Nipples

Preferred Colour of (f) nipple

  • light pink

    Votes: 2,876 32.0%
  • dark pink

    Votes: 2,465 27.5%
  • light brown

    Votes: 2,119 23.6%
  • dark brown

    Votes: 1,518 16.9%

  • Total voters
    8,978
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Off on vacation for a few days. See you all soon!
 
Good morning, everybody. Here it is, Monday again. How about something to take your minds off the drudgery of going back to work. I have one for the straight ladies and one for wet t-shirt fans.
 
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abbey_kyle said:
I hate posting pics so near JK's shot...she does, indeed, have a perfect set of...whatever you all want to call them. I use "tits" myself but prefer "breasts" when actually in the act of sex. There is something about hearing a man or woman say "You have great tits" that I find offensive. In general conversation, tits is fine. Anyway, for this afternoon:

I can only speak from a guy's perspective, and mine may not necessarily by stereotypical, but here goes on the great "what do we call em?" debate: For me, it gets back to context (again). For example, look at the attachment. To me, she is showing us her boobies. The look on her face and her smile connotate innocence, and when there is innocence, they are boobies.
 
After boobies...

NondescriptInCT said:
I can only speak from a guy's perspective, and mine may not necessarily by stereotypical, but here goes on the great "what do we call em?" debate: For me, it gets back to context (again). For example, look at the attachment. To me, she is showing us her boobies. The look on her face and her smile connotate innocence, and when there is innocence, they are boobies.

Okay, so innocence = boobies to me. The next level has to be boobs. This is used by a guy when discussing breasts in a non-sexual familiar way WITH WOMEN. That is key - we are highly unlikely to refer to them as boobs when discussing them with other men - we would get thrown out of the fraternity or have a large keg of beer appear from nowhere and squish us. So, again using an attachment as an example, in conversation with a woman, I would say "Did you notice how much smaller Demi Moore's boobs used to be?"
 
And boobs begat...

NondescriptInCT said:
Okay, so innocence = boobies to me. The next level has to be boobs. This is used by a guy when discussing breasts in a non-sexual familiar way WITH WOMEN. That is key - we are highly unlikely to refer to them as boobs when discussing them with other men - we would get thrown out of the fraternity or have a large keg of beer appear from nowhere and squish us. So, again using an attachment as an example, in conversation with a woman, I would say "Did you notice how much smaller Demi Moore's boobs used to be?"

Okay, if you're still with me, we've covered boobies (innocence) and boobs (non-sexual conversation with women). Next are tits and titties. As others have noted, these are the same but based on size. This is what the stereotypical male uses when discussing boobs with men. The woman in the attachment as a great set of tits. HOWEVER, we won't use it in conversation with women unless given the green light in fear of appearing overly crude or crass. They are boobs or breasts with women until THEY say something like "squeeze my tits." From that point forward, they are tits with that woman. You may think "hey, what about the shouts and signs during Mardi Gras?" Well, if you are the type of woman to flash your breasts for beads, then you don't have a problem with showing us your tits. Besides, that is a purely anonymous environment anyway.
 
Sophomoric side-trip...

NondescriptInCT said:
Okay, if you're still with me, we've covered boobies (innocence) and boobs (non-sexual conversation with women). Next are tits and titties. As others have noted, these are the same but based on size. This is what the stereotypical male uses when discussing boobs with men. The woman in the attachment as a great set of tits. HOWEVER, we won't use it in conversation with women unless given the green light in fear of appearing overly crude or crass. They are boobs or breasts with women until THEY say something like "squeeze my tits." From that point forward, they are tits with that woman. You may think "hey, what about the shouts and signs during Mardi Gras?" Well, if you are the type of woman to flash your breasts for beads, then you don't have a problem with showing us your tits. Besides, that is a purely anonymous environment anyway.

At this point, we must digress. Now that tits have been exposed, we must acknowledge the plethora of synonyms. These are for too numerous to list here, but are all used in similar context to tits and titties. Mellons, orbs, golden orbs, pillows, hooters, fun-bags, cans, etc., etc., etc. are all male-originated spin-offs of tits and titties. For example, the girl in the attachment has a lovely set of fun-bags that any guy in his right mind would love to workout with endlessly. Of course, we are more than eager to adopt such playfull banter with our partner if she is so willing. I don't know any guy that would hesitate squirt his love juice all over a woman's mellons if so ordered.
 
