Orgasm

[razzberry]

hi there

I'm brand new here... and I really would like some feedback. I am a young female (18, 5'7", 36C, curvy/athletic figure) and have only ever been with a man before. My boyfriend and I have some amazing sex, and I can get him to orgasm multiple times, but for some reason, I never seem to achieve a whole-body, mind-numbing orgasm. I so desperately long to, though! I am also bi-curious, and would love trying to be with another woman. So girls, any tips on how to orgasm? I'm not that experienced, and I was wondering if anyone has tips to help me out

Thanks!!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

it's not always taht easy. I havent had that many whole body mind numbing type of orgasms before. Part of it I think has to do with how much he's giving to you (and I mean paying attention to you). My suggestion, talk to the guy in a nonsexual setting about what you want. Make it a fun discussion at the same time.... bring up the things you want to try, dont want to try, etc. He may surprise you sometime and do some of those things.

The other thing that comes highly recommended from others..... read this.

 

[thrity]

orgasm

hi, razzberry,
did you ever try to watch porn before you had sex? i found it did work for my wife. her pussy can be more wet after watching porn, and you know what, it made me feel good too.

 

[princess4u]

well i'm quite a bit older than you but here's my take on it

i think the more experience you have, the more comfortable you become with sexual play - after a while you know your own body better than anyone else and i think that's part of achieving that mind-blowing orgasm - and with me, it's one of those things that either happens or doesn't - it is not something i can ever make happen

i am multi-orgasmic and cum very easily - but there is a certain all-consuming orgasm that i reach not that often - it is one that brings me to tears because the rush is like a total release of all tension and stress

to achieve that orgasm i must be strongly emotionally tied to my partner - and the mind has so much to do with it - to me it is a surrender - it is almost like reaching the surreal - i always know when i'm going there because there is a certain point i reach when i know it is inevitable - and that is the most wonderful feeling - because i know the exquisite feeling that awaits me - and it is always followed by cuddling up in his embrace and letting my tears flow freely - and then sleep....

if you have a good and loving partner, that is where he will want to take you but you have to allow yourself to go there without pushing it - i don't know if i really offered any helpful advice here but i wish you the best - just relax and it will happen - you have so much ahead of you

 

[Selena_Kitt]

I'd highly recommend reading "Dear Lover" by David Deida... if you're looking for bliss, this is a good place to find it...

 

[ckerwd1]

You've found your answer right here. Let me know when you want your mind numbing, body quivering, earth shattering orgasm.


On a more serious note, let your boyfriend know what makes you feel good and try new things that will help you achieve your orgasm. have fun.