Orgasm vs. Ejaculation

[nasty]

Ok. Stupid question, here. I was reading my book on Sexuality for people with Spina Bifida, and, it said that an orgasm and ejaculation were 2 different things. What the hell is the difference?

 

[ginslinger]

Some difference...

Just my opinion right or wrong... Org is the feeling, Ejaculation is sticky... Combine them and u have... Oh God I'm cummmmiiiiinnnngggggg.....
I think?

 

[ginslinger]

?...

No such thing as a stupid ?... Not asking is stupid... And stupidity should be painfull...

 

[John1980]

I enjoy both actually, don't think it would be near as exciting and good if it wasnt't for the ejaculation

 

[lovetoread]

I have read that people with spinal cord problems can have orgasms in many ways yet not ejaculate.

I believe the example they used was the rubbing of this mans shoulders and the fact that he had the feeling of an orgasm with out any penile involvement.

 

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[koalabear]

Ive been with a man who sometimes would oragasm.very intensly and then notice he didnt have goo

Goo? Ok.......

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Okay, seriously, now...

Most people think I'm nuts, but I swear that I've had orgasms without ejaculating. The orgasm tends to be a full-body feeling--I described it on another thread once as being akin to demon-possession--while the ejaculation, while pleasant, is more confined to the gonads.

I don't often have an orgasm from masturbation, as I see it, although I do usually ejaculate, of course. If I'm involved in a particularly long sexual evening, I may ejaculate 3-4 times, but I can have more orgasms than that.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

An orgasm, using a man as an example, usually involves ejaculation. SOmetimes, however, it doesn't. It's the concentrated feeling of overpowering pleasure that can cause a man to shake, quake, whatever, without ejaculating. Sometimes it's referred to as internal ejaculation (see a Kama Sutra site for more info).

 

[alexandraaah]

It's too hot a day to begin with for you to be describing such things, Hamlet.

Cool me off.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

http://www.tantra.org/kamasutr.htm




I learned about internal ejaculation on this site.. maybe it will help?

SUch a thing DOES exist.. my bf has been learning it.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

You live in the north, Alex. You don't know what hot is.

 

[alexandraaah]

You live in the north, Alex. You don't know what hot is.

I'm trying to decide which way to read this first.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I would say 'read my lips' . . . but I don't think it would have quite the impact as it might if I were speaking to someone else.

 

[alexandraaah]

I would say 'read my lips' . . . but I don't think it would have quite the impact as it might if I were speaking to someone else.

Gimme your best supposition as to what mine are saying.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

"Here comes the sun"?

 

[alexandraaah]

"Here comes the sun"?

Close...it's a line from the song:

"Little darling, I feel like ice is slowly melting..."

 

[Hamletmaschine]

It's been a long, cold, lonely winter, I take it?

 

[alexandraaah]

Hamlet, you live in the south, you don't know what cold is.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Ok. Stupid question, here. I was reading my book on Sexuality for people with Spina Bifida, and, it said that an orgasm and ejaculation were 2 different things. What the hell is the difference?

In men, orgasm and ejaculation are two different occurences. It is very complicated and I never remember all the details. But if you are curious, just type in male sexuality on a google search and you will get the whole story.

It really explains the concept of milking: ejaculation with or without orgasm, which can be induced by stimulating a mans prostate gland.

Ebony

 

[John1980]

It seems i have a lot to try out still. I wish there was some "orgasm school" for men that i could attend

 

[Ebonyfire]

don't laugh

It seems i have a lot to try out still. I wish there was some "orgasm school" for men that i could attend

There is.

There is nothing new under the sun.

Ebony

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Hamlet, you live in the south, you don't know what cold is.

I used to live up there, remember? I know all about long, cold, lonely winters--as well as the difference between ejaculation and orgasms.

 

[Ishmael]

Women are also capable of orgasm with or without ejaculation.

Ishmael

 

[John1980]

I'd very much like to experience the orgasm without ejaculation that you were talking about. But what i said above is that the "messy" part of it gives a real egde to the excitement and makes it even better. That's why i couldn't agree "orgasm is better than ejaculation"