obnoxious sea gulls

[tolyk]

My Tolyk, I am so glad that you are giving us a passing grade for consistency! Had you not, I would have thrown ashes over my head.

Oh, BTW, hasn't this thread gained lots of dynamics, ever since the administrators moved it to "The Playgound"? Happy frolicking to all of you from now on.

Oh, was this originally in the personals? Was this an attempt by you to score a woman? I don't thinking "negging" honestly works, and if it does, it isn't for a healthy long term relationship.

Certainly doesn't seem like a personals ad. Excuse me, I'll leave you to try and woo women.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Chrissy babes - I thought you wanted to stroke my beard?

Perhaps you just wanted to suck my big fat cock... love ya!

It wouldn’t be the first big black cock I’ve sucked.

 

[AlliaPotestas]

Edit - by own admission, that wasn’t funny, x

 

[Chris_Michael]

..........

 

[Chris_Michael]

Edit - by own admission, that wasn’t funny, x

It was pretty funny to me. Haha

 

[AlliaPotestas]

It was pretty funny to me. Haha

I’m an abuse survivor, I should know better than jokes like that - my humour can be warped. It was too much, I genuinely do apologise, x

But feel free to still suck my wacking great big black cock,

 

[tolyk]

I’m an abuse survivor, I should know better than jokes like that - my humour can be warped. It was too much, I genuinely do apologise, x

But feel free to still suck my wacking great big black cock,

I also found it funny, because it was obviously meant in jest. But I also get why you feel bad for having made it

Yay for text and being able to edit eh? Least it wasn't a slip of the tongue in person.

 

[Chris_Michael]

I’m an abuse survivor, I should know better than jokes like that - my humour can be warped. It was too much, I genuinely do apologise, x

But feel free to still suck my wacking great big black cock,

There is no need to apologize. It’s all good. I deleted my post to clear the air for you, though.

I’ll suck your big black cock if we can make it long enough without beating each other up.

 

[Kimleigh]

Chrissy babes - I thought you wanted to stroke my beard?

Perhaps you just wanted to suck my big fat cock... love ya!

Don’t forget to bring that beauty to the hotel, love.

 

[tnman03]

OPie seems to have been spamming the Personal board with many threads getting little or no response. Attention Whore much?

^^^This!!!

As for the rest of this train wreck the best practice with someone whose an insulting annoying troll is ignoring them. People don't do well with that. Being ostracized for your own attention seeking disruptive behavior is appropriate.

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

Is this you Clowns? Trying to stir up some drama in the ol' PG? Next time could you give a fella a heads up so's I can get some popcorn handy?

 

[Chris_Michael]

Don’t forget to bring that beauty to the hotel, love.

I wont.

 

[KimGordon67]

OK, I understand.

Perhaps time to review the guidelines after several years, I gather? How realistic is your requirement, really, on protagonists having to become 18 first, before they are allowed to develop lustful feelings towards relatives?


And then also, obnoxiusness might become a useful criterion sometime in the future maybe?

With all the difficulties involved in objectively assessing it. But the SCOTUS also managed to define pornography, and things worked out. And I recall that Larry Flint managed to win a case. So Nothing is impossible, if you really want to get something done.

Thank you anyway!

Dude, if being obnoxious was a criteria for being kicked of Lit, you wouldn't be having this conversation.

You're a fairly classic example of 'everything in my life (in this instance, 'my life on LIt') is awful, and it's clearly everyone else's fault'. You haven't once, that I can see, thought 'Hmmm, I seem to piss off a lot of people, people who generally get on with the others here, and I seem to piss people off a lot more than most people in here ... I wonder if it's something I'm doing'. Your constant recourse is to assume that 90% of people - well, women actually - are stupid. If you want to think that, obviously that's up to you, but don't be surprised if some of the people you call 'stupid' retaliate. You've made a number of posts that denigrate 'the women of Lit' as a general category, as well as on an individual level. This exchange with Jada is a classic example - suggesting that she's some sort of drop-out isn't clever, it isn't engaging with anything she's actually saying - it's just an unnecessary insult designed to make you feel superior because you have some arbitrary qualification ... yet obviously that arbitrary qualification is irrelevant in other cases.

 

[Kimleigh]

I wont.

Just don't argue with AP on who I use it on first.

