fact that you're seeing a Master outside of your marriage and your husband doesn't know. It's not fair to your husband, or your Master or yourself. Is your husband aware of your bdsm leanings at all? What's going to happen if (or when) he finds out? Is it the whole bdsm thing that turns you on or is it the secrecy too, or the danger of discovery? It's heady stuff, but is it worth risking everything?

 

[Pure]

Hi poesinoe,

There's already a thread with lots of ideas and no 'tut-tut-ing'
titled Secret SM

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=176666

Best,
J.

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

Try a tens machine if there is no pacemaker fitted,not sure if enough pain but sure will give lots of sensations in the right spot

 

[Call Me Kevin]

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[cherryfire]

Re: pain without marks

I have been cursed and blessed with fair irish skin, the problem is that I truly enjoy a good amount of pain and most everything leaves marks, not that I care about the marks, but my husband who has no idea that I am as into bdsm as I am, nor that I have a Master might question where they came from. My Master and I are looking for new ways to play so that I get the pain I crave and not leave too many tell tale signs. Help!

No offence, but it sounds like your husband is the real master here.

Anyway, i agree with the previous remarks. A good warm up will reduce marking. Getting your skin reddened slowly with smacks/hits that start out slow and then gradually graduate into firmer strokes will keep it from bruising and welting quite as much.

Its a shame you cant enjoy the marks you earned..perhaps the bigger question is why youre stuck in a vanilla relationship you cant enjoy. Good luck to you!

Cherryfire