ms_ann_thrope
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Stro, stro, stro, stro...sometimes you just need the k.
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Dear Alice,
I was wondering about the depth of the vagina. I've read statistics that say that the average vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deep. This seems way too small to me, since the average penis is considerably longer than that. Wouldn't that mean that most penises would crash into the cervix repeatedly during intercourse? Since this obviously doesn't happen, my question is this: does the vagina actually elongate during intercourse to accommodate the entire length of the average penis?
Dear Reader,
Yes, just as the vagina has the capacity to expand, allowing for the passage of a baby during childbirth, the vagina also has the ability to elongate during intercourse to accommodate a penis. As you mentioned, for some women, the depth from the vaginal opening to the tip of the cervix is 3 to 4 inches when they are not sexually aroused. Other women may have a vaginal depth of five to seven inches. Regardless, during arousal, blood flows to the genital area, and sexual excitement causes the upper two-thirds of the vagina to lengthen by forcing the cervix and uterus to ascend. The vagina also lubricates to help ease penetration.
Some people think that the vaginal canal is a continuously open space. However, this is a misperception. Think of the vaginal canal as if it were a balloon that is not filled with any air. The walls, which have the potential to expand and elongate, gently touch one another. When something is placed inside, they mold around the width and accommodate the length of a penis, tampon, finger(s), or sex toy.
Sometimes during penetration, a penis or other object inserted in a vagina does hit the cervix. This may be an indication that the woman is not physiologically aroused enough; when she is more aroused, her vagina will elongate and her cervix, the neck of the uterus, will lift up and move out of the way. Other times, contact with the cervix can happen if a penis is larger than average or if the thrusting is too deep. Communicating with a partner about the discomfort — "Ouch, that's a little too deep" — and changing sexual positions may be helpful.
I haven't exactly found many of them but I managed to make things work out...or in as the case may have been.
Do you stand outside the bedroom door and support the shaft halfway on a sawhorse?
I wonder if men can feel it when they bang on the cervix door.
Well you or someone could start a poll.
I can and tend to Back off a tad and/or change the position or angle of the dangle.
If the geometry is compatible and with the proper motion, you can do swirlies around the knob. That's new math.
In my experience, no, I have not felt it when I have been told I am hitting it.I wonder if men can feel it when they bang on the cervix door.
I wonder if men can feel it when they bang on the cervix door.
Someone's knocking at the door, somebody's ringing the bell, someone's knocking at the door, somebody's ringing the bell, do me a favor, open the door and let 'em in.
Tapping on the door might get a kind response, a banging most certainly not...
I wonder if men can feel it when they bang on the cervix door.
This always gives me pause. Maybe something changed in my hard wiring after baby #2 for how I process this kind of pain, but damned if it doesn't register as a good old "FUCK YES!", when the warm up has been good.
With that in mind, I've said it before and I'll say it again:
"There's always two parts of intercourse that really GET to me, first is the initial penetration. That long, slow press to gain an inch, then a withdrawal, then another firm press forward for another. I love that feeling of having a cock forcing it's way past rippling, convulsing muscle to get where it wants to go. It makes me mindless, and I often come just from that first invasion.
And the second part....when he's close enough that he's forgotten gentility and he's now simply focused on getting maximum depth with each thrust. Hilting into me with each one, where the smack of his sac against my ass is so damn satisfying that he growls with approval. Fuck I love that!
Scoop my knees up now and thump against my cervix, I'll come harder if it hurts just a little."