OK... so there are no women on here...

[KatieDoes]

Sure, beat around the bush...and keep us guessing what you really think....

Gotta love your posts...and the hitting the nail on the head.

*** Going to steal "fuckshittery" for sure.***

I’m known for my subtlety

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

It's that simple, uh? I wanted to read this whole thread but unfortunately I'm a man, so every 7 minutes I must think of sex. It has been programmed that way by the gods I prefer to worship. But I'm going to try behaving from now on. I promise.

This is why we can't have nice things.

This is where we males get the reputation that we don't listen.

If you'd stop being a defensive, sarcastic dicknose for two seconds and actually read what people are saying I think it would serve everybody well.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

I find your first remark quite remarkable + likable actually. I hope you wanted to remind everybody that there exist many similarities between both genders of the human species.

This is an odd sentiment for an avowed anti-feminist to applaud.

I would like to counter-posit that, within each gender of the human species, there are whole universes of differences and distinctions. I'd like to posit this very, very strongly, mostly because I don't wanna end up sorted into the same box you're in.

And I posit: if – somehow, by magic – it were possible to get everybody to STOP reading something terribly wrong into every utterance of some people here, many many posts on threads like this could sound a hell of a lot friendlier.

Maybe if some of those utterances didn't offend the eyes the way that public restrooms at sporting events offend the nose...

I'm just saying.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

... fuckshittery.

I just wanted to quote this.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

There are always better-knowers who don't understand anything.

What?

Is this a proverb I'm not familiar with? Something Google translate did its best with?

I literally have no idea what you're saying here. There has to be a better way to phrase this than "better-knowers."

So keep on trucking.Katie; you seem to be a helpless case.

I feel like she's doin' just fine – she's not the one posting to the personals section with a preamble about how she can't get any real women to respond to her. (which, honestly? Doesn't that guy – the one posting about how he can't find real women on a sex chat site – sound like the helpless case?...)

 

[SkyeGirl32]

I am so OVER men who think that they're better than everyone else -- that their word is god... they they're perfect, and can do no wrong.... Y'all make my eyes roll. So many checks in boxes as to why I'm not a fan of males, especially misogynistic women hating men... and y'all think this is the best way to get women to want to talk to you.... I LAUGH AT YOU! SO hard! Y'all are ridiculous and the ones not getting the picture. Respecting women is not hard, but y'all seem to think that it's the hardest thing in the world! Y'all disgust me, so much.

Y'all think that we are the problem.. NEWS FLASH: YOU ALL ARE THE PROBLEM! NOT US!! You are incapable of listening or actually hearing what we have to say. You're so set on hating us that you are acting like that is the problem... that we are horrible people... hmmmmm, I wonder why NO WOMEN LIKE YOU! -.- We were called an infestation -- but that's exactly what you all are. Why don't you go crawl back under the rock that you crawled out from under... and just leave us the fuck alone. You say women aren't on this site, well news flash, we are, but we want nothing to do with assholes like yourselves who treat women like crap!

to those men who're in here standing up for us, and trying to get them to see things better even though it's an utter lost cause - thank you.

 

[Sunny2024]

... it only LOOKS like there are but, on Lit., the sad situation is that 9 out of 10 'women' are actually full of Y chromosomes.

I mean... it's not as if I've been trying to establish "relationships", still less anything as outrageous as "meet-ups". I'm only looking to discuss erotic plot scenarios with a view to gaining the female angle on things. Not a huge ask, one would think... but it is on Lit.

Right, so I've given up both on the latter requirement and on trying to find a genuine female - and am now trying a different tack. I'd now be open to having these discussions with anyone, the only stipulation being an ability to write in clear, unambiguous English free from the usual clutter of spelling and grammar errors. Yes, I know that that IS a huge ask on here but what the hell.

UK people preferred.

Private emailing away from this site.

Anyone game?

I’m brand-new here. British-born woman living in the US. Still trying to learn what folks are talking about on this site but happy to provide a female perspective…

 

[Inbef]

If you'd stop being a defensive, sarcastic dicknose for two seconds and actually read what people are saying I think it would serve everybody well.

For a moment I thought you were being the problem, but no, it is me. I'm so sorry TossAwayFellow to be a shame to masculinity.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Most of these responses from men that are backing up the thoughts of the OP make me shake my head.
Proof that some men truly can't think the right head...

