Odd Orgasm

[BorntoDom]

Three types of orgasm for women!

Hello, I'm Master G.
I have been told that there are three types of orgasms for women. You have the direct clitoral stimulation, the G-spot from both vaginal and anal, and finally the Last which is the Cul de sac. The latter being of a new concept for me and my fiance. she is a sub/switch and she was told by her sub about the cul de sac. This is where the man or the dildo pushes his penis way deep inside the vaginal cavity and pushes into and hits the cervix. This in turn will trigger a huge tremor in the muscles of the pussy and cause a massive amount of ejaculation or discharge to explode from the vaginal cavity. And from what her sub says his wifes eyes roll back in her head and she just gushes for quite a while.

You see my fiance can squirt now but not always. She used to only be able to cum from direct cilt stim. And this used to piss me off for years because I wanted to make her cum during intercourse. What we eventually did was we went and got some toys to play with. This was previous to our new lifestyle. But I had always liked fucking her in the ass but she was afraid. So we bought a vibrator and it had an attachment that that looked like a small curved dildo and it worked wonders. I began looking for different lubes to try to make the easing in very smooth. We eventually found a lube called Eros for women at a porn shop and I tell you it is the best stuff. We even found like little lubricant syrringes with a plunger to put the lube in her ass. The first time we did it she was going along like normal and then all of a sudden she said" Honey somethings happening" "I feel like I need to push" So I continued to push in and out of her ass and suddenly with out warning she just let out a huge moan and my hand was drenched with her cum. I was amazed by this so I continued to do it over and over and over. Our bed was soaked. But we were at a hotel so we didn't care. I was sure of the fact that she was obviously pleased. And so was I.

Since joining the lifestyle she has taken that to a new level. She can actually make herself cum just by thinking about sexual stuff. She was already amazing in bed but now she is queen of it. I have to tell you she can have the same kind of orgasm from her pussy too. I found that all this was the G-spot stimulation. And if anyone wants anytips on how to make your girl squirt I'd be more than happy to help anyway I can. Also If any sub wants to experience something new, buy yourself a saturn wand from Njoy toys. It is meant to be used on both the ass and the pussy. It is stainless steel and it costs about seventy dollars. It is curved and has three bumps on one side and that is meant to stimulate the G-spot in the ass. On the other side is a long curved handle with a bump on the end that stimulates the G-spot in the pussy. How it works is once you insert it the magic happens on the return stroke when the bump now directly hits the G-spot and Score!

There is also a toy for you guys that girls can have pleasure by watching your Man/Dom/Master/sub/switch get off on. Its called the P-spot. Sold by Njoy toys also. Its stainless steel and you insert it in to your male partners rectum and move it in and out or up and down and it directly hits the prostate. Let me tell you I'm not gay and It feels good. So check it out. I came HarrrrrD!!!!!

Here are a few links that might help you experience a new kind of orgasm:

http://www.superiormuscle.com/vbulletin/showthr
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/sextip7.htmlead.phpthreadid=19052
http://www.sexualtips.net/sexual_anatomy_questions.htm
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/44/1689_50048



Hope I have been helpful.
Master G

 

[BorntoDom]

One other thing!

If some of you have trouble with this don't get frustrated it may not happen all the time or at all for some people because either they cant relax or a plethora of reasons. The main this is to be patient and be creative and have fun. I am a massage therapist and I massaged her before the first time and I think that helped her relax. Maybe try doing that before so she is relaxed. Send her to a spa for a day of pampering she will be already relaxed maybe she might just go overboard and let her guard down enough to explore the anal or the vaginal stimulation. The main thing is go slow at first and ease her into it. You go to fast and you aren't going to have a happy camper but maybe you like that or vise versa. Anyway thats all Master G

 

[latebloomer124]

Definitely get comfortable on your own first. I understand the fears of talking and masturbating in front of your partner, but think it sounds more scary than it actually is (those aren't quite the right words, but hear me out). Picture this type of scenario:

The next few times you're together, enjoy yourself, but don't fake orgasm. After tell him how wonderful he is and good he makes you feel, so you don't know why you've been having trouble getting to orgasm lately, even by yourself. You might say there are a few things you think may help you work through it, and ask if he'd be willing to try them with you because you really want to get back to where you were.

So, one of the things that might help is going back to basics (mutual masturbation). After you really get going with some foreplay, lie side by side (or with him on his side facing you, and you on your back), and kiss and touch him with one hand while you masturbate and slip into a fantasy. The man's being pleasured by the woman he cares for...he's involved, not just watching you. If you like breast play, you can incorporate that into your fantasy, and ask him to do that (or another 'supporting activity') while you continue to masturbate. If you start to get distracted or have negative thoughts, stop for a few moments, maybe focus on pleasing him, and then go back to it. If you don't get there this time, no problem...you two have just had a very intimate, new experience, and there's always a next time. Tweak it to your tastes and try with him pleasuring you while you fantasize.

