OKay, who's done it?

[Melody_lane]

Who has had an affair with a married man/woman?

How did you deal with it?

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner?

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair?

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship?

Why did you do it in the first place?


Give me info! Please, please.

 

[Mistress]

phone and cyber sex only would never do it off the net.

 

[MinkSoul]

Dam Woman....

i didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition...

 

[Melody_lane]

Mistress...

Didn't Never, ever tell you....


"Never say never."

 

[Guest]

Re: Dam Woman....

i didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition...

LMAO....didnt you know MinkSoul, The Inquisition never really died a couple of hundred years ago....still alive and well.


And DAMN, a Melody_Lane Thread.....Where have you been girl??? Good to see you're alive.

 

[Xander]

I hate when the puter does that....It was me aghain as unregistered...

 

[Guest]

Originally posted by Melody_lane
Who has had an affair with a married man/woman?

How did you deal with it? With great care

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner? Not guilty

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair? twice. then he couldn't handle it anymore

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship? sexual

Why did you do it in the first place? because like every woman in america I thought I had feelings.........

 

[Savage Kitten]

Who has had an affair with a married man/woman?

How did you deal with it?

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner?

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair?

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship?

Why did you do it in the first place?


Give me info! Please, please.

was a married man
to be honest.. at first.. i felt like i was doing a favor for a friend.. helping him feel better.. feeling in the gaps that his wife had created. Sometimes I feel guilty, now.... not then. I guess I don't feel guilty for having sex with him.. but for caring that much about him. We actually only had intercourse 3 times over a 4 month period. But we did get pretty hot and heavy on many occassions.. never was often enough for me tho. It.. eventually came to an end. because we didn't want anyone at work to find out. I never ever expected, or wanted, him to leave his wife for me. I only wanted him to be happy.

He recently went to a different shift. So, i really don't get to see him much anymore. I was really sad and depressed at first... even tho we haven't been anything more than "just friends" for over 6 months now. I know its for the best. You miss out on so much being involved with a married person. It's like constantly struggling to put a puzzle together, all the while knowing that you're the piece that will never fit.

 

[Melody_lane]

Re: Re: Dam Woman....

And DAMN, a Melody_Lane Thread.....Where have you been girl??? Good to see you're alive.

I've been working, going to school, and cycling everyday.

Oh, cycling did land me in the ER a few weeks back. Fifty+ fun-filled stitches, baby!

So, did ya miss me!?!

 

[Mistress]

Re: Re: Re: Dam Woman....

I've been working, going to school, and cycling everyday.

Oh, cycling did land me in the ER a few weeks back. Fifty+ fun-filled stitches, baby!

So, did ya miss me!?!

I"m sure he did but he's gone to bed now

He'll post to you tomorrow though

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

OKay, who's done it?

I Have.

Who has had an affair with a married man/woman?

Me.

How did you deal with it?

Quite Easily.

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner?

No Guilt Just Like Any Other Dude.

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair?

I Did Have MANY Call Backs, But Usually It Was A One Time Deal

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship?

Soley Sexual 99% Of The Time, But There Were A Few REALLY Old Guys That I Saw On A Regular Basis. They Were All Such Sweetie's Their Units Were Pretty Much Useless, But We Had A Great Time Anyway!

Why did you do it in the first place?

Cuz They Called 1-800-Savannah


The Thing That I ALWAYS Had A Huge Problem With, Were The Massage Parlour Jerks ( Pun Not Intended).
They Would Be Laying On The Massage Table And Their Phone Would Ring.

"Yeah, Honey. I'll Be Home For Dinner, But I'm Just Gonna Work A Little Late. I Love You, Bye."

ARGGGGGG!!! I LOVE YOU??? Well, Maybe But Not The Way That They Deserved.

 

[Weird Harold]

In best John Cleese voice)

i didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition...

No one everr expects the Spanish Inquisition!

(Sheesh, I can't believe there aren't any Monty Python fans on this thread.)

On topic: Nope, haven't for at least 30 years. Did once then, didn't enjoy it all that much, and probably wouldn't again.

 

[Weevil]

Re: In best John Cleese voice)

No one everr expects the Spanish Inquisition!

(Sheesh, I can't believe there aren't any Monty Python fans on this thread.).

