Oral sex....you know you want to

[lucylove2b01]

Lately, I have had this fascination with oral sex...particularly for women. Just curious what women really love....and curious about how men actually do it. I have had several men go down on me...and I love it. But I have noticed that some men have no technique...and it does nothing for me. And then there are times when all a man has to do is give me a kiss and it sends me over the edge.

Maybe it is all about the emotional connection...or is it just pure lust? What makes oral sex amazing for women?

Feel free to comment...

 

[lucylove2b01]

And I apologize in advance if a thread has already been started on it...maybe you can point me in the right direction...

 

[thebarber69]

Oral arts

Performing oral on a woman is kind of like having a symphony. The way she responds to the way you kiss her lips, and the way you caress her parts it for me is making love with your tongue. I apreciate the fact that the woman has to take time to rev up her engine, to get her so she is flowing like a river. And to hear her music when she cums it's just rewarding to know it was done by my tongue. There is a lot that goes into it, light touches, kissing of the area, licking with just the tip of the tongue, to that important part of her clit, that just has so many nerve endings in it, it can be played for hours, If she can stand it. And yes, the emotional link with a significant other is part of it to. Some you can just tune into, and know her wants, and some just don't have a clue. With some good ol fashion G stop stimualtion it just gets better *but got to watch the head, her legs seem just to crush it*. So that's what it is for me, I enjoy it, only have to find ones that can take it for as long as I have to give it, and the payment is great too.

 

[lucylove2b01]

Performing oral on a woman is kind of like having a symphony. The way she responds to the way you kiss her lips, and the way you caress her parts it for me is making love with your tongue. I apreciate the fact that the woman has to take time to rev up her engine, to get her so she is flowing like a river. And to hear her music when she cums it's just rewarding to know it was done by my tongue. There is a lot that goes into it, light touches, kissing of the area, licking with just the tip of the tongue, to that important part of her clit, that just has so many nerve endings in it, it can be played for hours, If she can stand it. And yes, the emotional link with a significant other is part of it to. Some you can just tune into, and know her wants, and some just don't have a clue. With some good ol fashion G stop stimualtion it just gets better *but got to watch the head, her legs seem just to crush it*. So that's what it is for me, I enjoy it, only have to find ones that can take it for as long as I have to give it, and the payment is great too.

Wow...that is awesome! Thank you. I enjoyed reading. I wish more men were willing to do it for longer.....

 

[NippleMuncher]

Wow...that is awesome! Thank you. I enjoyed reading. I wish more men were willing to do it for longer.....

All part of being an attentive and loving lover, IMHO. I've have always paid attention to what gets the woman I'm with going, each woman being quite different from the others. That's part of what's exciting about new relationships, learning what it takes to drive her wild. For me, this is also an interesting thing about long term relationships, and that is not only improving my technique on what I already know about her, but to discover new things that really get her squirming.

Duration is set more by the woman than by me. My girlfriend doesn't generally last very long before she has to pull me off. She gets too sensitive after an O for continued tongue lashings. Other women I've been with varied in how long they could withstand tongue torture. Most of the time, once they'd gotten their cookie, they felt it was time for my reward, or rather, MORE reward!

 

[midwicket]

I wish more men were willing to do it for longer.....

I would, I would - but it's difficult when she's orgasmically bouncing around on the bed with her thighs tightly wrapped around my head so I can't breathe properly....and threatening to break my neck in the process...... :

 

[lucylove2b01]

All part of being an attentive and loving lover, IMHO. I've have always paid attention to what gets the woman I'm with going, each woman being quite different from the others. That's part of what's exciting about new relationships, learning what it takes to drive her wild. For me, this is also an interesting thing about long term relationships, and that is not only improving my technique on what I already know about her, but to discover new things that really get her squirming.

Duration is set more by the woman than by me. My girlfriend doesn't generally last very long before she has to pull me off. She gets too sensitive after an O for continued tongue lashings. Other women I've been with varied in how long they could withstand tongue torture. Most of the time, once they'd gotten their cookie, they felt it was time for my reward, or rather, MORE reward!

Having an observant lover is always more rewarding.