For me, that's definitely not the same as someone watching me masturbate because it's interactive, not about me 'putting on a show' like a live porno. It feels just as comfortable as our usual activities, and really isn't that different because we're both giving and receiving at the same time, just in a slightly different configuration/proportion.


I would highly recommend reading up on it ( Mr. GGG's Try This and Report Back thread is fantastic, though you may need to vary the technique to suit your body) and trying many more times. G-spot stimulation can be a wonderful addition to your sex life and another route to orgasm. I would caution you to approach it as an experiment with no expectations though...doing otherwise can be a real problem. It's taken us quite awhile to figure out what works for me specifically, so be patient and keep trying.

The Hitachi Magic Wand w/ g-spot and straight attachments is the absolute best toy for clitoral, g-spot, male, and a bunch of other types of stimulation and orgasms, in my opinion (okay, millions of others think so too). My g-spot's farther in than most women's, but the hitachi and attachment reached and stimulated the heck out of it, no problem. And it's actually a great body massager and a bargain to boot. I'd be remiss if I didn't suggest it to you, Latebloomer.

I'll have to give that one a try. In fact, I'll take all of your suggestions.
Thank you so much for the caring and effort you put into your replies.

 

[SweetErika]

I'll have to give that one a try. In fact, I'll take all of your suggestions.
Thank you so much for the caring and effort you put into your replies.

You're very welcome, and I hope they help! I'm actually passing along a lot of the great advice I got when I started a thread about having trouble here. I thought the problem was not fantasizing, but a wonderful member suggested it was likely distraction, and fantasizing was just helping me get around that. With time, effort, and a loving partner, I've been making progress, but it can still be very tough. These mental/emotional blocks are so frustrating!

 

[SweetErika]

Lots of good info there, BorntoDom. Welcome to Lit.

You might be interested in Mr. GGG's Try This and Report Back thread on g-spot and other types of stimulation. There's also tons of great info on different techniques, toys, and fun in The Blank Manual Sticky (also at the top of this forum). We also have a new member intro sticky at the top of How To if you'd like to drop in and introduce yourself.

Most of the regulars here are very familar with g-spot, a-spot, cervical, prostate stimulation, and squirting. We're also big on ideas like "every person is different, your mileage may vary" and "men enjoying anal play doesn't mean they're gay," so I'm sure you'll be welcomed. I'm not trying to discourage you from sharing at all, just suggesting exploring each board to see what's already there, and where your suggestions might fit the best and help the most, might be beneficial for you and the other Litsters. As you can see by this rather lengthy welcome, I'm always eager to share and help as much as possible, too.

Anyway, I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to jump right in, hope you have a great time exchanging stories and info, and look forward to seeing you around!

 

[cloakedlover]

Does your SO know the polishing technique?
-JB

That is typically the only kind of clitoral stim I can stand for long, but there never seems to be a climax to it. I'm going to have him try more direct stimulation, but he'll have to hold me down b/c I'll be telling him to stop - it just gets overly sensitive to me. I wish there were a better description. I would compare it to when your foot falls asleep and then you keep trying to move it even though it's very uncomfortable, which is not a great comparison. Oh well. I'll update on the progress.

 

[jethrobodeen]

That is typically the only kind of clitoral stim I can stand for long, but there never seems to be a climax to it. I'm going to have him try more direct stimulation, but he'll have to hold me down b/c I'll be telling him to stop - it just gets overly sensitive to me. I wish there were a better description. I would compare it to when your foot falls asleep and then you keep trying to move it even though it's very uncomfortable, which is not a great comparison. Oh well. I'll update on the progress.

My guess is he's not polishing "hard enough". Key word is pressure, I use up to 4 fingers flattened out, and finding the right places to apply it while moving up/down, side-to-side, diagonally, circular. I will usually aim my fingers downward and split my fingers so I have pressure on the left and the right of the hood, but Not directly on it, unless that's what it takes to get "enough" pressure (yes, press down). I can move my hand pretty fast, almost a blur Have him mix it up and read your response, if you're approaching the "don't stop" zone, stamina and determination may be necessary on his part to keep it up long enough.

That direct stimulation takes a bit of practice (her palm press on my forehead let's me know). I can only use my tounge and very lightly if directly on her clitoris, except one time I remember she stuck out exceptionally erect and I lightly explored that, but she was hot enough it wasn't too much..had I pressed just a teeny bit harder though should would have kneed me in the balls But sometimes, maybe influenced by her cycle as I've read about here, I can increase direct stimulation and really suck and lick hard on her clit and hood together, but she rarely needs that to go over-the-top.

-JB

 

[cloakedlover]

Hell, I'll buy him some wax so he can go to town polishing me off. I think I work the hood pretty hard when I'm by myself and there's no obvious climax there either; however, I'm going to try your technique to see if works for me when masturbating. Then hopefully, tonight or tomorrow we'll have some time to practice without one of us feeling fluish - it's going around here. Can't wait. Thanks for your input!