Nice Guys......

If they are nice guys how can they be jerks? Thats not possible.

Thats like saying all the bad guys are the nicest.
 
Hmmm I am not really sure what you are asking.

Are guys who seem to be nice in the beginning always jerks?

Or are nice guys jerks for being nice?

In either case, I would say "not true."
 
Yeah...we nice guys can really whip up some moments of sheer bastardness.

Of course, when we're not nice, it's seen as worse than it is, ebcause you end up comparing it with all the niceness we've done. It's worse in contrast than if a bad guy does a bad thing.

And it's also a shock to see a nice guy turn jerk.
 
JazzManJim said:
Yeah...we nice guys can really whip up some moments of sheer bastardness.

Of course, when we're not nice, it's seen as worse than it is, ebcause you end up comparing it with all the niceness we've done. It's worse in contrast than if a bad guy does a bad thing.

And it's also a shock to see a nice guy turn jerk.

What Jim said...;) :devil:
 
What can we say... Nice guys have bad moments. Bad guys have nice moments.... We get confused sometimes ourselves.
 
I'm the typical "niceguy".

Yes ma'am, no ma'am, bring you ice-cream when your upset, read to you when your sick, rub your feet when you are tired, the whole nine yard's.

Nice guys aren't jerks. The one thing I can say they are, is taken for granted.
 
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Re: I'm the typical "niceguy".

JaymesBlond007 said:
Yes ma'am, no ma'am, bring you ice-cream when your upset, read to you when your sick, rub your feet when you are tired, the whole nine yard's.

Nice guys aren't jerks. The one thing I can say the are, is taken for granted.

I like ice cream when I am sick, btw. Don't ask me why, it just is what makes my tummy settle.


Seriously, good point. Nice guys, do get taken for granted too often as do nice gals! *sigh*
 
NeoMeiouSetsuna said:
Is it just me or do nice guys turned out to be the biggest jerks.

Depends on whether you mean nice guys or "nice" guys.

Nice guys want to be your friend, maybe someday it'll build into a relationship, fraught with all kinds of hot, steamy sex, maybe not. Either way, they're happy at having some kind of relationship.

"Nice" guys act like they want to be your friend because they're angling on either getting into your pants in the immediate future, or they want to put you on the backburner so that when they get tired of fucking the woman they're with right now you can be next.

Nice guys Can be jerks. What usually Pushes us to being jerks is when people realize we're nice and take advantage of it. When you push even a nice guy too far, he Will snap.

"Nice" guys are jerks in Nice guy clothing. They're jerk through and through, and once the "nice" facade wears off, you'll realize it.

The challenge is figuring out whether a guy is nice or "nice".
 
Shane said:
sorry...that was nice PEOPLE don't exist


You must have been locked up in a box away from the rest of the world if you actually believe that. Yes they do exist. I've known plenty. Nice ppl just have bad days sometimes and everybody can't be nice all the time.


Brat
 
It took me a long time to finally meet a nice guy in the first place!!!!!!!

All I can say is that now that I have him and will be meeting him in March all I want to do is spoil him rotten! He has been taken advantage of by a lot of women. I would like to show a nice guy what it means to be in love with a nice woman that adores you!:heart: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Re: I'm the typical "niceguy".

JaymesBlond007 said:
Yes ma'am, no ma'am, bring you ice-cream when your upset, read to you when your sick, rub your feet when you are tired, the whole nine yard's.

So when are you comin over?

Cuz I'm sick :( and tired :( and achey :(


I'll leave the door unlocked ;)

*edited to add my $.02*

Nice guys DO exist. And it's impossible for a nice guy to BE a jerk. He may behave like a jerk now and then, but that doesn't make him one. There's a big difference between having moments and something being a personality trait.

If you're letting yourself get pulled into the 'nice guy act' by assholes, you maybe need to think about the type of man you're attracted to, and how well you know them before your emotions get involved.
 
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Nice guys have moments of stupidity... Moments of weakness. Nice doesn't mean perfect.
 
SweetBrat73 said:
Have to agree with that!!! Sam is one sexy man!!! :D
Elizabeth and SweetBrat73, don't we have great taste ;) And wouldn't we love to taste him :p
 
I'm usually looked upon as a nice guy..

And yes I can be a prick too.

It all comes with the package.
 
Oh god, woe is me, I just found out I dont exist anymore, I'm like a dinosaur. :confused: :confused: :confused:
 
Extinct?

Draco said:
Oh god, woe is me, I just found out I dont exist anymore, I'm like a dinosaur. :confused: :confused: :confused:

Go figure, eh? Better extinct than a figment of someone's illiterate ramblings... :D
 
Just remember that when you meet a nice guy your very existance in his immediate life will change him a degree. Same for women.
 
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