 

[KimGordon67]

Shi_One, if it helps you, I will admit to you that my post that offended you so much, was one of my stupidest ideas. At the time I was reading your remarks get ever more arrogant, from one post to the other, towards men who had contacted you, I felt you deserved a "dressing down" for your arrogance.

And I found your flouting your not so attractive pix arrogant as well, and what I found even worse was that everyone and his brother was exclaiming how great you looked in them .So I figured you deserved a bit of realism here as well. Remember, I did have one or the other nice Thing to say About your Looks also.

But why you had to begin insulting my character, I do not understand. Calling me a shrivelled up raisin, and then not even spelling raisin correctly; a sign of utter carelessness, because I am sure you knew how to spell it.

You don't need to like me, certainly not. And I am leaving you alone; all I do here is complain about the treatment I received on my thread. it was YOU who did not leave me alone, when you repeated overe and over again my "so terrible Insults" of you. As if you were out to collect "misrey points" for your terrible suffering .

This is one of the worst apologies I have ever seen.

 

[KimGordon67]

SEAGULLS! (Stop It Now)



(nope, haven't read the thread. Not gonna, I got the gist.)

This is a perfect response to it anyway.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Just don't argue with AP on who I use it on first.

Woah woah woah!!! I’m good. I’m good. She can have it. lmao

 

[Kimleigh]

Woah woah woah!!! I’m good. I’m good. She can have it. lmao

Darn, you sound just like my husband.

 

[tolyk]

Darn, you sound just like my husband.

I think it's smaller than the one I have...

 

[Chris_Michael]

Darn, you sound just like my husband.

lol Well me and your husband can watch as you do your thing with her.

 

[glBock]

This is one of the worst apologies I have ever seen.

were you really unable to catch, that this was never meant to be an apology, Kim?

I stated that it was one of my most stupid ideas, and then I merely explained why and how I I got that idea.

 

[PWilton]

It occurred to me that some people who frequent the Personals often, I find absolutely obnoxious.

Oh goodie, another addition to my Ignore list...

 

[SassySheDevil]

Oh my lord!!! I guess because I am not part of the Cliques, I can respond honestly and know that I will be attacked from both sides vs just one. But part of the reason I am not part of the cliques is, because it took pushing everyone away, to see how quickly it takes one woman (more often women) to comment on something, and then all her friends to come attack that person/comment etc, without even really knowing both sides. I've been guilty of that and I'm ashamed of that.

This started in the personals. I have watched a lot of this unfold. There is no side of this that is innocent. They all tore each other apart.
For those of us who have posted pictures in AMpics. We put ourselves out there. But for us to expect everyone is going to like us, is stupid. (yes, we are insecure and needy and have low fucking self esteem, so we hope for it cause we are idiots) But we hope that those who don't, will just follow the "If you can't say something nice. Don't say anything at all" rule, and move along.

But another thing I've learned. When I started my own AMpics thread. MANY guys really will tell you what you want to hear, in hopes of you showing more, and more skin the next time. They will tell you the same thing that they are going to go cut and paste to every girl in AMpics. But you also learn the ones who actually mean what they say, and try and individualize their comments to you.

There are a handful of people on this board who have taught me that always hearing what I want to hear, and never what I need to hear, hurts me more in the long run. If everyone thought I was so perfect, I wouldn't be here begging for attention, but, here I am.

I've had mean things said about my pictures before, and yes, I ran crying. To my friends. Not the whole board. (Cause remember, girls talk, so if some asshole hurt you in some way, your friends all know now) I didn't have to out him as an asshole, because everyone else had already told me he was. Yes, We all want to out the assholes, and bitches and I've been one of those bitches myself. I"m trying to change that.
But nothing changes when we can't admit our own fault in shit like this. No ONE person started this.
So Shi has small nipples, Bock is an asshole. I'm fucking fat, with saggy. uneven tits. (I could go on..)
Have these two ever talked one on one and just hashed it out between themselves??
Everyone already knows that my self admitted, asshole of a best friend is an "Asshole" But he tells me what I don't want to hear, when I need to hear it. He is WAY too fucking honest, but sometimes I admire his ability to say what I wish I could. The difference is he doesn't care what people think of him, or his opinions, and I always have. He avoids me on Lit because he knows how people feel about him, and he doesn't want people to dislike me because of him. He asked me not to post in here, because people would lump me in with him.

