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[lettinggo]

Sandyb and I have the opposite problem. I bruise easily, and have found out recently that a decent spanking leaves me with a lovely spray of little broken blood vessels mixed with bruises. I've gotten them from a hand and a wooden paddle. I absolutely can't have any more unexplainable marks. So far we've had luck with a denim flogger, which I love, but the bite just isn't the same.

I'm looking for suggestions for creative s&m without marks. We play with rope and candle wax and knives. Anyone have great luck with 'markless' pain play? I've looked in the library, but I didn't see anything on this topic.

 

[pventola]

have you tried a wide leather crop the leather spreads out the swat

 

[catalina_francisco]

Graceanne says peanut oil removes the bruising almost instantly.....there are also some creams you can get that are said to do the same. Good luck.

Catalina

 

[starla{TDM}]

HI!!

Horsehair floggers can be alot of fun to play with, if you purchase a smaller one it will have the capabilities to mark, but a larger one say 3/4 pound or more is thuddy and will rarely mark.

Deer Floggers are very soft and sensual also, more of a bite then your denim flogger, but should not mark.

Rabbit floggers are great warm up, and a tickler used on the genitial area can actually be painful, and once again no marks.

When purchasing floggers, especially to NOT mark, try to buy one with wider lashers, and more lashes for they tend to be thuddy and leave less marks. Also ask about the leather, an 8 ounce leather IS going to mark regardless of whether you have 9 lashes or 101 lashes. A 3 ounce leather is less likely to mark.

When using paddles do not use the paddles with holes and if you must then purchase one in which the holes have been bevelled, they too will be less likely to mark. Once again find out about the leather. Shark is harsher then Bison which is harsher then cow, which is harsher then suede ect ect. If you do not want marks, avoid wooden paddles altogether. There are hundreds of good well made leather paddles on the market, each with a different level of pain and most should not mark.

There also is numerous breast implements that you can play with that do not mark. Try an aluminium breast vice, or independent wooden vices, both of these toys can range from pleasureable to painful and should not mark.

Hope this helps!

be good
starla{TDM}
forever His

 

[lettinggo]

Thanks for the input!

Catalina - I'm going to try the peanut oil next time there's an accidental mark. Unfortunately I read that thread a day or two after I was well bruised. I didn't realize how effective it is. If it works that great, maybe I'll just keep the toys I love and stock up.

 

[TaintedB]

There's always the old wet towel trick. Get a towel or a thinner cotton cloth really wet, put it over your butt, and then tell your dom have at you. You can be hit very very hard (and in fact it hurts more with that wet towel for some reason) and you usually won't bruise.

 

[lettinggo]

Seriously?!? Now *that* is what I'm looking for! Thanks!

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Anyone have great luck with 'markless' pain play? I've looked in the library, but I didn't see anything on this topic.

Three physical locations.

• Nipples
• Genitals
• Anus

and then the most dangerous area of all ... the mind.

 

[Netzach]

Three physical locations.

• Nipples
• Genitals
• Anus

and then the most dangerous area of all ... the mind.

I also like the hands and the soles of the feet. And I've had good luck administering hard beatings over lycra shorts or pants.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I also like the hands and the soles of the feet.

How did you keep the feet from swelling Q-bow?

 

[Netzach]

How did you keep the feet from swelling Q-bow?

eek... luckily my pain puppies weren't able to take much, in a word, not THAT hard. Just a little, relentlessly, was enough.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

eek... luckily my pain puppies weren't able to take much, in a word, not THAT hard. Just a little, relentlessly, was enough.

*chuckle* ok, and if the feet in question swelled/bruised easily? i'd think relentlessly would put them in loafers or sandals for a few days.

 

[timberwolf05]

Three physical locations.

• Nipples
• Genitals
• Anus

and then the most dangerous area of all ... the mind.

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i'm safe. i lost MY mind years ago.



the wolf