Orgasm: Sex Versus Masturbation

[Alex NRN]

I maintain that the best orgasms I have ever had have been through masturbation, not sex.

I guess it's down to having total control when using your own hand.

You can't beat being with a partner, but for the most intense orgasm ever, it's masturbation for me.

 

[anne27]

You can't beat being with a partner, but for the most intense orgasm ever, it's masturbation for me.

It's a different kind of orgasm for me. I fantasize when I'm masturbating, but very fully into the moment with a partner, trying to absorb every scent, taste and touch.
I cum with more intensity when I just masturbate, but I cum easier and more often with sex.
I can masturbate for a long time and not cum, but with just the lightest touch from my partner, I can orgasm in a minute.

They're both good

 

[Harrowborg]

I would probably say orgasms from masturbation are technically better but through sex its nicer, ie, lots of foreplay, kissing and touching is a lot more arousing and stimulating than your own hand

 

[Raimondin]

Auto- eroticism.

With masturbation you're more in the pilot's or driver's seat.

With Sex you're more in the back seat.

I would think most of us started out with masturbation and it's the one we know best. which for me is still the best orgasm.

 

[jshawk74]

I usually cum better when taking care of myself. I'm able to take my time, finger myself if I'm in the mood, play with my balls, and play with the precum. Of course, doing all this with a partner is even better!

 

[LindaL]

Masturbating with my lover's help!

But frankly if I've just had a powerful orgasm or two via the above method, the one I get from fucking usually outclasses those earlier ones.

If I haven't had one via masturbating (aided or unaided), then the orgasm from fucking is not as intense as the one from masturbating.