Out of the comfort zone

[Kajira Callista]

I'm take a huge big ol giant step here in my life. I'm going to have bdsm and nilla pictures of myself taken in a motel by someone i don't even know....hopefully with daddy watching.
Here are my issues: I am old lol and overweight but i know i am beatiful if pics are taken well. I want my KC side to shine through even in the nilla pics and am not sure how to make that happen.
I need suggestions for pretty props and kajira wear as well as nilla clothes suggestions.



PLEASE HELP ME! I promise you all will be the first to seeeeee!!!!!

 

[Chiara_searches]

I don't have suggestions for props or clothes because you should be picking what you are comfortable in/with. But recently I needed to have a picture done (very vanilla one) and what I did a few moments before the snap was to think about the person and what sense I wanted to convey. If words are to be believed, the sense I was trying to evoke came through loud and clear.

 

[neci]

I'm take a huge big ol giant step here in my life. I'm going to have bdsm and nilla pictures of myself taken in a motel by someone i don't even know....hopefully with daddy watching.
Here are my issues: I am old lol and overweight but i know i am beatiful if pics are taken well. I want my KC side to shine through even in the nilla pics and am not sure how to make that happen.
I need suggestions for pretty props and kajira wear as well as nilla clothes suggestions.



PLEASE HELP ME! I promise you all will be the first to seeeeee!!!!!

what do you have to pick from?
i would go with something that makes me feel sexy when i put it on, and cinches the waist in a bit. props for a motel? cigarettes and an ashtray. maybe a dildo. *nods*

 

[eastern sun]

Will you get to choose your persona? and poses? Will you actually have control of the camera shots?

I ask because I am also old and overweight, but recently learned how to make a pig tail plug look pretty good, which wouldn't have been a prop I'd choose for its photogenic properties. In other words, I'm not sure it's the props that make the difference.

What persona are you trying to convey? Who is KC as an icon?

 

[Kajira Callista]

what do you have to pick from?
i would go with something that makes me feel sexy when i put it on, and cinches the waist in a bit. props for a motel? cigarettes and an ashtray. maybe a dildo. *nods*

And some empty bottles! I like it!

 

[Kajira Callista]

Will you get to choose your persona? and poses? Will you actually have control of the camera shots?

I ask because I am also old and overweight, but recently learned how to make a pig tail plug look pretty good, which wouldn't have been a prop I'd choose for its photogenic properties. In other words, I'm not sure it's the props that make the difference.

What persona are you trying to convey? Who is KC as an icon?

Lots of things...daddys girl, a whore, a pain slut, obedient, bratty, loving, playful,pouty, sad, reflective lol this could take a long time. I requested two things, First that most of the bdsmy pics portray my slave side fully, second that my nilla kinda for facebook pics pick up the same slave me in a nilla pose. Does that make sense? All my fetishy stuff is being held prisoner by my ex but im up for some shopping.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Just take a lot of pictures, you'll get some good ones.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Just take a lot of pictures, you'll get some good ones.

Wanna come Uncle Rosco?

 

[DVS]

Make sure you have control over photos, negatives, disks, whatever format is used. You don't want to find a picture on the Internet sometime down the road...someplace you wouldn't want to find it. I'm sure you've heard stories of such things. Maybe a contract of some sort would help? And maybe showing the cameraman a baseball bat, while you're making a point would also get his attention.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Wanna come Uncle Rosco?

Don't have to ask twice.

*oface*

Get me a scumrag.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Do you have one of those Kajira slave garments? They are very easy to make;

At the fabric store buy something silky three times the length of your body. On one end cut or rip about two feet down the middle fold.that ties around your neck. Pull the fabric over your boobs, down your body, between your legs, and up over your butt, then cut or rip that end down the middle till the un-ripped part goes over your hips. Those ripped ends come around and tie over your tummy.

It's a good idea to stitch across the beginning of both rips, to prevent them from ripping further, but it doesn't have to be much more than a couple of crude stitches like a bar... And you can hem everything if you want, but in my experience it doesnt matter so much.

 

[where]

I'm take a huge big ol giant step here in my life. I'm going to have bdsm and nilla pictures of myself taken in a motel by someone i don't even know....hopefully with daddy watching.
Here are my issues: I am old lol and overweight but i know i am beatiful if pics are taken well. I want my KC side to shine through even in the nilla pics and am not sure how to make that happen.
I need suggestions for pretty props and kajira wear as well as nilla clothes suggestions.



PLEASE HELP ME! I promise you all will be the first to seeeeee!!!!!

if the photographer is halfway decent s/he'll make you look good anyway. if they aren't either professional or experienced than there are ways you can help get good pics. and being old is not an issue. look at my pics. being a bit overweight can give a voluptuous and almost victorian feel to images.

1) wear make up, but be careful of light reflecting stuff. under flash, touche eclat can give you reverse panda eyes. do not be afraid to put it on fairly heavily.

2) do not have your face lit from directly under or overhead. also try and look at the camera 3/4 and not full on unless you have stunning bone structure.

