orgasm without cum
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silvastormcloud
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Hmmm, I have never been with a man with this super power but... I think I would feel cheated. I mean if you had been sucking his cock to orgasm you deserve a treat at the end.
Thanks for your reply. I have this particular problem, and though everything else works as designed, I am unable to ejaculate. I sort of assumed that this would be the response and I understand it completely.
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Yes I have been and I'm the one who "trained" his body. I feel overjoyed that my husband can now cum several times during foreplay, sex, and postplay. A man does not need to ejaculate to cum and enjoy himself. For us, the ejaculate is the "grand finale".
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I have noticed that my body is doing this more often then not. (Age thing?) It does feel "different" bt ok. Hello Dark Pleasure, you sexy thing you!!!
my inability to cum is medically induced and I am working to fix it, but I do notice that the orgasms seem a little more intense, and recovery time to do it again is much shorter. i also seem to last a bit longer. Yes, I do think age is a factor.
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is it a medical issue called retrograde ejaculation or something else in your case? it was brought to my attention by someone else who didn't get the reward she expected during oral sex. it lead me to experiment and extend sex after orgasm without loss of erection. don't know if that works for others or not. i know what the source is for me, and also what the benefit seems to be.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation
That is exactly right. In my case, a result of treatment for prostate cancer. I take Flomax and that's one of the side affects. It can be reversed but the Flomax must stop.
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DarkPleasures
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Hi PA.
My husband swears that he's popped with each orgasm he has, though. He is always surprised when I say that he hasn't yet.
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the only way a guy can orgasm without ejaculating is because he is either dehydrated or have fapped/had sex too many times before....
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I disagree and have seen the proof against your claim.
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I'm sorry Ardee. If I had know you were worried about the issue I would have been more sensitive in my response. In a supportive relationship I cant see this as being an problem. Atleast It wouldnt be for me... there is probably an upside as others have suggested.I remeber when I was younger and trying to get my birth control sorted I had similair problems. One pill dried me right up and my bf could go down on me for hours and I would still be too dry for sex. My bf still loved me tho...
Good luck
No apology necessary. I am far to old to be worried about something that is out off my control. My question was really prompted by the many post that talked about the "yummy" happy ending. Being cancer free far outweighs the need to shoot out instead of in. You are right on about the supportive relationship, and I truly thank you for you feedback . No worries.
I remeber when I was younger and trying to get my birth control sorted I had similair problems. One pill dried me right up and my bf could go down on me for hours and I would still be too dry for sex. My bf still loved me tho...
Good luck
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perhaps you should read further on the medical condition i posted a link for. retrograde ejaculation is not caused by dehydration or "have fapped/had sex too many times before".
and WTF is it possible to have sex too many time? 'fapped' never heard that one before either!
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i forgot about retrograde ejaculation but i must say that if this happens to you frequently then you should go to see a doctor because you could have prostate problems,just saying...
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It's really not all that hard to separate orgasm and ejaculation. It takes some muscle control and a bit of strength training but it's very doable. There's tons of info on the subject if you look for it. I learned to do it with a pretty limited amount of practice.
Most of the time when I do it, my S/O doesn't even know. I don't hide it from her but I rarely have to stop and don't really lose my erection to the point that I'm not able to continue. As DarkPleasures mentioned regarding her experiences, the ejaculation only happens when I'm done for the night. Once the cork is outta the bottle, refractory times and recuperation are the order of the day - which isn't to say that the fun has to end, but I'm usually tired by that point.
Most of the time when I do it, my S/O doesn't even know. I don't hide it from her but I rarely have to stop and don't really lose my erection to the point that I'm not able to continue. As DarkPleasures mentioned regarding her experiences, the ejaculation only happens when I'm done for the night. Once the cork is outta the bottle, refractory times and recuperation are the order of the day - which isn't to say that the fun has to end, but I'm usually tired by that point.
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the ability to control ones ejaculation is one that can be achieved with a good deal of practise and has nothing to do with retro-grade ejaculation, which among other things can cause serious urinary tract infections, (I know from personal experience.)
And being able to orgasm without ejaculation GREATLY reduces the refractory time it takes to recover and gain an erection to do it all over again. The benefit being that once the person has decided to ejaculate, that the orgasm is SO MUCH MORE INTENSE!!! The pleasure is almost paralyzing and the convulsions are almost enough to get her to cum as well. Never tried it with a man but looking for volunteers????
the ability to control ones ejaculation is one that can be achieved with a good deal of practise and has nothing to do with retro-grade ejaculation, which among other things can cause serious urinary tract infections, (I know from personal experience.)
And being able to orgasm without ejaculation GREATLY reduces the refractory time it takes to recover and gain an erection to do it all over again. The benefit being that once the person has decided to ejaculate, that the orgasm is SO MUCH MORE INTENSE!!! The pleasure is almost paralyzing and the convulsions are almost enough to get her to cum as well. Never tried it with a man but looking for volunteers????
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My experiences agree with Monkeyman and C2W. Never had a partner complain about it, either. Especially since they always do get their reward, eventually.
I do have a friend who had his prostate removed due to cancer. He says he can still get erections, and still feels orgasms, but nothing ever comes out. His wife loves it, because she never has to sleep on a wet spot!
I do have a friend who had his prostate removed due to cancer. He says he can still get erections, and still feels orgasms, but nothing ever comes out. His wife loves it, because she never has to sleep on a wet spot!
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I started jacking off in the early stages of puberty. At first I would orgasm but no cum to speak of accompanied it. Later on this would happen occasionally, but only if I had cum many times before in a short span of time. These days, I always cum when I orgasm. But after reading some of the posts here, I may have to experiment!
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Orgasm without ejaculation is the key to male multiple orgasm. I have a book about. It includes many exercises either designed solo or with a partner. The first is flexing the pc muscle. I can't remember the exact title but it is something to the effect of "...Have sex all night and drive a woman wild!" I wish I had mastered the plan!!!!
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I have been with one man who did this. At first I thought he was faking the orgasm. I was pretty young and not that experienced at the time. He explained it was a medical problem he had with his prostate. I thought he was a darn good liar, but really felt bad about it when I found out sometime later that it was a medical condition.
The one that surprised me was my husband. He had to have what was left of his left leg removed last year. He originally lost it just above the knee in Vietnam. His hip finally gave out and the injuries to his hip made a hip implant not feasible. During the surgery nerves and blood vessels and arteries are cut, of course and some rerouted. He is unable to get any kind of erection now, but I can still make him cum without being hard at all. I do it orally.
The one that surprised me was my husband. He had to have what was left of his left leg removed last year. He originally lost it just above the knee in Vietnam. His hip finally gave out and the injuries to his hip made a hip implant not feasible. During the surgery nerves and blood vessels and arteries are cut, of course and some rerouted. He is unable to get any kind of erection now, but I can still make him cum without being hard at all. I do it orally.
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Orgasm without ejaculation is the key to male multiple orgasm. I have a book about. It includes many exercises either designed solo or with a partner. The first is flexing the pc muscle. I can't remember the exact title but it is something to the effect of "...Have sex all night and drive a woman wild!" I wish I had mastered the plan!!!!
I had a boyfriend who was learning to do this. He said, after first, it hurt, but eventually he figured out how to do it and he could have multiple orgasms.
