Open Relationships?

For some people monogamy is fine - some people just aren't wired that way. I personally think monogamy is way over-rated. Of course I'm 43 and have had a bit of experience with and without.

I don't know what the answer is but I do agree that YOU are very young to be making such a decision. I agree with whomever said you should both just date openly and see what happens. And at least he is talking to you about it - more than many do. Good luck to you.
 
good luck Ylvie...if ya ask me i think monogamy is overrated but then again sometimes someone comes along that makes you want to think differently...open relationships can and do work but first and foremost the underlying relationship must be strong...i have known people "in the lifestyle" and they are happy with it...can't and won't comment on yours specifically since i don't know all the details...from my experience communication is the most important aspect of any relationship, keep the lines open...again good luck
 
In my limited expereince open relationships can be fun if your relationship is very casual toward everyone involved. I don't think that your realtionship fits. All this rules crap seems to suggest that there are expectations between you two that might not lend itself very well to a open relationship. Also what kind of dick says that he plans on cheating on you if you won't let fuck other girls?
 
lukimangt said:
In my limited expereince open relationships can be fun if your relationship is very casual toward everyone involved. I don't think that your realtionship fits. All this rules crap seems to suggest that there are expectations between you two that might not lend itself very well to a open relationship. Also what kind of dick says that he plans on cheating on you if you won't let fuck other girls?

Hey...I like the way you think. :)

S.
 
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