3( do not allow photos taken looking up at your face unless you have great facial definition. you say you are fat, that actually work in your favour... pushes out the wrinkles us skinnies have

4) try and twist your body. interesting curves and body movement are hot. square on standing isn't.

5) be as relaxed as possible, but sit/stand tall. think string from the top of your head pulling up.

more tomorrow as i think of 'em...

 

[Kajira Callista]

if the photographer is halfway decent s/he'll make you look good anyway. if they aren't either professional or experienced than there are ways you can help get good pics. and being old is not an issue. look at my pics. being a bit overweight can give a voluptuous and almost victorian feel to images.

1) wear make up, but be careful of light reflecting stuff. under flash, touche eclat can give you reverse panda eyes. do not be afraid to put it on fairly heavily.

2) do not have your face lit from directly under or overhead. also try and look at the camera 3/4 and not full on unless you have stunning bone structure.

3( do not allow photos taken looking up at your face unless you have great facial definition. you say you are fat, that actually work in your favour... pushes out the wrinkles us skinnies have

4) try and twist your body. interesting curves and body movement are hot. square on standing isn't.

5) be as relaxed as possible, but sit/stand tall. think string from the top of your head pulling up.

more tomorrow as i think of 'em...

omg i love you...wanna come?

 

[neci]

*takes notes*

 

[DiscusDave]

I know this isn't as much of the advice with regards to props/outfits or 'personas" you were looking for but to ensure some good photos.... HAVE FUN!!

If you have fun doing the photo shoot you're more apt to appreciate even a conventionally "not as good" (this is even subjective) photo. If the whole process was a pain in the ass, then you'll be more likely to be more (or even overly) critical of the pictures taken, even if they are good ones.

If I can come up with more suggestions for props or clothes I'll let you know.

 

[Essene]

Personally, (I know you might scoff at this) I always use sunless tanner when I know pictures will be taken because I'm very pale. -Lighting is super important.

For outfits, they are either empire waist, or something with more structure like a corset.

I would also try on a few things far ahead of time, and check myself out in front of a mirror. Being in front of a mirror is also good for practicing expressions and positions that are most flattering.

-Really comes down to wearing (or not wearing) the kind of attire that makes you feel what you want to convey (sexy, submissive, etc).

 

[Kajira Callista]

I know this isn't as much of the advice with regards to props/outfits or 'personas" you were looking for but to ensure some good photos.... HAVE FUN!!

If you have fun doing the photo shoot you're more apt to appreciate even a conventionally "not as good" (this is even subjective) photo. If the whole process was a pain in the ass, then you'll be more likely to be more (or even overly) critical of the pictures taken, even if they are good ones.

If I can come up with more suggestions for props or clothes I'll let you know.

You are right about the fun part. I will try to remember this if i get all nervous and shyness takes over

 

[Kajira Callista]

Personally, (I know you might scoff at this) I always use sunless tanner when I know pictures will be taken because I'm very pale. -Lighting is super important.

For outfits, they are either empire waist, or something with more structure like a corset.

I would also try on a few things far ahead of time, and check myself out in front of a mirror. Being in front of a mirror is also good for practicing expressions and positions that are most flattering.

-Really comes down to wearing (or not wearing) the kind of attire that makes you feel what you want to convey (sexy, submissive, etc).

thank you for your suggestions. i think the standing in the mirror thing is something i need to try

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm take a huge big ol giant step here in my life. I'm going to have bdsm and nilla pictures of myself taken in a motel by someone i don't even know....hopefully with daddy watching.
Here are my issues: I am old lol and overweight but i know i am beatiful if pics are taken well. I want my KC side to shine through even in the nilla pics and am not sure how to make that happen.
I need suggestions for pretty props and kajira wear as well as nilla clothes suggestions.



PLEASE HELP ME! I promise you all will be the first to seeeeee!!!!!

LOL, old KC?!! That must make me ancient. From a general photographic POV, low lighting is a gift of itself, not to hide things but simply to create the mood and feel to the pic. Black and white on top of that can be even better. Have fun being photographed and look forward to seeing the results.

Catalina

 

[Kajira Callista]

LOL, old KC?!! That must make me ancient. From a general photographic POV, low lighting is a gift of itself, not to hide things but simply to create the mood and feel to the pic. Black and white on top of that can be even better. Have fun being photographed and look forward to seeing the results.

Catalina

i cant wait. am scared to death and overwhelmingly excited all at once

 

[Kajira Callista]

ok so the only definite is that im going to do the schoolgirl dress up thing. anyone who knows me knows how well that fits me. sexy slave girl is another...just have to get a mental pic in my head so i can go shopping.

 

[shy slave]

Hi KC some really interesting advice in the thread.
My advice-relax and have fun throughout. Planning the outfits and props, shopping, thinking about the session, during the session and choosing the pics afterwards

 

[Kajira Callista]

Hi KC some really interesting advice in the thread.
My advice-relax and have fun throughout. Planning the outfits and props, shopping, thinking about the session, during the session and choosing the pics afterwards

i think everyone here should come shopping with me