On the vibrator topic

they just slowly wore out over time and I felt bad about tossing them, they were my friends! I cleaned out the drawer the other day and tested them all. It was the vibe graveyard. All gone now.

Now, some of these had been around a while.

As to how we use them, i use them alone and we use them together for play. He likes the feel of it on his balls as well.


Huh, I was never like that. It didn't work, I uncerimoniously tossed it.

*scratches head and ponders*
 
YourCaptor;3 Recovery time said:
surely everyone has something of a recovery time? Except for those lusty Black Dagger Brother's in JR Wards books, they don't seem to need any recovery time..
 
I don't mind vibes but I hate the noisy ones. I was once given a rabbit-type model as a gift and I hated it - was so loud that I was instantly turned off. If you have to raise your voice to be heard against the sound of a vibe, it's not a keeper. :eek:
 
surely everyone has something of a recovery time? Except for those lusty Black Dagger Brother's in JR Wards books, they don't seem to need any recovery time..

I like that (I enjoy readying JR Ward also)!! but they only don't need recovery time for a brief time. I wish that could be monthly.

I moved and havn't brought my toys with me yet! :( But I do use mine.
 
I don't mind vibes but I hate the noisy ones. I was once given a rabbit-type model as a gift and I hated it - was so loud that I was instantly turned off. If you have to raise your voice to be heard against the sound of a vibe, it's not a keeper. :eek:

I hate noise too.

:rose:
 
surely everyone has something of a recovery time? Except for those lusty Black Dagger Brother's in JR Wards books, they don't seem to need any recovery time..

YES YES YES! Those Black Dagger Brothers could help me through recovery time anytime! Especiall V! :devil:
 
they just slowly wore out over time and I felt bad about tossing them, they were my friends! I cleaned out the drawer the other day and tested them all. It was the vibe graveyard. All gone now.

Now, some of these had been around a while.

As to how we use them, i use them alone and we use them together for play. He likes the feel of it on his balls as well.

My husband enjoys using them on me and himself but probably not on his balls. I also enjoy using it alone if I have a horrible build of need and no other outlet.

:rose:
 
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The Hitachi Magic Wand is way too strong for me for direct contact with my clit.
Even fingers touching it directly can feel too strong.

However Hubby loves to do some forced orgasms play and knows how to apply it just right. He uses his fingers mostly, but when I'm half sleepy and it takes forever, the skillful applied buzzing gets me out of my slumber just right.

I have a little purple wand you can adjust the speed by rotating the switch and Hubby likes to use the tip of the vibrating nipple clamps (don't do much for my nipples thou).
 
I like that (I enjoy readying JR Ward also)!! but they only don't need recovery time for a brief time. I wish that could be monthly.

I moved and havn't brought my toys with me yet! :( But I do use mine.

I have no comment to make on your post, but just wanted to say I live your avatar!
 
I don't mind vibes but I hate the noisy ones. I was once given a rabbit-type model as a gift and I hated it - was so loud that I was instantly turned off. If you have to raise your voice to be heard against the sound of a vibe, it's not a keeper. :eek:

oh yes the little tiny balls circulating and the clit stimulator buzzing - bzzzzzzz
they r shockers....little red lights flashing up and down under the shaft....sounds like being at dentist
 
i still do not precisely understand just how vibrators are used...(where one puts them for instance)...but somehow i am certain it is something i would find both physically uncomfortable/painful and pointless.

What? Are you for real?

Most women use them on their clitoris, sweetie. :D

After I told my Master about a girlfriend who actually called RED while using one.....He is saving up for one...so I too will know what this fabulous toy is all about!! :D

I have one, I used it during my pregnancy for massaging more than orgasms. That thing is actually a kick-ass massager and I'm not even kidding.

I'm one of those sad woman who actually can't come without a vibrator. Tried for years with unsuccessful partners and frustrated masturbation. Had my first orgasm at 20 after my then-boyfriend convinced me to try a vibrator.

At least I can reach orgasm now, thank God, even if it's with mechanical means.
 
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What? Are you for real?

Most women use them on their clitoris, sweetie. :D

yes i am very much for real...but thank you for confirming what i had long suspected, that vibrators tend to be used for clitoral stimulation. any kind of direct clitoral stimulation is extremely painful for me, so that could have something to do with why the idea never appealed to me. also orgasms are very very rare and far between for me, but they absolutely require a penis with a living breathing horny male attached.
 
yes i am very much for real...but thank you for confirming what i had long suspected, that vibrators tend to be used for clitoral stimulation. any kind of direct clitoral stimulation is extremely painful for me, so that could have something to do with why the idea never appealed to me. also orgasms are very very rare and far between for me, but they absolutely require a penis with a living breathing horny male attached.

Ah, I'm sorry sweetie.

I use my vibrator while having intercourse with my husband, so my orgasms also involve a living, breathing horny male.
 
I've used a vibe quite a few places, asshole, vagina, G spot, nipples, against a string of balls or chain that is in my vagina or ass, it makes for interesting sensations there but to come it's clit every time.

I spent two years after an abusive relationship not being able to come. Prior to and during that relationship I could come, during I was forced to. Once he was gone I was seriously sexually messed up.

My first vibrator was actually a massager given as a wedding present for the wedding to my second husband. One day the idea to use it sexually occurred to me. We also use it when he is inside me most of the time. He gets sensation from it too.

For a while that was the only way I could come. But an online Dom, my first online Dom, had me work on coming by hand and other methods again. So now, I am pleased to know I can do it that way. Regardless I almost always have a clit orgasm. Rarely I have one from G spot or anal sex. PIV sex has never made me come unless he happened to hit my clit a great deal while stroking.

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Ah, I'm sorry sweetie.

I use my vibrator while having intercourse with my husband, so my orgasms also involve a living, breathing horny male.

a vibe/gismo and intercourse at the same time?? that is way too complex for my cavegirl sex brain, lol.

but please don't be sorry, i do not care for/wish for orgasms, surely that's a big part of the reason they are so rare. female sexual response = *yawn* sleepytime, in my book.
 
yes i am very much for real...but thank you for confirming what i had long suspected, that vibrators tend to be used for clitoral stimulation. any kind of direct clitoral stimulation is extremely painful for me, so that could have something to do with why the idea never appealed to me. also orgasms are very very rare and far between for me, but they absolutely require a penis with a living breathing horny male attached.

I want some alone time with OSG and a vibe. Whatever happens, I'll be entertained. :devil:
 
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a vibe/gismo and intercourse at the same time?? that is way too complex for my cavegirl sex brain, lol.

but please don't be sorry, i do not care for/wish for orgasms, surely that's a big part of the reason they are so rare. female sexual response = *yawn* sleepytime, in my book.

Oooh, I see! Well, hey, as long as you're happy sweetie, I'm happy. :eek:
 
I've been on meds for years to keep me sane and sadly one of the side effects is that I need strong stim to have an orgasm. Thankfully husDom (borrowed from Hottiemom) is fine with the need....and i tend to play by myself throghout the day.

HOWEVER, I have been reading about getting myself used to finger only stimulation again and want to give it a shot....last night there were not toys allowed....but lots of various other sensations - crop, belt, paddle, etc....and at the end i was able to come withouh intense stimulation...so that's a whole cool thing opening up again.

I tease that I should just stop my meds and be unmedicatd bi=polar again and he shouts "FUCK NO WOMAN" LOL
 
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