 

[thebarber69]

No problem, there are many of the male (ya we do this) kind out here that just love it. Maybe it's cause we can inhale and just go to town. But keeping going with one that is all over the place is just half the fun. Ones that seem to be alive at that moment just make it so it's that much more fun doing it, trying to ride them threw there orgasm, oh it's sooooo good. And knowing when it’s that proper time to just nip just a bit at the tip, then go to tongue or suck in at that right time just makes it that much better. Makes me just start to drool thinking of it…ahhh…yes, those fun times. Now if she is maybe into the laying down part and he does get her going right and he comes in at a right angle and uses his thumb on her, and hits that G spot…well lets just say unless you have had one with that, you might want the smelling salts ready. It’s all how your partner wants to make you happy, and how you respond to them that is the thing; you have to be in tune. Any help even for a couple of ideas is the best thing in life to give, now if I could just find another willing victim…. LOL.
Well I will go back to wandering these halls in here, have a good day, and just remember, be sexy and think erotic.

 

[Gil_T2]

Having an observant lover is always more rewarding.

It helps us guys if the lady guides us a little as with most things in life there are differences in us all, There are even some ladies who don't even give any indication as to liking what you doing or not, I had one who I thought I'd failed to please yet she told me that I'd made her cum quicker than anyone had, I even looked to see if she was awake & it wasn't till our third time having sex I heard her make a noise.

 

[thebarber69]

Don't you just love those ones, you just give it your all, and all you hear is a mouse squeek. Phew, nothing better than a wild lady, one that moans, screams, calls you names, then you have to strap yourself on her to stay and ride her threw her orgasm. Have been there and done that. Ya but at lest she said you were the fastest one to do that to her . So can't be all that bad, but ya, give me a screamer, nothing better.

 

[Francisromantic]

ahhh we males do enjoy the affirmation, and a woman's wild response tells us we pleased her in that most intimate and passionate of ways-- which, for dedicated lovers of women, is what living is for! I do think that men who love to love women DO learn technique, and DO need to gain experience, and DO love to love orally enjoying a woman, her taste, her scent, her sighs, her movements.... but ultimately it is about connection and chemistry, and then it is about being sensitive to the moment to the lady to every signal and sign, and to the joy of carnal delights that only come from having your warm suckling, licking mouth on her moist, wriggling Venus, finding her clit and teasing, teasing, exploring her wet recesses and finding her most sensitive spots, and swirling, kissing, hummmmmming, adoring, and enjoying her until she is on the edge, and then keeping her there for as long as she can stand it, breathless and amazed at her own body, in love and in lust and ready to explode like fireworks in the night sky, alive and vibrant and moving.... MMMmmmmmmmmmm

Don't you just love those ones, you just give it your all, and all you hear is a mouse squeek. Phew, nothing better than a wild lady, one that moans, screams, calls you names, then you have to strap yourself on her to stay and ride her threw her orgasm. Have been there and done that. Ya but at lest she said you were the fastest one to do that to her . So can't be all that bad, but ya, give me a screamer, nothing better.

 

[thebarber69]

Boy you said a mouthfull there franklyromantic, the jump on the bones guys out there just don't know what they are missing, but you need that special thing, that woman that is hiding in herself being that erotic, we just need to fan them along sometimes, and let them just enjoy the hell out of a good few oral fun times. I don't think I could have put that any other way.

Got to find those erotic ladys, there out there, but there tough to find, there usualy hiding in closets saying that they don't do that, but that little voice in there head is screaming go for it.

Ya I do appreciate a good woman.

 

[lucylove2b01]

Boy you said a mouthfull there franklyromantic, the jump on the bones guys out there just don't know what they are missing, but you need that special thing, that woman that is hiding in herself being that erotic, we just need to fan them along sometimes, and let them just enjoy the hell out of a good few oral fun times. I don't think I could have put that any other way.

Got to find those erotic ladys, there out there, but there tough to find, there usualy hiding in closets saying that they don't do that, but that little voice in there head is screaming go for it.

Ya I do appreciate a good woman.

Yeah, well I am still having problems with the "jump on the bones" guys. There are too many of THOSE out there!

 

[Francisromantic]

Happy to help

There are many strong, sensitive men who are masculine but still love trying to connect emotionally and physically-- If you steal a woman's heart, the rest will take care of itself.
Hope you find what you are looking for, but until you do, we lusty gentlemen of Lit are happy to serve you and assist you in any way you can imagine

Yeah, well I am still having problems with the "jump on the bones" guys. There are too many of THOSE out there!