It doesn't take much energy to even see what we're saying -- but nooooo men are always right. Women are always wrong... Such a disgusting mindset. and to blame that on "thinking of sex a lot" is pathetic... -.- One can think of sex a lot and STILL respect women! The two are not connected to one another.

 

[KatieDoes]

For a moment I thought you were being the problem, but no, it is me. I'm so sorry TossAwayFellow to be a shame to masculinity.

Thanks for your willingness to be Exhibit A on the topic of male fragility. It’s helpful when you all work together like this to provide examples in the same location so no one has to search.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

We are so irrational and emotional no wonder they don’t listen to us.
If only we would obey.

Right?

I'd say they need to flip that around.
They're all acting like toddlers. lol.
They need to all be put into timeout. xD

 

[Dribble]

You are the problem....

No you are...

Fuck if I am...it is you...

Fuck you...you are the problem...see, I have people supporting me.

Like I don't too?

You refuse to listen...

Are you listening to me?

No...because you are the problem...

No...you are the problem.



Have I sufficiently summed up this thread? No? Then continue on...


You are the problem...

Asshole...you are...

See...more proof you are the problem...

Whatever...everyone sees you are the real problem...

Me? Please...it is obvious you are the problem.



Other than maybe a half a dozen well thought out posts...this is this thread. The good news? I saved a shitload of money switching to Geico. So it is a win-win for me. I saved money. I get to laugh at some guys here. I get to laugh at some girls here. I am an equal opportunity laugher

 

[SkyeGirl32]

I'm so over people who think it's funny to make fun of this thread. I mean it is ridiculous, but the fact that men find it a laughing point is absurd to me.... Clearly most of y'all just don't listen. *sigh* There's no point at all....

Apparently women basically trying to tell men, that WE DESERVE TO BE RESPECTED --- is a laughing matter now. Good to know.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Of course that one focused on both sides, because clearly they can't see the true problem and just find it all hilarious as if any of this is funny.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

And they don’t have skin in the game, and don’t have the ability (or desire) to understand their privilege

I agree on all accounts. Well it just means more people on here who I know aren’t worth my time. Lol

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Anyone who finds this whole topic a laughing matter 100% is not worth my time and energy. Good riddance.

 

[MMM_wms]

Nice job working in the ‘both sides’ card when only one side is actually suffering

Now what is it again that "your side" is SUFFERING actually? I mean in concrete terms? Other than lack of applause for every remark K and F chose to drop here.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

For a moment I thought you were being the problem, but no, it is me. I'm so sorry TossAwayFellow to be a shame to masculinity.

Oh, that's quite all right. I accept your totally sincere apology as a definite sign of your maturity and growth.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

Now what is it again that "your side" is SUFFERING actually? I mean in concrete terms? Other than lack of applause for every remark K and F chose to drop here.

Does the misery of your presence count as "concrete terms" of suffering?...

 

[MMM_wms]

Does the misery of your presence count as "concrete terms" of suffering?...

For somebody as sensitive as you, I am sure you deserve an ER bed already.

 

[SkyeGirl32]

Does the misery of your presence count as "concrete terms" of suffering?...

Yes! This!!

PERFECT COMEBACK!!

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

And they don’t have skin in the game, and don’t have the ability (or desire) to understand their privilege

To some degree, they're worthy of some sympathy. We are all of us the product of centuries of patriarchy that only started to unravel in earnest in the middle of the last century. These kinds of societal shifts take years – generations – to work their way through, and not without some weighty resistance along the way.

... but that said, they – the men of privilege, the anti-feminmists and the incels – do leave themselves wide-open as targets of ridicule for snide opportunists like myself. Mostly on account of the low intelligence, you see.

 

[Lady2020]

I'm thinking most Lit members are aliens, or we all have a failure to communicate. Men, just say what you want up front. Men: wtaf, who me? Lol

 

[SkyeGirl32]

I'm thinking most Lit members are aliens, or we all have a failure to communicate. Men, just say what you want up front. Men: wtaf, who me? Lol

Omg yes. This.

Most lack the ability to properly communicate in a polite way. And then throw a toddler sized tantrum when they get called out for it.

 

[TossAwayFellow978]

For somebody as sensitive as you, I am sure you deserve an ER bed already.

I do not expect I am any more or less sensitive than any other reasonable, rational person in my age group. I'm not sure I make the connection to the ER bed?... Either your wit is so obscure I lack the vision to perceive it, or this is some manner of threat?...

If the latter is true, I appreciate your help in making my point for me.