How do I write an erotic story if I've never had sex?

[ChibiFangirl]

A lot of people have told me to quit the genre until I actually experience sex. But I just have so many fantasies I want to express. Its just I don't know how. I'm really bad with dirty talk and I don't know how to write about oral sex. I've given a hand job before but that's as far as I've gone.

 

[jehoram]

Just write your fantasies. If you can make them credible to you, they'll probably work.

JRR Tolkien never fought orcs, you know.

 

[Athalia]

JRR Tolkien never fought orcs, you know.

Really? Another notion destroyed. Next, you'll be telling me that James T. Kirk was never really on a star ship.

I agree with J. Write what turns you on, as long as it's within the guidelines of the site. If it give you a thrill, it's a job well done. If it thrills others, so much the better.

 

[jehoram]

Really? Another notion destroyed. Next, you'll be telling me that James T. Kirk was never really on a star ship.

No, James T. Kirk really was on a star ship. It was William Shatner who was never on a star ship. (Suborbital flights don't count.)

 

[Nightbird]

A lot of people have told me to quit the genre until I actually experience sex. But I just have so many fantasies I want to express. Its just I don't know how. I'm really bad with dirty talk and I don't know how to write about oral sex. I've given a hand job before but that's as far as I've gone.

Relax, write about what turns you on and other people will enjoy it. Also a good hand job can never be over rated. Use your imagination the brain is the largest sex organ in the body.

 

[Athalia]

No, James T. Kirk really was on a star ship. It was William Shatner who was never on a star ship. (Suborbital flights don't count.)

I stand corrected. Thank you.

 

[Lorelei907]

You’ve had sex with yourself, right? How did that feel? Write about it and describe the sensations and the movement. Pretend it’s someone else who’s pleasuring you and like S&D above said you know the mechanics so it should be easy to put the two together. Above all, have fun with.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Just write about what you'd like to do. Let it flow.

 

[AchtungNight]

Put yourself in the head of your character. Let their experience and desire be your guide.