 

[thebarber69]

It's just too bad that there are more of those then a few that really enjoy making there woman happy. It really makes us ones that like to please, look like dopes that way. It takes weeks to win over one that might be the right one, to take time and learn with them, and to just listen at times as to what she is trying to say, heck I am a guy and my crystal ball at times just don't want to tell me anything. And you try to figure them out, and just can't. Some are more complex then they think, and give my poor ol mind a workout.

Putting on thinking caps, using crystal balls, maybe even a weije board, don't help eather. What has to be done is a good manual for reading between the lines, and knowing when to just give up....LOL...Hey I am a guy, got on a roll and mind just took a powder...oh well it started out good...LOL

 

[mjl2010]

If he's willing then help him. Do this, do that, don't stop that. Oh Yeah That! Do more of that. That doesn't do it.

Then once he gives you two or three that way, give him a good one the same way. He'll be back for more munching if he's got more brain than dick.

MJL

 

[Gil_T2]

Don't you just love those ones, you just give it your all, and all you hear is a mouse squeek. Phew, nothing better than a wild lady, one that moans, screams, calls you names, then you have to strap yourself on her to stay and ride her threw her orgasm. Have been there and done that. Ya but at lest she said you were the fastest one to do that to her . So can't be all that bad, but ya, give me a screamer, nothing better.

My now wife who I made contact with here on LIT now is more vocal making my efforts to please her easier to know when I'm doing a good job, we have also enjoyed playing with other ladies together with my only desire is to give oral & hands on as well as watching them play, I get great pleasure from pleasing the 2 ladies MMM the taste, the smell, the wriggling etc, as for me getting my rocks off that happens later with BANDIT

 

[NippleMuncher]

My now wife who I made contact with here on LIT now is more vocal making my efforts to please her easier to know when I'm doing a good job,

Noise is a good thing, definitely. My girlfriend is a moaner and gets more vocal and wiggly as the moment occurs. Makes it easy to know when I've done my job properly. We've also had many a chat about our likes and dislikes so that we may please each other more fully, that being said, she has given me a few pointers that really get her worked up. Now, I can give her a long slow warm up or do a full court press, depending on our mood and how much time we have.

 

[thebarber69]

Good Morning all, I am glad to see that there is so many that do like this art (and I think it is an ART). You have the perfect mix Gil_T2, and to find one on here is the main goal, one who is erotic, and wants to be that way. It is tough to find, but there is many out here, just have to look under those rocks, and behind those places that they hide. Nothing is better than a good lunch at the Y, and coming up with a face full of nectar. That is the main thing to do, and enjoy, gets my tongue stiff just thinking about it. If you can achieve that fun in life, than that’s got to be the best reward to have.

And NippleMuncher boy I envy you to. Great to have one that can communicate to you what her desires are. This art form is fun, and enjoyable to both parties.

Oh well, off to the rock turning, wall looking, and lurking that I do best, good day all.

 

[NippleMuncher]

And NippleMuncher boy I envy you to. Great to have one that can communicate to you what her desires are. This art form is fun, and enjoyable to both parties.

Women like to say how they have to "train" their men. In this instance, it took some training of the girlfriend to get her to open up about her desires. Initially, it usually required a few drinks, but now the subject can be brought up nearly any time and discussed. And through this communication, we've been able to try new things neither of us have experienced before, things that she's commented that previous lovers wanted and she refused. There are two reasons that I account for this, one is that there is a love and trust between us that she's never experienced before, the other is that I pose things as a request or "would like to try", not as a demand or ultimatum.

 

[lucylove2b01]

There are many strong, sensitive men who are masculine but still love trying to connect emotionally and physically-- If you steal a woman's heart, the rest will take care of itself.
Hope you find what you are looking for, but until you do, we lusty gentlemen of Lit are happy to serve you and assist you in any way you can imagine

Well I must admit, I have found one lusty man of Lit...and he pleases me more than anyone ever has before....hopefully I can find this soon in real life too, though. THAT would be incredible..

 

[lucylove2b01]

And the next time I meet a guy who I am into...I should just ask...are you good at going down on a woman? Because if not...ehh...what's the point?

 

[lucylove2b01]

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[lucylove2b01]

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[lucylove2b01]

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