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When you are making-love with your partner do you try to time it so you release together?
 
In the early days this seemed very important to me, and we managed it most of the time, but nowadays it doesn't seem like such a big deal, and depends on what specific activity we are engaged in. If I am licking her pussy, I will most often lick her to orgasm first, knowing that most times she will have a second climax if we are fucking a few minutes later. Sometimes though, I do love to cum while she is riding my face and I am slurping pussy like there's no tomorrow, then I will often stroke myself and time my orgasm to coincide with hers, that is awesome!
 
Um...ok. I try to time my release with hers. Just something about fininishing together.
 
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When you are making-love with your partner do you try to time it so you release together?

Not especially, no. If someone finishes early, it's not difficult to make it up later.
 
That is is true and not everyone is going to be able to do that. Timing I mean.
 
I don't go out of my way to do that. It happens maybe 20% of the time? It's not intentional for me but she may be trying to time it. I've never asked her. It's nice when it happens but it's not any kind of goal for me.

Mostly I just try to make sure that she's had hers before I get mine. Mostly...
 
When you are making-love with your partner do you try to time it so you release together?

Can't. My man wants to make sure I've come more than once before he's ready to release!
 
Yeah. For me timing is important but everyone is different in that regard. I do want my partner to enjoy herself and if she gets there ahead of me then it is all good. Sometimes you can be on two totally different levels. I dated a girl very briefly who always felt bad that she climaxed twice before I did. Sweet girl. Not sure whatever happened to her as I lost contact. Anyway MM057, thanks for the reply
 
I'm not sure about him, but it usually works out that way :) More often than not, I have already cum at least 2 or 3 times before we have sex. I can't complain ;)
 
Hmmm. That is nice Cookie. Sounds like you keep yourself satisifed quite a bit.
 
Depends on the lover, I have had some guys that get me off and then like me to finish them with oral or my breast or even my feet. I have enjoyed other guys that loose it early but will go down on me and please me orally. Rarely is it ever at the same time.
 
as long as I have already come several times I like the final big one to be together.
 
It is hard to "time it" _ but most women want to experience it "together"
 
Not anymore.

Besides, she averages 6-8 orgasms. I WISH I could cum that much.

She once had 102 orgasms in one session. Her previous record was 42. She has not approached that in many years.
 
it's nice when it happens but not that important to me and my OL:rose:, can work at it during intercourse if we're both in the mood. easier and sometimes planned for us to cum together while masturbating or if one of us is going down on the other! she sometimes likes to tease me or edge me whilst (just had to toss that word in) giving head and using a vibe on herself, she can control both of our orgasms that way and i've no complaints about it! more than a few times i've cum (semi-intentionally) whilst going down on her when she gets off (she's very vocal) and shot a load on the sheets or whatever my cock is touching, surprised me the first time, too!
 
By the way, I've trained my man's body to be multi-orgasmic. I drive him insane before his "finale"!

very cool, too many men get off once and are done, most don't think or try for more than that. i guess i'm self trained but my OL:rose: certainly enjoys it!
 
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