On a scale from one to ten, how gay/bi/straight are you?

[Never]

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you.

Ten being that you're only interested in members of the opposite sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of homosexual sex repulses you.

I'd consider myself a 2. I'm only interested in women when it comes to sex and I find it difficult to bond emotionally to men. I can fantasize about what having sex with a man would be like but know being in that situation would repulse me.

 

[hatshepsut]

I'm a five, I guess. I like it all!

 

[VoyeurChic]

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you.

Ten being that you're only interested in members of the opposite sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of homosexual sex repulses you.

I'd consider myself a 2. I'm only interested in women when it comes to sex and I find it difficult to bond emotionally to men. I can fantasize about what having sex with a man would be like but know being in that situation would repulse me.

6 - i like women somtimes, but love men all the time

 

[Regis2001]

A true 5. I act like a 3, though. It confuses people.

 

[april-wine]

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you.

Ten being that you're only interested in members of the opposite sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of homosexual sex repulses you.

I'd consider myself a 2. I'm only interested in women when it comes to sex and I find it difficult to bond emotionally to men. I can fantasize about what having sex with a man would be like but know being in that situation would repulse me.

While I have NO desire for sex with men, it doesn't repulse me....I suppose I am a 4

 

[Raimondin]

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you.

Defintely a "One." It could be no other way for me. I spent half of a lifetime trying to figure out why I was such a One Way street. I thought something was wrong with me because I couldn't even be bisexual. Sometime people find that very hard to comprehend. Physically and emotionally it could only be with another man. Although I've never been fascinatated with, fantasized, or desired to be with women, the idea of heterosexual sex does not repulse me. It's just not who I am.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

I really can not rate myself.

When it comes to the same sex I am in it for the emotional and physical intimacy.

When it comes to the opposite it is only about sex. It is not that I can not emotional bond with them but I choose not to.

Sex with Females or males does not repulse me.

 

[kbate]

One being that you're only interested in members of the same sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of heterosexual sex repulses you. .........Ten being that you're only interested in members of the opposite sex for both emotional and physical intimacy and the idea of homosexual sex repulses you.
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A definite 1 as far as intimacy. No interest in men at all emotionally, and I suppose little physical interest remains either.

Two years ago, I would have been a 5, but I finally met the right person and my "bisexual" experiment ended.

 

[John Doe]

I don't know. I'll get back to you in a couple years.

EDIT: I'd like to add that I probably do not fall on either end of the scale, considering the fact that the idea of homosexual nsex does not repulse me, nor does the idea of heterosexual sex.

Given the fact that I am attracted to women slightly more than men and I'm only mildly interested in an intimate relationship with a man, I'd say maybe 6 or 7. To determine exactly where on the middle of the scale I fall though, I feel I need more experience.

 

[ravenmx]

I am not sure where I would fall.

Having sex with a man does not repulse me, I just have absolutely not desire to do so.

I also have many male friends that I have emotional bonds with.

However when it comes to sex and love I prefer the same sex.

 

[lucky-E-leven]

One

Most of my 'buddies' are guys. It's a common interests thing.

My deepest emotional bonds are with women.

My only sexual urges are for women.

I find men attractive on occasion, but the minute my brain undresses any part of them, their attractiveness fades to black.

1

~lucky

 

[Soulfiregirl]

Hmmm.....it's hard for me to say right now because I lack experience with women. I've had a little bit but it's been limited. It's only now after all these years that I'd like to perhaps explore things further. I desire men but my attraction to women has gotten stronger. I guess I'm a 5 or 6 right now? Just kind of half way between both worlds?

I put an ad in the BDSM personals section and an ad on another dating site saying I'd be open to meeting men OR women. But I've only gotten replies from men. (as far as dating that is) I wonder why? Maybe I sound too "straight" and not "bi" enough?

 

[Equinoxe]

I vary, so I'm not sure I can give a number. As far as physical intimacy, there are times when I am utterly disgusted by the concept of heterosexual sex (not even the concept of my participation in it, the concept in general) and then there are times when it doesn't bother me, but I have no interest in actually participating in it. There are times when I find sex in general arousing, regardless of the sex of the participants (including gay male sex), in a very distant sense; though the reality would always be different.

As for emotional intimacy, I do have male friends, but I am much more comfortable with women in all forms of emotional intimacy, but especially in a romantic capacity. I can bond with men in an emotional sense, but there's always a darkness there.

So, it's low, maybe a 1 or a 2.

 

[deezire1900]

two.

Love women, but what if Tom Cruise comes looking for a new friend. I don't want to close my options.

 

[Mary Hall]

I have had more experience with girls than boys

 

[sexy-girl]

mostly 1 but sometimes 2 or 3 ... i think if i saw a straight couple totally in love and into each other i would maybe even like watching them being intimate together

 

[Nara_Sasuke]

I'd say 6.I really love a female body for its' beauty but I almost equally like a male body for its' "strength".
I haven't tried with men though and I would say I could be as far as 6...So
4-6...

 

[Pookie]

I'd give myself a 5. I've been in intimate relationships with both genders. There have been a few times that I would've rated myself a 3 though.

 

[Reshbod]

7. I have never been with a man, but really want to. I am actively trying to make it happen, so when it does the rating may change.

 

[funwdi]

2-3

2-3 because I do not find men repulsive, and even find some attractive, I am just not attracted TO them. I would rather have sex with women all the time.

 

[WyldSpirit]

A few years ago I would have said that I was probably a 6 maybe even a 7, while I'm definately bi-sexual (and have always known that I am) my interest in women was purely on a sexual and friendship level only. I never even considered the idea that I might have a romantic interest in a woman. Now, I would say that I am closer to a 3 or 4. It's not that I'm fed up with men (I'm actually very much in love with my boyfriend), and I don't think that I'll ever give up the old "trouser snake" all together, but, the older I get, the more general attraction I feel toward women on much much more than a sexual level and I have less desire to be with men in general. (When I was single, I did not seek out men, I was looking actively for women and was not closed to the idea of dating men)

 

[College_geek]

I consider myself somewhere along 7 and 8. I'm attracted to men and have only dated men (which doesn't say much because it's only been 1), but I enjoy looking at women's pics on Lit and flirting with some of the women here, too. I've never had a same-sex experience and I may never have one, but it's a fantasy and I think it would be interesting to try out.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

EDIT:

I had a bit much to drink the night this post was wrote. I rambled shit that was buried very deep. Damn it, I forgot to post under Pervisity. She is such a loser and fucking illiterate geek.

Not really. Just confused and not knowing how to ask for help in the right way. My addiction getting the best of me and ruining what I hold cherish the most. At least my wife has a heart and would help instead of throw me out in the cold...

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Now for the Ladies:

I have high regards and standards when it comes to the way I treat women. Always putting her needs first. Of course I always left a back door so I did not get to attached and have to commit to something. They were married. We were friends and lovers. They all still have a place in my heart. Of course we used eachother for sexual pleasure but it was more.

After a unfortuante accident I decided to stop all sexual contact for over 5 years. Then I met Pollyjean and my world and something called Love hit me. My world has never been the same.

Honestly for me Never it is not about the sex with a man or a women that defines my sexual nature but the connection and the commitment I want to put into it. Yes, I have pleasure with men and women. Women more so because of a bond I make with them I do not with men. If PJ and I had choose who we were to have join us it would depend on the person she makes a bond with. It is all about her now and not me anymore.

Ramble over.

 

[killallhippies]

off the top of my head i'd have to give myself a six.