Or anyone's who can quote it correctly

it's: No one suspects the Spanish Inquisition

Our sole weapon is......

 

[scylis]

*tries to make a comment but is rushed away by Inquisitors wearing all red*

 

[Never]

Is it an affair if the husband watches from a safe distance?

)The comfy chair(

 

[CelticsHeart]

Any minute now they`ll .....

Advance with the soft cushions!

 

[roosterboy]

OKay, who's done it?

Almost (twice)

Who has had an affair with a married man/woman?

We were both married (both times)

How did you deal with it?

Couldn't

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner?

Gutilty both times (makes me wonder why there was ALMOST a second)

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair?

Both times was a one time thing

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship?

1st time was solely sexual (ended up receiving oral) but the second was something else.

Why did you do it in the first place?

Still searching for that answer.

 

[willywanker]

When I was 21 and single, had a short affair with a married woman.

We worked together, I was on loan to a sister company and working out of town, in her town. She took me out to celibrate my 21st birthday. I felt a little quilty then, a lot more now. She was having trouble at home and we often ate lunch together and talked about what was going on, after the affair started, some of the lunches were in my apartment.

It went on for about 2 months, she came home with me one weekend and we partied hard. Her husband finally made her quit and I only saw her once after that.

 

[CW]

How did you deal with it?

NOT very well at all.

Were you guilty? Or was it just like any other partner?

Just as guilt ridden as could possibly be.

Was it a one time thing? Or was it an on going affair?

Lasted about 3 months, has not been repeated, nor will it be.

Was it solely sexual? Or was there a relationship?

There was a tremendous attraction for us. We were co-workers, friends, and young. The sex was simply the greatest, though that was offset by the guilt to a large degree.

Why did you do it in the first place?

Both of us were at a very rocky point in our marriages. Both felt there was something, not sure what, but something we were missing in our lives. We accepted the easy way out to deal with the problems.

____________________________________________________

It's not something that I'd consider doing again. If problems can't be talked about or ironed out; then it is time to leave that relationship BEFORE starting a new one or looking for pure sexual release.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[beckbabe]

This has come up twice in my life. In college, I went to this guys dorm room, and basically, jumped him. After. he was crying, and he siad he was engaged. I didn't feel guilty, and I never saw him again.

The second time was a few years later, I moved to a new place and I was lonely. The only person I knew was a married man. We hung out all the time, and I felt fine with it. One night, he came onto me, and I had to turn him down. I was and am still proud of myself, but at the time I was in tears. He left mad, and three months later, he showed up at my door, and thanked me for keeping him from making the biggest mistake of his life. His wife had just had a baby, and that usually isn't a very sexy time. I feel pretty good about the whole thing.

 

[roosterboy]

You go girl . . .

congrats on being such a hottie, uh i mean morally upstanding person.

 

[Chuckus]

Re: Re: Re: Dam Woman....

I've been working, going to school, and cycling everyday.

Oh, cycling did land me in the ER a few weeks back. Fifty+ fun-filled stitches, baby!

So, did ya miss me!?!

Hey Melody, glad to see yer alive and kicking. Hope your doing well........

 

[Xander]

Re: Re: Re: Dam Woman....

I've been working, going to school, and cycling everyday.

Oh, cycling did land me in the ER a few weeks back. Fifty+ fun-filled stitches, baby!

So, did ya miss me!?!

LOL yes I did Melody.
Uhm Mel....why is it, that everytime you pop up....after X number of weeks.....you've been to the hospital again??

50 funfilled stitches...geez girl. I seriously hope they were done by some cute doc at least.

Anyways...its good to see you're alive and well (with 50 new stitches added to the collection ).

 

[Cirrus]

I could start a thread all its own here, actually, but I won't. I'll just answer your question. I have, twice. I think I'm the odd (wo)man out here, there was a relationship both times. I handled it well, discreetly and all of that, the first guy broke it off because he felt too strongly about me, the second was broken off by mutual agreement.

Both were ongoing affairs, the first for about 3 months, the second off and on for about 6. There was never really any actual guilt, but the first guy said he loved both me and his wife and it was just too much to think about because he didn't want to decide. The second we just thought we were hurting our friendship by having an affair so we both agreed to break it off.

Why did I do it? Mostly lust the first time, the feelings developed later, feelings the second time and the lust developed later.