{I hate posting pics so near JK's shot...she does, indeed, have a perfect set of...whatever you all want to call them. I use "tits" myself but prefer "breasts" when actually in the act of sex. There is something about hearing a man or woman say "You have great tits" that I find offensive. In general conversation, tits is fine. }

I think that this discussion typifies the difference between men and women as to their perspectives about women's "breasts". I use quotation marks because that word and what it references is the basis of this discussion.

Women apparently do not perceive their breasts with the same reverence that men do. To women breasts are just things on their chest that happen to feel good when played with. They apparently are somewhat embarrassed by them, thus calling them 'boobs'. If we call tv a boob tube, why would we call breasts 'boobs'....wrong image being portrayed. This would be tantamount to a guy calling his penis a 'weenie', instead of a 'cock'. Maybe it's just my opinion, but 'tits' seems to be the most sensual term for breasts, regardless of their size.

On the other hand, Abby, I feel as though your statement is 180' off. In normal conversation, they should be referred to as breasts. During intimacy, they are tits. Except for rare exception, saying 'breasts' does not ignite the flame that saying 'tits' would.

EX: 'Oh dear, would you be a sport and fondle my breasts please. After that, be a gentleman and administer your penis to my vagina so that I might experience an orgasm."

as opposed to:

"Oh yeah, suck on my tits baby. Fuck my hot pussy with your hard cock. Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard."

 
The breast term...

NondescriptInCT said:
Okay, if you're still with me, we've covered boobies (innocence) and boobs (non-sexual conversation with women). Next are tits and titties. As others have noted, these are the same but based on size. This is what the stereotypical male uses when discussing boobs with men. The woman in the attachment as a great set of tits. HOWEVER, we won't use it in conversation with women unless given the green light in fear of appearing overly crude or crass. They are boobs or breasts with women until THEY say something like "squeeze my tits." From that point forward, they are tits with that woman. You may think "hey, what about the shouts and signs during Mardi Gras?" Well, if you are the type of woman to flash your breasts for beads, then you don't have a problem with showing us your tits. Besides, that is a purely anonymous environment anyway.

Recapping: boobies (innocence), boobs (non-sexual discussion with women), tits (objectification with men, sexual discussion with women), and the derivatives of tits. That leaves breasts. Breasts are best. They satisfy non-sexual conversation requirements by being almost clinical in nature. You are at least as unlikely getting into trouble discussing breasts with a woman as you would be discussing boobs. With guys, it is a way to ensure those with certain convictions aren't put off by using tits, but still allows breasts to be discussed. And when having sex, both you and your partner can (and should) discuss everything that should be done with the breasts. For example, in the attachment, I can imagine that, between passionate kisses, one of them might have said something like "don't forget my breasts."
 
The holy grail...

NondescriptInCT said:
Recapping: boobies (innocence), boobs (non-sexual discussion with women), tits (objectification with men, sexual discussion with women), and the derivatives of tits. That leaves breasts. Breasts are best. They satisfy non-sexual conversation requirements by being almost clinical in nature. You are at least as unlikely getting into trouble discussing breasts with a woman as you would be discussing boobs. With guys, it is a way to ensure those with certain convictions aren't put off by using tits, but still allows breasts to be discussed. And when having sex, both you and your partner can (and should) discuss everything that should be done with the breasts. For example, in the attachment, I can imagine that, between passionate kisses, one of them might have said something like "don't forget my breasts."

Having said WAY more than most people on this site care about, let me wrap up by saying that all of this is useless over-generalization that many people will disagree with (rightly so). ITS ALL ABOUT THE NIPPLES. Man, she has great nipples. Did you see her nipples sticking out? You can start by sucking my nipples!
 
namron711 said:
"Oh yeah, suck on my tits baby. Fuck my hot pussy with your hard cock. Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard."

And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?

Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.
 
