On Taking Action

[Stephen62]

Mmmm that’s my dream

Beautiful

 

[Sounding22]

Okay, I admit it, I am gay curious
I am a pretty passive person and have been interested what it would be like to ... let's see, 'strongly fraternize intra-team?

Yes, I am curious what it would be like to suck a cock, frot, give another guy a handy, and/or anal

I have got so close... but I am much like Trump in that, when push comes to shove (which is kind of what I want to happen), I chicken out

I have loads of fantasies, one of which I have published as a story (it's not selling out if it's your own stories and you're not getting paid) and one is on the way

It usually starts as me being gently forced but then I am overcome (more puns!) and lose control, diving headfirst into a life of pleasuring other men

But, alas, alackaday, I am a coward, mentally, physically, socially and sexually

Anyhoo, sucks to be me... anyone else wishing it could just happen?

I promise once you get that gorgeous cock in your mouth everything and I mean everything will disappear.
Won’t even think about closet gay curiosity/anal. It will be so natural you’ll wonder why it took so long? I’ve been lucky to be gay all my life and pleasing is the best.

 

[Sounding22]

The only thing I would say is don't agree to meet and then chicken out. Don't be that guy.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Okay, I admit it, I am gay curious
I am a pretty passive person and have been interested what it would be like to ... let's see, 'strongly fraternize intra-team?

Yes, I am curious what it would be like to suck a cock, frot, give another guy a handy, and/or anal

I have got so close... but I am much like Trump in that, when push comes to shove (which is kind of what I want to happen), I chicken out

I have loads of fantasies, one of which I have published as a story (it's not selling out if it's your own stories and you're not getting paid) and one is on the way

It usually starts as me being gently forced but then I am overcome (more puns!) and lose control, diving headfirst into a life of pleasuring other men

But, alas, alackaday, I am a coward, mentally, physically, socially and sexually

Anyhoo, sucks to be me... anyone else wishing it could just happen?

There's places where that can and will just happen, but I will tell you that you definitely don't want that for your first time. They won't be gentle with you.
I would advise you to find a guy in your area, chat with him until you're ready, then do it. If he's a good guy, there's really nothing to be afraid of.
But please, please, PLEASE do not set up meets then back out at the last minute.

 

[oldladylove]

Yeah, working up the courage to "return the favor". If not for STD risks, my Blowjobs given would be (not as many as received, but definitely ).

Nobody here likes talking about std risks because it ruins the fantasy. Anonymous blowjobs from guys that give a lot of other anonymous blowjobs to men who like to receive lots of anonymous blowjobs, are pretty risky.

 

[Britva415]

Nobody here likes talking about std risks because it ruins the fantasy. Anonymous blowjobs from guys that give a lot of other anonymous blowjobs to men who like to receive lots of anonymous blowjobs, are pretty risky.

Anyone who really wants to can get educated about this, and find that the risks are very very manageable.

Firstly, the likelihood of exposure and infection aren't as great as people fear, second, the ones you're most likely to acquire are the least dangerous and the easiest to treat, third, the big one people fear the most really isn't transmitted orally at all.

Fourth, prevention is easy for basically everything. The only really untreatable STI is herpes, and that's easy to avoid if you just look for the sores before opening your mouth. HIV is the one people are afraid they're going to die from, and prevention is "don't fuck unprotected, and don't share needles" along with the options of PEP and PrEP, which are easy to get from a doctor if you know you're going to - or already did - do potentially risky behaviors.

Even the common orally-transmitted infections (gonorrhea, chlamydia, maybe syphilis and some less-likely others) are preventable with DoxyPEP, again easily available from a doctor. And everything but herpes is treatable if they are acquired. Anonymous testing is cheap.

So, "pretty risky" is maybe accurate if one doesn't want to lift a finger to protect oneself. Risk includes both likelihood and severity of consequences. The most severe risks aren't very likely, and the most likely risks aren't very severe. And all of them can be avoided with some easy steps.

How bad do you want it?

 

[razor33a]

Speaking for myself the most severe risk isn't likely but 100% catastrophic if it happens, not talking diseases. So I don't meet, or lead on, since the risk is only so controllable with a stranger.

 

[oldladylove]

Anyone who really wants to can get educated about this, and find that the risks are very very manageable.

Firstly, the likelihood of exposure and infection aren't as great as people fear, second, the ones you're most likely to acquire are the least dangerous and the easiest to treat, third, the big one people fear the most really isn't transmitted orally at all.

Fourth, prevention is easy for basically everything. The only really untreatable STI is herpes, and that's easy to avoid if you just look for the sores before opening your mouth. HIV is the one people are afraid they're going to die from, and prevention is "don't fuck unprotected, and don't share needles" along with the options of PEP and PrEP, which are easy to get from a doctor if you know you're going to - or already did - do potentially risky behaviors.

Even the common orally-transmitted infections (gonorrhea, chlamydia, maybe syphilis and some less-likely others) are preventable with DoxyPEP, again easily available from a doctor. And everything but herpes is treatable if they are acquired. Anonymous testing is cheap.

So, "pretty risky" is maybe accurate if one doesn't want to lift a finger to protect oneself. Risk includes both likelihood and severity of consequences. The most severe risks aren't very likely, and the most likely risks aren't very severe. And all of them can be avoided with some easy steps.

How bad do you want it?

Hey thanks. I really appreciate the response. I think my calculation is different because I'm married and I really really don’t want to catch anything. I understand that the chances are low but I suspect that if I’m cruising with guys who cruise with other guys then it takes only one person in that chain to spread it around.

 

[Wolfman124]

I started sucking cocks at gloryholes to satisfy my curiosity about sucking cock by using flavored condoms. It provided a safe way to figure out if I really had the hunger for cock, as I strongly suspected I did. Turns out I loved it! It also eliminated the problem of interacting with another male. I could just focus on the cock.