For those who have always had a vanilla approach to sex, what factor made you want to explore something more with your partner in bed and also involving other people? After these fantasies came up to your mind, with no point of return, at some moment did you have any feeling of guilt? If so, what did you do to deal with it?
Any guilt of having fantasies with your partner and other people?
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I'm not vanilla by any means, I just love exploration in general no matter who my partner is. I certainly don't feel guilt about a fantasy. We all have them. If someone else doesn't share mine, that's their right.
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I definatly fantasize when I mistreated. But I've never fantasized about being with anyone other than the woman I'm with.
If you can't be with the one you love love the one your with. CSN
If you can't be with the one you love love the one your with. CSN
My x would go out after work and occasionally fuck other guys. It crushed me. But one night I was sitting around waiting for her to get home, totally heart broken and I started stroking, I'm not sure why but the thought of what she could be doing at that moment Sent me over the edge. I came so fucking hard.
We divorced soon after and I remarried. I've fantasized about watching my current wife fuck other guys ever since we got married.
We divorced soon after and I remarried. I've fantasized about watching my current wife fuck other guys ever since we got married.
Never had any guilt about our fantasy. My husband and I have for several years enjoyed threesomes with other gents especially with a W/E BBC. Threesomes have been the best sexual experience we have ever had.
But even after the first threesome experience, or when the idea came up to your (or his) mind, was it a natural process? No other feelings or insecurities?
I'm not vanilla, at all. I've never felt guilty for any of my fantasies. I'm into exhibitionism and CFNM. I have shared these thoughts in the past with mixed results.
My late wife enjoyed talking about my fantasies and worked to make some of them become reality. Neither of us wanted to share the other. We just wanted to have fun, and we did.
We had many discussions about her inviting her friends to see her control of me and my exposure. We never actually had anyone come and enjoy our fun. She offered many scenarios where she would tell me who she would like to invite to watch me jerk off for them or watch her jerk me off while they watched. She could never commit to going through with it. We still had a lot of fun with just the two of us playing.
Her most interesting suggestion was to invite her aunt. That woman was crazy, in a good way, and I'm sure she would have jumped at this. We decided not to go there because she would have told everyone she knew about it. It's still fun to fantasize about that one.
My late wife enjoyed talking about my fantasies and worked to make some of them become reality. Neither of us wanted to share the other. We just wanted to have fun, and we did.
We had many discussions about her inviting her friends to see her control of me and my exposure. We never actually had anyone come and enjoy our fun. She offered many scenarios where she would tell me who she would like to invite to watch me jerk off for them or watch her jerk me off while they watched. She could never commit to going through with it. We still had a lot of fun with just the two of us playing.
Her most interesting suggestion was to invite her aunt. That woman was crazy, in a good way, and I'm sure she would have jumped at this. We decided not to go there because she would have told everyone she knew about it. It's still fun to fantasize about that one.
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Yes, I do this all the time though I know getting more people involved in your bedroom just might be disastrous. I've enjoyed being gangbanged so much and watching other gangbangs so I just can't stop thinking of it and rubbing myself hard like a dirty whore.
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Oh, totally, it's very hot to think of your partner watching you get used and them getting used in front of you too while you're made to watch, then both of you have to lick all that hot delicious cum and spit from each other.
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Oh, I love it very much. She was the cheater comment or for me to eat sloppy seconds.
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I think we both love it, eating that hot creampie after watching your lover get fucked and gangbanged for hours until they're covered in cum could be so exciting, and then fucking them later.
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Even eating it off their titties, pussy and arsehole.
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I don't feel guilty about fantasizing about other women one bit. ..And I encourage my wife to fantasize about other people too. It's a totally normal and healthy thing to do so we lean into it.
A few weeks ago while doing doggy I stuck a dildo on the head-board (it has a suction cup base) and encouraged my wife to suck it as I pumped in and out and told her to imagine she's being shared with RegƩ Jean-Page (The Duke from Bridgerton) - her celebrity crush. She loved it! ..In fact, she continued sucking it even I after I came and pulled out.
As I see it, thinking, fantasizing, and pretending we're having sex with other people helps keep our pilot lights lit so we remain interested in sex with each other - which can be a challenge after the decades go by.
And my wife knows this with certainty. ..While we might fantasize about sex with other people, I couldn't for one minute imagine loving another woman as deeply as I love her. She's the best
A few weeks ago while doing doggy I stuck a dildo on the head-board (it has a suction cup base) and encouraged my wife to suck it as I pumped in and out and told her to imagine she's being shared with RegƩ Jean-Page (The Duke from Bridgerton) - her celebrity crush. She loved it! ..In fact, she continued sucking it even I after I came and pulled out.
As I see it, thinking, fantasizing, and pretending we're having sex with other people helps keep our pilot lights lit so we remain interested in sex with each other - which can be a challenge after the decades go by.
And my wife knows this with certainty. ..While we might fantasize about sex with other people, I couldn't for one minute imagine loving another woman as deeply as I love her. She's the best
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Guilt , what's guilt ?
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