For crying out loud(quietly)

With all the breasts being displayed here, it certanly becomes very obvious that the perfect nipple exists on every breast it's on...imagine swapping nipples with someone? The results would be less than satisfying...so is in it's own "setting". Now how does that sound?...[/FONT]
 
abbey_kyle said:
And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?

Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.

Sometimes, and I stress this is only sometimes, I for one find it arousing to be talked to in a crass, derogatory manner. Such language will grow tiresome very quickly, though ... and it most certainly won't do it for me if I'm not in a particular mood for it.

By the same token, talking crass and derogatory is not my thing. There might be occasion where I will, in a taunting sort of way, say things like, "Mmmmm, so you want to cum on my tits, do you", but that too is not very often. For me, I usually just stay silent, perhaps with some gentle moans as the pleasurable feelings overtake me.

:)
 
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abbey_kyle said:
And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?

Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.

I think I've only written one story where a woman liked to be talked to that way, and it was written about one of my readers. She asked me to make up a story about group sex centered around her and that she wanted to tak dirty and be talked dirty to.
 
Obviously my examples were extreme instances to express a point. But why Abbey, would you use the term 'tits' in everyday conversation, yet use the term 'breasts' in bed???
 
I do

Jennifer Kaye said:
Sometimes, and I stress this is only sometimes, I for one find it arousing to be talked to in a crass, derogatory manner. Such language will grow tiresome very quickly, though ... and it most certainly won't do it for me if I'm not in a particular mood for it.

By the same token, talking crass and derogatory is not my thing. There might be occasion where I will, in a taunting sort of way, say things like, "Mmmmm, so you want to cum on my tits, do you", but that too is not very often. For me, I usually just stay silent, perhaps with some gentle moans as the pleasurable feelings overtake me.

:)
I want to cum on your tits. You have my word on it.

Jim
 
namron711 said:
But why Abbey, would you use the term 'tits' in everyday conversation, yet use the term 'breasts' in bed???

I guess it's the difference between fucking and making love for me..."breasts" is not the clinical term to me that you noted in a previous post. I would not equate it with the same reaction I would have to 'vagina' for example. I think women's breasts are the most beautiful thing on the planet and the word itself conjures up pure, simple beauty for me.

[Likewise, 'cunt' is as beautiful a word for me--much more meaningful for me than 'pussy'. And knowing that the word 'cunt' itself has its orgin in goddess mythology only makes me want to reclaim it to its rightful place of beauty.]

I think much of these language differences we are noting has everything to do with gender...I make love to a woman probably very differently than how a man envisions love between two women. Like JK, only on some occassions would I "dirty it up" with a switch in terminology. On the overall, however, the naked female form is nothing but beauty for me. I just could not imagine telling the woman lying beneath me that I want to drink all night from her "tits".

I have no problem, however, calling a cock a cock. Dick, rod, penis...just doesn't do it. But then, I seldom make love to a cock. I fuck a cock. And I fuck a cock hard. But never have I told a man to "shoot his wad" all over my "tits".

I'm a language whore. I'm a writer, I teach writing. I am very particular about my erotica because of this....I can pretty much tell what erotica I will not like and it never has to do with the scene. It has everything to do with the language. Writers have to work hard to impress me. Occupational hazzard.
 
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abbey_kyle said:
And we are back to where the conversations always lead to on this thread: preference. If what you posted above were said anywhere near me, I would laugh that person right out of my bed. The last thing I would ever say in moments of intimacy is "Make me cum like the dirty, little slut that I am you bastard" That, to me, is just ridiculous and total male fantasy. I mean, really...what woman talks this way--of her own desire? I don't mean, to turn on the man she is with, perhaps, but what woman is geniunely aroused by this language?

Personally, I find it sophmoric and would be bored by it within seconds.
In answer to your question, Abbey, I think you would be surprised if you asked around. I think rather more do than don't.

Jim
 
abbey_kyle said:
... But then, I seldom make love to a cock. I fuck a cock. And I fuck a cock hard. But never have I told a man to "shoot his wad" all over my "tits".

Cocks fuck me, generally speaking. :)
 
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