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abbey_kyle said:I hate posting pics so near JK's shot...she does, indeed, have a perfect set of...whatever you all want to call them. I use "tits" myself but prefer "breasts" when actually in the act of sex. There is something about hearing a man or woman say "You have great tits" that I find offensive. In general conversation, tits is fine. Anyway, for this afternoon:
NondescriptInCT said:I can only speak from a guy's perspective, and mine may not necessarily by stereotypical, but here goes on the great "what do we call em?" debate: For me, it gets back to context (again). For example, look at the attachment. To me, she is showing us her boobies. The look on her face and her smile connotate innocence, and when there is innocence, they are boobies.
NondescriptInCT said:Okay, so innocence = boobies to me. The next level has to be boobs. This is used by a guy when discussing breasts in a non-sexual familiar way WITH WOMEN. That is key - we are highly unlikely to refer to them as boobs when discussing them with other men - we would get thrown out of the fraternity or have a large keg of beer appear from nowhere and squish us. So, again using an attachment as an example, in conversation with a woman, I would say "Did you notice how much smaller Demi Moore's boobs used to be?"
NondescriptInCT said:Okay, if you're still with me, we've covered boobies (innocence) and boobs (non-sexual conversation with women). Next are tits and titties. As others have noted, these are the same but based on size. This is what the stereotypical male uses when discussing boobs with men. The woman in the attachment as a great set of tits. HOWEVER, we won't use it in conversation with women unless given the green light in fear of appearing overly crude or crass. They are boobs or breasts with women until THEY say something like "squeeze my tits." From that point forward, they are tits with that woman. You may think "hey, what about the shouts and signs during Mardi Gras?" Well, if you are the type of woman to flash your breasts for beads, then you don't have a problem with showing us your tits. Besides, that is a purely anonymous environment anyway.
NondescriptInCT said:Okay, if you're still with me, we've covered boobies (innocence) and boobs (non-sexual conversation with women). Next are tits and titties. As others have noted, these are the same but based on size. This is what the stereotypical male uses when discussing boobs with men. The woman in the attachment as a great set of tits. HOWEVER, we won't use it in conversation with women unless given the green light in fear of appearing overly crude or crass. They are boobs or breasts with women until THEY say something like "squeeze my tits." From that point forward, they are tits with that woman. You may think "hey, what about the shouts and signs during Mardi Gras?" Well, if you are the type of woman to flash your breasts for beads, then you don't have a problem with showing us your tits. Besides, that is a purely anonymous environment anyway.
NondescriptInCT said:Recapping: boobies (innocence), boobs (non-sexual discussion with women), tits (objectification with men, sexual discussion with women), and the derivatives of tits. That leaves breasts. Breasts are best. They satisfy non-sexual conversation requirements by being almost clinical in nature. You are at least as unlikely getting into trouble discussing breasts with a woman as you would be discussing boobs. With guys, it is a way to ensure those with certain convictions aren't put off by using tits, but still allows breasts to be discussed. And when having sex, both you and your partner can (and should) discuss everything that should be done with the breasts. For example, in the attachment, I can imagine that, between passionate kisses, one of them might have said something like "don't forget my breasts."
NondescriptInCT said:https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=548144
To me, she is showing us her boobies. The look on her face and her smile connotate innocence, and when there is innocence, they are boobies.
namron711 said:"Oh yeah, suck on my tits baby. Fuck my hot pussy with your hard cock. Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard."
abbey_kyle said:And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?
Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.
abbey_kyle said:And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?
Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.
I want to cum on your tits. You have my word on it.Jennifer Kaye said:Sometimes, and I stress this is only sometimes, I for one find it arousing to be talked to in a crass, derogatory manner. Such language will grow tiresome very quickly, though ... and it most certainly won't do it for me if I'm not in a particular mood for it.
By the same token, talking crass and derogatory is not my thing. There might be occasion where I will, in a taunting sort of way, say things like, "Mmmmm, so you want to cum on my tits, do you", but that too is not very often. For me, I usually just stay silent, perhaps with some gentle moans as the pleasurable feelings overtake me.
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namron711 said:But why Abbey, would you use the term 'tits' in everyday conversation, yet use the term 'breasts' in bed???
In answer to your question, Abbey, I think you would be surprised if you asked around. I think rather more do than don't.abbey_kyle said:And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?
Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.
abbey_kyle said:... But then, I seldom make love to a cock. I fuck a cock. And I fuck a cock hard. But never have I told a man to "shoot his wad" all over my "tits".