But the truth is. Almost EVERYONE jumped in here to defend Shi because she is a female and apparently incapable of defending herself, or just letting it go. Fight with him in private, who knows. Maybe you'll find out you both have demons that you could help each other overcome.

This place has stopped being a place to help each other. We knock each other down. I started a thread this year (which flopped) because women, especially, would rather put each other down. Be negative, be jealous and hurtful. Vs just being friendly to one another. The whole damn board has forgotten, that we are almost all here for the same reasons in some fashion. Being honest is so much better than lying. Being kind is better than cruel and mean.

So either fight it out, and tell me what it accomplishes, or let it go. I'll gladly invite Bock to come name call me (as long as he's honest) if it shuts up the Pig pile of name calling.

 

[Kimleigh]

I think it's smaller than the one I have...

Nice!

lol Well me and your husband can watch as you do your thing with her.

Nothing wrong with that!

Oh my lord!!! I guess because I am not part of the Cliques, I can respond honestly and know that I will be attacked from both sides vs just one. But part of the reason I am not part of the cliques is, because it took pushing everyone away, to see how quickly it takes one woman (more often women) to comment on something, and then all her friends to come attack that person/comment etc, without even really knowing both sides. I've been guilty of that and I'm ashamed of that.

This started in the personals. I have watched a lot of this unfold. There is no side of this that is innocent. They all tore each other apart.
For those of us who have posted pictures in AMpics. We put ourselves out there. But for us to expect everyone is going to like us, is stupid. (yes, we are insecure and needy and have low fucking self esteem, so we hope for it cause we are idiots) But we hope that those who don't, will just follow the "If you can't say something nice. Don't say anything at all" rule, and move along.

But another thing I've learned. When I started my own AMpics thread. MANY guys really will tell you what you want to hear, in hopes of you showing more, and more skin the next time. They will tell you the same thing that they are going to go cut and paste to every girl in AMpics. But you also learn the ones who actually mean what they say, and try and individualize their comments to you.

There are a handful of people on this board who have taught me that always hearing what I want to hear, and never what I need to hear, hurts me more in the long run. If everyone thought I was so perfect, I wouldn't be here begging for attention, but, here I am.

I've had mean things said about my pictures before, and yes, I ran crying. To my friends. Not the whole board. (Cause remember, girls talk, so if some asshole hurt you in some way, your friends all know now) I didn't have to out him as an asshole, because everyone else had already told me he was. Yes, We all want to out the assholes, and bitches and I've been one of those bitches myself. I"m trying to change that.
But nothing changes when we can't admit our own fault in shit like this. No ONE person started this.
So Shi has small nipples, Bock is an asshole. I'm fucking fat, with saggy. uneven tits. (I could go on..)
Have these two ever talked one on one and just hashed it out between themselves??
Everyone already knows that my self admitted, asshole of a best friend is an "Asshole" But he tells me what I don't want to hear, when I need to hear it. He is WAY too fucking honest, but sometimes I admire his ability to say what I wish I could. The difference is he doesn't care what people think of him, or his opinions, and I always have. He avoids me on Lit because he knows how people feel about him, and he doesn't want people to dislike me because of him. He asked me not to post in here, because people would lump me in with him.

But the truth is. Almost EVERYONE jumped in here to defend Shi because she is a female and apparently incapable of defending herself, or just letting it go. Fight with him in private, who knows. Maybe you'll find out you both have demons that you could help each other overcome.

This place has stopped being a place to help each other. We knock each other down. I started a thread this year (which flopped) because women, especially, would rather put each other down. Be negative, be jealous and hurtful. Vs just being friendly to one another. The whole damn board has forgotten, that we are almost all here for the same reasons in some fashion. Being honest is so much better than lying. Being kind is better than cruel and mean.

So either fight it out, and tell me what it accomplishes, or let it go. I'll gladly invite Bock to come name call me (as long as he's honest) if it shuts up the Pig pile of name calling.

 

[glBock]

thank you for your comments, Sassy!

Tell me one good reson why I should name call you?

yours was most likely the best and most well-thought-out comment that anybody left here. That is why I am thnking you.

It would certainly be great, if more people like you roamed the boards here.